Capricorn Girls?

Hello Capricorn Girls, Ladies (no cap men please 😛 ) 😄

I'm talking to this Capricorn Girl, who is 5 and half years younger than me.. neighbor's daughter. 😛 We see each other everyday from a distance but don't talk. Found her on Facebook (not that I am romantically attracted to her) , since then we've been talking online.

Though i'm not really into her and think she is too young for me, she seems more into me. Like even when I talk like i'm more detached to her, she just ends the conversation with 'had a nice time..'

And I on the other hand, couldn't resist talking to her. We just talk a lot of stuff and never get bored. Do you think this will lead to a romantic relationship etc.? I'm scared. :/

Thanks for any advice guys!

- Taurus

So you see her from a distance
Dont talk to her
Are not into her(You said this twice)
Yet you put effort into finding her online.

Now the two of you talk
You can't resist talking to her
Plus you are the one who searched her
Now after your advances you are worried that she's more into you?
Now how in the world could that happen? lol

Why don't you just admit that you like the girl?

Also, why are you scared?

Also why are you asking us where it'll lead? You have a little control over that, and according to you, you don't "like her like that" and you think she's too young. By your feelings, it sounds like it will lead no where.

Posted by lnana04
So you see her from a distance
Dont talk to her
Are not into her(You said this twice)
Yet you put effort into finding her online.

Now the two of you talk
You can't resist talking to her
Plus you are the one who searched her
Now after your advances you are worried that she's more into you?
Now how in the world could that happen? lol

Why don't you just admit that you like the girl?

Also, why are you scared?

Word...

Posted by Metoo
Sounds like a classic case of you see the girl maybe catching feelings so instead of making it clear tht friendship is the ONLY thing your interested in, your stringing her along, curious to find out how far you can take it, and perhaps it even builds yor ego a bit that she seems eager?
If your just not into her...dont make her chase you. Talk less, and make the friendship aspect SUPER CRYSTAL CLEAR...then all is well with the world! Or...admit you like her...easy! LOL

(hope that didnt sound harsh or anything but the next thing you know she will find this board and start posting how she is super confused abot a guy who gave signals that he liked her etc. etc. lol)

Ahh, you know, even as I posted what I did I couldn't really figure out what was going on here. I just know it doesn't make sense lol, but if these are his intentions then your post explains it perfectly.

I agree with Metoo now. Comrade, if you know it's not going to go anywhere on your end then let her know, or leave her alone. See, I don't really understand the motive of finding her on facebook and becoming close if you KNOW you don't want anything with her. wth? lol.

Its more of a " hay, I am the mid twenties guy , need to be cool and adult and I shouldn't really date a barely legal girl but I kind of sort of am attracted to her well not really just when no one's looking or looks like no ones looking anyway. In other words he's just being a guy. Guys don't have their shit together.

Posted by Metoo

Posted by lnana04

Posted by Metoo
Sounds like a classic case of you see the girl maybe catching feelings so instead of making it clear tht friendship is the ONLY thing your interested in, your stringing her along, curious to find out how far you can take it, and perhaps it even builds yor ego a bit that she seems eager?
If your just not into her...dont make her chase you. Talk less, and make the friendship aspect SUPER CRYSTAL CLEAR...then all is well with the world! Or...admit you like her...easy! LOL

(hope that didnt sound harsh or anything but the next thing you know she will find this board and start posting how she is super confused abot a guy who gave signals that he liked her etc. etc. lol)

Ahh, you know, even as I posted what I did I couldn't really figure out what was going on here. I just know it doesn't make sense lol, but if these are his intentions then your post explains it perfectly.

I agree with Metoo now. Comrade, if you know it's not going to go anywhere on your end then let her know, or leave her alone. See, I don't really understand the motive of finding her on facebook and becoming close if you KNOW you don't want anything with her. wth? lol.

Inana your so sweet, I love your posts 🙂

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Aww, thank you! I love your posts too!!

Thanks for all the wonderful response guys! You all made me face the truth.. lol

lnana04 & Metoo,

I searched her online cuz thought she liked me. Now i'm scared because of the pace it's going. I mean.. it's only been three days and we're talking like friends for years. I admit I like her, but the fact that she is about 6 years younger than me, makes me feel.. awkward! What shall I do? :/ I mean what she might me thinking? I don't want to hurt her.

NotaNewbie,

😉 🙂

scorchedearth,

Yes, i'm a Taurus. She is a good match, for sure. Man I can see that unfolding in front of my eyes. But.. this is tooo fast for me. *sigh*

Posted by Metoo
your stringing her along, curious to find out how far you can take it, and perhaps it even builds yor ego a bit that she seems eager?

Well, you're too frank. I hate that. Perhaps that's what I wanted to do first.. like you said.. lets see how far this can go! But didn't expect i'll get hooked up like this. 😢

you searched for her cause you liked her not the other way around be honest with yourself

once you connect with someone yea conversations will seem like you both have know each other for years.But we caps got that gift 🙂

make a move or just keep it at this pace getting to know each other better.shes a cap after all shes giving you her attention because she finds you interesting she will not rush into a relationship shes still figuring you out inside out.dont flake or she will bounce so get your head space right with what your intentions are.

Comrade, you sound like me a few months ago but in reverse. I was the older cap and he was the younger taurus.

Yeah, these two signs together can be something else in this kind situation. You kind of get wrapped and spun into something your unfamiliar with, which is complete comfort. You are uncomfortable with the age difference but like you said, you can't resist. Get use to lying to yourself a whole lot LoL, well, if you decide to continue.

Do you have the charts(as if I actually know how to read them lol)?

Jhene,

Can we skip the "you like her" part, please? 😄 It's making me nervous. Yeah. Caps got that gift, connecting to people on a whole new different level. But can they do this with everyone? or it seems to me so, because i'm a T ? :/

As you said, she is trying to figure me out.. with all the outward friendly talks. But I don't want to make a move. Lets see where it goes. 🙂

lnana04,

Wow really? We like older women, just for the record. 😉

"You kind of get wrapped and spun into something your unfamiliar with, which is complete comfort."

Spot on.

"Get use to lying to yourself a whole lot"

I am already doing that. lol Keep telling myself like.. "it's ok buddy, she is just a friend, just another girl" not facing the truth that she is not. Thanks Inana, i'll keep you guys updated. 🙂

yea we click with some signs more than others but once there's a connection yup we feel like we have know each other for ages.

take it slow see where it goes

your nervousness is just so adorable though 🙂

Jhene, I think I have the charts. 🙂

Mine,

Sun Taurus
Moon Leo
Mercury Gemini
Venus Gemini
Mars Cancer
Jupiter Gemini
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Libra
Asc node Pisces
Ascendant Aquarius

Hers,

Sun Capricorn
Moon Gemini
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Sagittarius
Mars Virgo
Jupiter Sagittarius
Saturn Pisces
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Gemini
Asc node Scorpio
Ascendant Aries

Oops.. the last post was for Inana. 🙂

scorchedearth,

Exactly, looks like you've had a lot of experience with Caps n Virgos. 😉 This is the first Cap girl i've ever met. So, yeah.. a newbie. 😛

Jhene,

There's no doubt i'm going to take it slow. After all.. that is something I can't help. Even if I wanted to. 🙂 I'm surprised you guys are so understanding. Capricorns ROCK! 😉 Thanks! 🙂

Posted by c0mrade
Capricorns ROCK!

Word buddy... Word...

anything too quick burn out fast. why rush if you looking for something great

never works dont get to soak up the go moments

Jhene,

"anything too quick burn out fast. why rush if you looking for something great"

Exactly!

Metoo,

I am sure she is more cleverer than me. I take your advice, I keep my distance. Lets see where it leads. 🙂

Hanging out in person is a good idea, but she is verrry lazy just like me.. lol

Yeah, comrade you are confusing me now. Saying "im sure shes more clever than me" sounds like you see this as a game of chess and you are going to play to your advantage,, especially since you automatically think she has an advantage over you..

Then saying you'll keep your distance, yet you will see where it leads sounds like even more of a game. You have no inteentions of being firm or ending whatever it is you have. Almost like if she really backs off you will bait her in again.

You dont want to hang out cause thats showing your hand. You like to be a little more manipulative. Bait her then convince yourself and her, if you get the chance, that she's the one after you.

Se

Posted by Metoo
^^^^ YES!!! Games and bait and switch...

Well, comrade will only end up playing himself royally if it continues.

That's the only advantage she'll have, letting you screw yourself over.

Comrade, you're lying..

She's not 20, SHE'S 17 years old. The chart you posted of her proves it.

This is the chart of someone born on Jan 13, 1995 in Germany: (she was born either the 12, 13 or 14 of january)

Sun 22??47' Capricorn
Moon 14??50' Gemini
Mercury 10??03' Aquarius
Venus 5??56' Sagittarius
Mars 1??56' –? Virgo
Jupiter 7??09' Sagittarius
Saturn 9??07' Pisces
Uranus 26??12' Capricorn
Neptune 23??02' Capricorn
Pluto 29??54' Scorpio
Chiron 27??48' –? Virgo
Ceres 18??48' –? Leo
Pallas 7??08' Taurus
Juno 15??24' Sagittarius
Vesta 2??29' –? Cancer
Node 12??21' –? Scorpio
Lilith 26??28' –? Taurus

He did change it up from 6yr age difference to 5 and a half, or something like that in this thread. Dang, Shaka, you are good.

Posted by lnana04
He did change it up from 6yr age difference to 5 and a half, or something like that in this thread. Dang, Shaka, you are good.

Haha thanks!

Wait! this is getting more interesting..the chart he posted of himself suggests he was born in May of 1989 😛 so there is no way he can be 25.

Dang Metoo, your post was completely on point as well!!!

Omg@ Shaka lol.

LOL Guys, I heard FBI is hiring!

Inana,

No Games. Please don't try to read between the lines. It's just plain simple, I just need to be sure whether she is a perfect match for me. And make sure it's not just a fling. Hope you understand. 🙂

So you dont care to explain us why you're posting incorrect ages?

You dont seem very experienced with girls btw, otherwise you wouldnt be saying bullshit like: 'I just need to know shes the perfect match first" WTF? seriously dude? are you the girl in this thing? Capricorn women like guys who take charge.

Predator? Geee.. c'mon! I can only explain a few things through a forum post or why I didn't prefer talking to her in-person before friending her on FB, Can I?

Please be realistic Guyz! I'm sorry I asked for your help! Bye!

You're the one not being realistic here, cause for starters.. you're not telling the whole story, plus there is more proof to suggest you're a sneaky dude who is not really interested in the capricorn girl but just love the attention you're getting from her, and dont get me started on why you've been giving incorrect ages..and age gaps.

Mars in Cancer = Sneaky wimps

*sigh* comrade. You will duck, dodge, then run with not even a hint of an explanation huh lol? I cant believe this approach is easier for you.

see you around.

Ya know, I was going to post that his behavior is very familiar to me. Its his sun and mars. He acts a lot like my old taurus friend. That mars in cancer is something.

Nah, you seem a lot more corageous Inana 🙂

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
You're the one not being realistic here, cause for starters.. you're not telling the whole story, plus there is more proof to suggest you're a sneaky dude who is not really interested in the capricorn girl but just love the attention you're getting from her, and dont get me started on why you've been giving incorrect ages..and age gaps.

Mars in Cancer = Sneaky wimps

Hmmmm..... Predator, sneaky dude now a wimp! You're interesting... judging someone through a forum post!

About the age thing, you select a random year! What is this? Your Uni Application Form? Pffff!

Inana,

"I cant believe this approach is easier for you."

Trust me, its not!

You're literally too stupid to realize how astrology works..

Read and learn; birthcharts are not selected randomly, they are the positions of the planets at the day/year/time you were born, so by looking at a birthchart it is not difficult to derive accurately the year/day a person was born. Thats how I could see that the bircharts you posted are not consistent with the ages and age gaps you posted on this thread. FACT.

And you still have the nerve to try to fool us by making a nonchalant comment about it aka Uni application form LOL

Muhahahahahahahahahahahahaa.

Ya know what's funny about these message boards? People come on them and can say what we want to say about someone we should be talking too but can't find the audacity to do so. It's friggin funny! Hey I need help with so and so, yet can't find the nerve to just speak to the target or whatever our problems are. It's funny cuz I'd love to ask mine bluntly a question I know I can't ask him! Well I could but it would be rather awkward and he already thinks I'm nuts. I'm not giving him anymore reason to doubt his rationalization. lmao! "Hey buddy what is your deal—" Yeah great take off right? So here we gather on here asking each other how the heck we are going to deal with these individuals. These people could also be on here under other names asking the same question in response to what they can do about you. I'd love to see that actually happen. "Hey what do I do about this chick?" "I'm not sure what to do with this guy!" Both end up telling each other what to do and find out they are who they should be speaking to in person anyway. lmao... food for thought

Posted by CapricornSun
Ya know what's funny about these message boards? People come on them and can say what we want to say about someone we should be talking too but can't find the audacity to do so. It's friggin funny! Hey I need help with so and so, yet can't find the nerve to just speak to the target or whatever our problems are. It's funny cuz I'd love to ask mine bluntly a question I know I can't ask him! Well I could but it would be rather awkward and he already thinks I'm nuts. I'm not giving him anymore reason to doubt his rationalization. lmao! "Hey buddy what is your deal—" Yeah great take off right? So here we gather on here asking each other how the heck we are going to deal with these individuals. These people could also be on here under other names asking the same question in response to what they can do about you. I'd love to see that actually happen. "Hey what do I do about this chick?" "I'm not sure what to do with this guy!" Both end up telling each other what to do and find out they are who they should be speaking to in person anyway. lmao... food for thought

Freaky thought!!! lol! Thats whats so great about the anonymous factor! It is nice to have somewhere to go and someone to ask, don't ya think?

Posted by truecap

Posted by CapricornSun
Ya know what's funny about these message boards? People come on them and can say what we want to say about someone we should be talking too but can't find the audacity to do so. It's friggin funny! Hey I need help with so and so, yet can't find the nerve to just speak to the target or whatever our problems are. It's funny cuz I'd love to ask mine bluntly a question I know I can't ask him! Well I could but it would be rather awkward and he already thinks I'm nuts. I'm not giving him anymore reason to doubt his rationalization. lmao! "Hey buddy what is your deal—" Yeah great take off right? So here we gather on here asking each other how the heck we are going to deal with these individuals. These people could also be on here under other names asking the same question in response to what they can do about you. I'd love to see that actually happen. "Hey what do I do about this chick?" "I'm not sure what to do with this guy!" Both end up telling each other what to do and find out they are who they should be speaking to in person anyway. lmao... food for thought

Freaky thought!!! lol! Thats whats so great about the anonymous factor! It is nice to have somewhere to go and someone to ask, don't ya think?

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Indeed. I have a lot of questions to ask but not enough answers to fulfill them. lol

Ok lemme break it down 😛

1) He's 23. Taurus born in 1989.
2) As he said, his profile probably just says 25 because he picked a arbitrary year when making his profile... It's a random profile on a not-so-trafficked site, and it's not like there's that much of a difference between 23 and 25.
3) Going back and forth between the 5 1/2 and 6 year age difference? -> She's 17 (18 in 3-4 months). Honestly I can think of much worse situations, not a big deal in my books.

And screw the FBI, sign me up for the CIA 😉

Posted by everevolvingepithet

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Muhahahahahahahahahahahahaa.

How do you mean, Sir?🙂

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😛

Well it's pretty obvious all this fear and bolonga is because she is obviously under age. Mistake or not, entering birthdate incorrectly will not change what is really going on. Is it really a big deal if somebody is 5-6 years younger? Silly! As a Capricorn I can give a shit about that. Being under age is a different story, as a society we have boundaries. 17 is still very young and immature. But what I find most disturbing is your big "hurry" to wiggle into her life. I think it's you who is seeking her out (obviously). Capricorns are not chasers, if anything we can appear stand offish. Sure we can be nice and friendly but we don't go out of our way to catch somebody until we start to feel comfortible. However, she is very young but I find your mentality very immature. Personally I've not met a Taurus yet to be all that. All the ones I know, men and women are bull headed and very controlling over their partners.

I really hate that this thread was bumped. Whoever this person was, he seems to be long gone.

Oh well thread police. I just read it.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Wouldn't replying on this thread count as bumping though?

If the thread is near the top of the first page, I'd consider a reply a reply at this point. I just wanted to let her know it was a reply to an old thread. It was bumped up from way back. I thought comrade was giving an update or something.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Ah right, gotcha.
Who knows what happened in the end?
Maybe he will drop in and update everyone? Keeping it at the top of the forum in some ways would at least show him our collective concern, if nothing else?
🙂

LoL. Maybe
I'd love to hear an update but I think we scared comrade away lol.

lnana, Why such solid interest/curiosity in Cap-Taur pairings— lol

Posted by TaurGuy

lnana, Why such solid interest/curiosity in Cap-Taur pairings— lol

Because, I had my experience...that didnt work out so well lol, but id still love to hear something positive. Its always puzzling how two compatible signs with so much chemistry and potential end up in a not-so-good place.

I dont want to lose all hope in Cap/Taurus how ive done with Cap/Scorp just yet lol. Cap/Virgo is near the all-hope-is-gone list too.

Why ya wanna know lol? Got any good news to share?

If you have no real interest in her.. Dont continue to engage with her.

Us Caps seem to fall for Taurus men quite quickly..

I know I have been there! (Taurus has been playing with me emotionally for 2 yrs an now wants nothing to do with me)

Your curiosity may well lead to her developing serious feelings for you and thats not fair

'Caps got that gift, connecting to people on a whole new different level. But can they do this with everyone? '

For me, yeah pretty much. Even if relationships don't work out, men always come back later and say 'you were the best' or 'I miss you", "You changed my life", etc. I guess I'm hard to forget 🙂

i love it when you have convos with yourself 😛