I hate my Mercury square Saturn

This is one of the most difficult aspects in my chart.

Heres the rest of my chart

Sun in Leo
Moon in Aquarius
Mercury in Virgo
Venus in Libra
Mars in Cancer
Jupiter in Scorpio
Saturn in Pisces

I general want to be outspoken and make ton of friends but its difficult for me to communicate this b/c of this aspect. I really hate it. Anyone with a similar aspect or anyone with advice how to get through this would be greatly appreciated guys thanks ! I'm also a cancer rising, if that helps at all

You can use this

http://www.astrotheme.com/astrological_aspects_of_celebrities.php

to see if there has been any celebrities with this aspect. Have they done big things which needed big communication? If yes, then your impression/understanding of
- this aspect or
- other placements or
- what to expect from your age or
- what to expect from your state of personal growth

might be wrong.

I think that your Saturn in Pisces is the problem. You have no faith that things can go well too.

Pisces @---@ Faith

Saturn in Pisces @---@ Faith under pressure, stop-and-go energy

So I used the site I mentioned above to find a celebrity. I took square;orb=4;mercury=any;house=2;Saturn. And the first result was Lech Walesa.

http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Lech_Walesa

He was an opposition politician. So I guess he needed a lot of courage. A lot of talks. Talks in public.

Very funny and surprising that he has Saturn in Gemini at 26 degree in the 10th house. Isn't Gemini the sign assigned to communication? Isn't it ruled by Mercury like Virgo?

Then he has Mercury in Virgo which is a good thing. Right?

But that gives Saturn square Mercury. So?

The point is Saturn makes it harder. Square makes it more difficult. But none of them make it impossible. Cause you have still the rest of your chart.

For example he is a Libra which can be very talkative. Also popular. His Sun is in trine to his natal Uranus. So he is ready for changes. Even if it is to leave his own shadows. Saturn in the 10th gives him a resoibsible character. So if he has to talk he has to talk. He won't stay there with feelings of adequacy. Also he has Jupiter in Leo. So he must experienced that courage leads to success for him. So he overcomes his anxiety and talk what he has to.

But he has Sun and Moon in conjunction. So most of the time his emotions approve what he wants to do. I don't know the degrees in your chart, but if you have Moon/Aquarius square to Sun/Leo, then maybe it is your Moon who additionally put chains on your hand.

Also the man has Venus conjunction Ascendant. So he has been experienced that his being/presence/look/behavior seemed beautiful to people. That gives him additional courage. You could check which aspects you have to your Rising. Or your Venus. I see you have Cancer Rising and Lbira Venus. Again I don't know the degrees. If they really build a square, then it's another friction factor for your soul. You might have experienced that what you do and what you say does not impress people. Or creates problems. Or is not appreciated.

Whatever it is, be it

- Rising square Venus
- Sun square Moon or
- Mercury square Saturn

for any of us do exist a lot of other channels in the chart which can help us to have success in what we want. we need to just switch the channel. doing something different, taking courses, being observant about us, finding new ways, or just being random and having fun, or reading advice books, or compensating it by something else. For example by the belief system and faith. For example: if you believe that words are not everything, then you'll belong to those who become very popular or successful or a professor or even an actor without being big speakers. You are unique. Then your ways are your inventions.

You have for example Jupiter in Scorpio. So you have the most stubborn Jupiter I know. You'll fight to the end to get what you want. So you'll be able to overcome the disadvantages of these squares.

It's funny at 1:22 in this video he says, "I've got a headache and I'm finding it hard to talk. It's rude, I know.".




well, not sure if that proves anything. he might have been tired and did not want to talk to the interviewer. but it was funny to find it right in the second video.