YOUR EXPERIENCE

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Okay, cappy women and men (and others zodiac women and men) ... forget all the compatiblity reports and test you have ever done ... they just don't seem to be correctly putting astro people right LOL (I'm suppose to be the perfert match for a taurus ... WHATEVER ... I get along better with a cancer πŸ˜‰)

So from your own EXPERIENCE -- friendships (or potentials ***wink***winkπŸ˜‰), relationships, etc. Which astro sign best suits YOU.

1) Who can you do long-term with?

2) Who have you been with the longest?

3) Who would you settle down (aka marry)?

I will not comment yet on who I believe suits me, but I would like to hear from all of you πŸ™‚
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Hmmm... I don't know that I have enough experience to know this... as I was with an Aquarius for about 7 years, and that was a no-do-again.

I am sensing though the same answers as SB, for me too. Maybe not a Pisces... I think I've had a couple, dated a couple and they were too sensitive/clingy. I probably need to hunt down a Taurus. I know I do not want a Virgo-man... from my old boss, my girl friend, and yea... that's all I'll say. I don't know that I can handle another Cap. either.

Taurus, taurus, man, man?? Anyone? Anyone?
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"Hmmm... I don't know that I have enough experience to know this..."

HEY!! capgirl

My longest relationship with a capricorn man (OMG NEVER AGAIN!!!), but my BEST relationship was with a virgo. My best potential relationship (this was some time ago and we were good ... almost best friends) was with a virgo.

I don't know whether I should settle with an earth or fire sign β€”
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Capricorn and Taurus men give me the blues!!! They seem to be very similiar! With a taurus and a capricorn, I always feel like I need to be MORE than I am physically. Cancers would be okay and would make wonderful husbands BUT they are just tooooo darn emotionally unstable (cancers would even testify to this).

Pisces can be lose cannons and they have similiar characteristics to cancers LOL, actually a pisces and cancers are very much alike -- pisces have weaker emotions and cancers have more ego along with having the weakiest emotions.

I'm afraid to be with a virgo or a scorpio man because they put much enphansis on the "image" too. Virgos like perfection and scorpios ...... well I don't know what to say about scorpios but DB is awesome sooo I better keep silent πŸ™‚

True, men cannot be generalized but after some experience IT DOESN'T TAKE A KICK IN THE HEAD FOR A WOMAN TO KNOW WHAT'S "NOT" GOOD FOR HER.

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1) Who can you do long-term with? - virgo (4)years

2) Who have you been with the longest? - Pisces 😈 years

3) Who would you settle down (aka marry)? - Taurus or maybe a Capricorn Depending on his level communication. But since I just starting dating a Taurus I see/feel a lot of potential for us especially in communication. But if I had to choose it would be a Taurus.

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SL,

LOL, that's exactly why scorpios and cappies have so much potential -- but tooooo overly sensitive people can be quite chaotic. A cappie and a scorpio really need to have a balanced partner ... or else it ALL DOWN HILL FROM HERE ....

Plus, I was really immature while involved with both the cap guy and the scorpio guy ... so I really didn't know how to handle the elements of a relationship. At this point, I think I am more aware of what it takes to make things work AND I think I can judge a person's character (beyond their sign) much better being the age I am now πŸ™‚ I'm not implying that "with age comes wisdom" because WE ALL KNOW THAT'S A BUNCH OF BULL!!! Some older folks still act like MORONS πŸ˜‰

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sb: "Yeah we are sensitive. We just don't really give others a hard time about it by telling them that........"

Well, I let people who are close to me know that I'm sensitive -- most can detect this when I let my guard down.

In a relationship, sensitivity can help balance a unemotionally person because he/she may need a person to help bring them out. So I have stopped hidding my emotions ... the whole "guess what I'm feeling" just isn't appealing to me anymore ....
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MM
***..talking to you guys is like walking on eggshells!..flippin heck..

I don't really feel like I was walking on egg shells with the Cap. I basically told him what I felt, and in any tone I choose to, that's is one of the reasons why we are not together, I guess after I gave him that ultimatum he needed some space...lol I can't see myself being cautious or scared to talk or express myself to a MAN.

CS
I'm not implying that "with age comes wisdom" because WE ALL KNOW THAT'S A BUNCH OF BULL!!! Some older folks still act like MORONS

I so agree they say Cappies get better with age. Well the one I used to date needs to change at 47 and you still can't communicate.




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Lol @ SB..Aww theres only one cute guy in the office and he's a Sag..I wouldn't wish him to fall, he has the biggest warmest smile and he's a giant!..lol..but great thought though..next time he's by the photocopier (positioned in front of my desk quite aptly), I will leave the cable loose..lol..I tell you the amount of deriers I see on a daily basis!..some need a major workout!..

haha cappysweetie..you and your quotes!..lol

SL - Its high time I changed careers..talking to computers is taking its toll on me..lol..I need to talk to humans godamnit. I just subscribed to The Economist and New Scientist magazines..exciting stuff..
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"..I have only had 2..good girl that I am (halo shines) Scorpio was the best.."

Hey Miss, we are the same ... we are both good girl Hahahaha. I'm only had three CONSIDERABLE RELATIONSHIPS (notice the word 'considerable') -- the virgo, the capricorn, and the scorpio (geeeeezzzz what was I thinking!).

The rest of them .... well I like to call them "guys you learn from" -- the aquarius (my heart was broken for a long time after him)

another capricorn (NEVER AGAIN!)

taurus ("air" hole)

another virgo (that was my buddy πŸ™‚),

the cancer (OMG!! Nuff said)

Sagittaries (he's my best NOW ... who knew)

pisces

and leo

... they never turned into relationships but I did learn from being associated with them.

Theses are not my all my guy friends, they are just guys that I have had affection for πŸ™‚

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Aww...but when I meant 2 relationships, I actually mean just the two..non of these flings..I can't do temporary stuff!..my body is a temple..hahah..

Scorpio was the best, Leo/cancer cup..sweet too..

Now the Cap wants my ass..well I want his too really...so far so good..He said today "hey I'm glad that I got to know u. Your a complete nutter.... but a good one"...heheh..aww bless him..
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Of NOOOOOOO Missmorals, I've NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EEEEEEEEVER had flings with any guys!!!NO WAY, I'm waaaaaaaaaaay too private about my body 😐 Plus, my father and mother raised me to have integrity and not to alone man after man to .... well, you know πŸ™‚

LOL, I gave the wrong indications, these guys were just CRUSHS πŸ™‚ Did I have sex with them ... OH HEAVENS NO! If I did, I would have so many miles on me, my dealer would to lower the price in order for someone to purchase me ****wink **** wink **** wink ****wink πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰

Plus I believe sex should be within a real relationship and NOT SOMETHING YOU JUST DO CASUALLY .... EWWWWWW (Hahaha, since I'm on the cappy board I can state my opinion on such without worry πŸ˜‰) Sorry, I'm a science major, so I understand what happens when you mix "different" fluids together, it's not a good outcome.

LOL, but I am free-spirirted with myy thinking πŸ˜‰ so I have nothing against those that have "random" sex partners (like my cancer buddy) but I just WOULDN'T do it ... "live and let live" ... "To each their own"
Those ar my mottos, I don't push my values on others πŸ™‚... I can't stand it when people do that UGH!
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hi all,

My experience with cappy man was started out super exciting (b/c he let me be in charge of everything and also his mysterious and aloof personality, I found him deliciously attractive and sexy) then it ended up being ?shit, what the heck are you thinking?? Can?t do this!!?. He basically kept everything to himself. he was incapable of truly loving someone with great passion. As a sag gal, I like things to be ultra open and affectionate as possible.

I?d love to be in love with sag guys.. b/c we are adventurous, generous, and unselfish. Oh, I love scorpions as well. they are definitely yummy!
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Okay, everyone I think I can finally post mine ... I gave it a little thought πŸ˜‰

1) Who can you do long-term with?
Virgo (my best relationship to date), cancer, Aquarius


2) Who have you been with the longest?
Capricorn

3) Who would you settle down (aka marry)?

hmmm, now this is the tough one. I don't have the experience like everyone else on the board. However, at this point I'd say ... Virgo, Leo, or (dare I say it) Scorpio. I admire the honor of a Leo man but they can be dominating. Virgos are wonderful (from what I see they make great husbands and father) but they want perfection ... grrr!!! That's their only problem ... I can't be a perfect little doll 😒 Scorpio men are good once they have settled and once they heave conquered those crazy emotions -- how most of them are old pervs when they are single and over the age of 35 πŸ˜›

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Well, Miss G*, you did some modifying ... I like these questions too πŸ˜‰

1) With whom have you been with the longest? ----Capricorn

2) Who did you feel the most love and affection for? ---- Virgo

3) Who understood you the best (in terms of one's underlying/unspoken drive or motivation in life and their personal reality, i.e. being on the same wave-length)? ---- Scorpio (yepper, he definately understood me ... but I didn't understand him)

4) Who did you understand the best? --- Virgo

5) Who are you almost always instantly attracted to? --- cancers and scorpios (Same here Miss G*, I don't know why but it's like a fatal attraction)

6) Who can I see myself with long-term? ---- Hmmmm, this is a tough one ... either a leo or virgo. I could be wrong.