venus square mars natally...

good venus/square in relationships/video...







they are the types, according to her, that they demand alot more from their lovers.

so more selfish..

they have an attitude that "others are denying them" or "keeping them from their goals" there is a blockage of getting that "love interest" ...or "that job/money self esteem"

so it is a conflict to the ego.

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Posted by UnicornSag
This is one really challenging aspect in people and one very hard to deal with for those who are with them. They are constantly in conflict with what they want and how they get it is true. It's really difficult dealing with them and it's something they're never aware of and won't allow to be pointed out at...this has always created a lot of problems for Virgo and me. I guess we manage to make it working thanks to synastry chart and somehow overcome these obstacles...my Venus and Mars are also disharmonious so maybe I get to understand him more cause of that or maybe cause we both have disharmonious aspect we somehow manage to work through it

that's a good point. i too have some hard aspects, so both individuals understand that.. i do have easy trines/sextiles, but there's also my venus square neptune, jupiter square sun ......not by degrees though, so maybe it's not square, however, my husband has those hard aspects too, so both parties have conflict in their charts, and both understand and 'get" this about eachother. Kind of how it works weirdly like that.

like how you said your venus and mars are disharmionous. mine are very good, easy peasy aspects which means i can easily be good in relationships (the sextiles, trines conjuncts are smooth ) but i still have other hard aspects.

Posted by Toti
I find venus square mars to be much more difficult in female chart and moon square Venus to be more challenging for men. Just my impression. My best friend has venus sqyare mars and she has really hard time in keeping and maintaining relationships. I thought with maturity it would be easier to deal with this aspect, but I swe her struggling more now than ten years ago. I don't know... perhaps it's because her venus is in Scorpio.

i think it's pretty much in both female and male.

just go about it differently.

For example,

Tom Cruise has easier aspects on his Moon & Venus as they are both leo. However his Taurus mars square Leo venus gets into conflict...thus, perhaps difficult he is in relationships.

like he wants his way and he wants it now, kind of thing. And he's persistent too, as is strong Fixed signs in

he did manage to maintain 2 long term relationships, and one shorter one.

with Nicole Kidman, she had easier aspects, her venus sextiles mars, and her moon is harmony with her leo/trine.

however, she has scorpio rising square her leo venus. and she has the neptune square venus too,

not by degrees,

but i notice her Jupiter leo is square exact to her Rising scorpio.

but as time goes on, maturity and relationships, she has been in a much happier and longer term relationship with a Scorpio /cancer moon man.

i think the key is to understand relationships and recognize the difficulty and keep going. Despite the hardship and wanting to just give up and walk away.....you gotta keep trying (barring any abuse ect)



venus in scorpio they say, is difficult because it is in detriment. but they can't say that because even dignified /exaltation venus ALSO has difficulty in relationships...i've seen it and researched.

it's just different in it's expression.

Posted by Toti
I find venus square mars to be much more difficult in female chart and moon square Venus to be more challenging for men. Just my impression. My best friend has venus sqyare mars and she has really hard time in keeping and maintaining relationships. I thought with maturity it would be easier to deal with this aspect, but I swe her struggling more now than ten years ago. I don't know... perhaps it's because her venus is in Scorpio.

it might be because i have capricorn and taurus and those signs don't give up easily even through the abuse and torture. xd it sounds sick but, it's got alot of truth to it...

until u just exhaust urself and then get away.

those signs are very very persistent from what i've noticed.

so i think same goes for scorpio.

Posted by Toti
My friend has Venus in Scorpio and mars in Leo. Her sun is Virgo. Two divorces. Third marriage, she is cheating since the day one. She cheated in her previous too. And she is such a dear, loving person. I don't really know why she acts this way with men. I've told her numerous times to spend some Time alone and do some introspection. She will be 40 this September.

she's not getting what she wants/desires,

her needs, and desires are in conflict.

she wants to merge/go in depth, but her leo mars, wants to have fun i guess?

i dont know...teh rest of the chart should be more open to interpreation.

i mean Hilary Clinton has those venus/mars Venus Scorpoi/Leo Mars

and she's married to a Leo sun. libra rising man.

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Posted by Toti
My friend has Venus in Scorpio and mars in Leo. Her sun is Virgo. Two divorces. Third marriage, she is cheating since the day one. She cheated in her previous too. And she is such a dear, loving person. I don't really know why she acts this way with men. I've told her numerous times to spend some Time alone and do some introspection. She will be 40 this September.

she's not getting what she wants/desires,

her needs, and desires are in conflict.

she wants to merge/go in depth, but her leo mars, wants to have fun i guess?

i dont know...teh rest of the chart should be more open to interpreation.

i mean Hilary Clinton has those venus/mars Venus Scorpoi/Leo Mars

and she's married to a Leo sun. libra rising man.


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I know many people with Scorpio Venus and their relationships are messed up. You've done your homework on these placements😊. I'm just an observer though, and I'm astonished how placements fit their descriptions. I've never taken astrology seriously up to last year. But, there is something to it... click to expand

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because scorpio doesn't like easy... lol

i know first hand with my family members too. i used to get really pissed off lol xd

like why dont u go for easy peasy huh?? ugh!!!!

now i understand very deeply why.... i mean i shouldnt talk either.

other venuses also have problems xd

like virgo venus (in the fall)

and aries venus.

but they still manage to find good relationships. ;p

ie george clooney -- it took him years an maturity. otheriwse he was just playing the field and dating..

which is very smart of him.

taurus venus is dignified but even Princess Diana had a difficult time having personal relationshps...

everything is fucked up like that.

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Posted by Toti
My friend has Venus in Scorpio and mars in Leo. Her sun is Virgo. Two divorces. Third marriage, she is cheating since the day one. She cheated in her previous too. And she is such a dear, loving person. I don't really know why she acts this way with men. I've told her numerous times to spend some Time alone and do some introspection. She will be 40 this September.

she's not getting what she wants/desires,

her needs, and desires are in conflict.

she wants to merge/go in depth, but her leo mars, wants to have fun i guess?

i dont know...teh rest of the chart should be more open to interpreation.

i mean Hilary Clinton has those venus/mars Venus Scorpoi/Leo Mars

and she's married to a Leo sun. libra rising man.


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I know many people with Scorpio Venus and their relationships are messed up. You've done your homework on these placements😊. I'm just an observer though, and I'm astonished how placements fit their descriptions. I've never taken astrology seriously up to last year. But, there is something to it... click to expand

because scorpio doesn't like easy... lol
i know first hand with my family members too. i used to get really pissed off lol xd
like why dont u go for easy peasy huh?? ugh!!!!

now i understand very deeply why.... i mean i shouldnt talk either.

other venuses also have problems xd

like virgo venus (in the fall)

and aries venus.

but they still manage to find good relationships. ;p

ie george clooney -- it took him years an maturity. otheriwse he was just playing the field and dating..

which is very smart of him.

taurus venus is dignified but even Princess Diana had a difficult time having personal relationshps...

everything is treetrunked up like that.


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I have mine in Capricorn in 4th house. It didn't make me trouble. But it did make me stay in a bad marriage for 8 years. I couldn't give up and fail. So I guess it makes me persistent and stubborn. Eventually I gave up. But, knowing I did all I could made my heartbreak easier to surpass. click to expand

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i did the same, so i get what u mean.