Advice on a Gemini man.

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TauriLove
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Hi Gems!
I am a Taurus female and I have my eyes on this Gemini male, well mostly he has his eyes on me 🙂. He seems like a very nice guy, lives a flashy lifestyle and also seems highly materialistic. His approach is a bit aggressive especially towards chasing me and he has so much confidence.

I was only attracted to one Gemini in the past and we never got to date because within a week of him pursuing me I was able to see through his damn bullbutter so the attraction didn't last long. This new guy looks so innocent, yet aggressive and oh-so-sexy at the same damn time, it’s crazy. He has been wanting to see me for months but I always give him the run around. Lately my attraction for him has been getting stronger and stronger. Each time I see his picture or his cute puppy dog eyes I just get weak in the knees.

We have set a date for this Friday and he mentioned that he would like me to spend the weekend with him so that he can spoil me properly without a rush. Now a big part of me would like that very much but another part of me feels like he wants to soften me up to treetrunk me. I am a very loving person and I am really afraid of being screwed over. A part of me feels crazy for even considering being with a Gemini guy.

Any advice will be appreciated.
His placements = Gemini Sun, Virgo Rising, Aries Moon, Gemini Mercury, Leo Mars and Leo Venus.
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TauriLove
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One thing that made me wary, him and I are facebook friends and he keeps liking this other female’s pictures. She is those kind of females that love wearing skimpy revealing stuff that tight their curves and she likes posting sexy pictures all the time. He once commented on her picture about a week ago if I’m not mistaken but she did not entertain him and now he tags her when posting a picture but she never likes or comments. They might know each other from somewhere, I don’t know.
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@OP-Have you asked him about the girl and stuff that you have concerns about? Geminis do talk and communicate effectively.... so ask and then that's it...

Gemini don't know possessive or jealous traits...maybe once in a relationship. But not as friends. They do whatever they want... You have part of a Gemini not all and Haha twins. Learn the other side of him too..

Oh they meet alot of people daily. You have to get used to that. Lots literally...
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TauriLove
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Posted by AirManForce
i don't know. i think earthy gemini men are good for taurus women or any earth sign women for that matter. they are the most utmost loyal geminis. other gems flirts and not too much loyal nor dependable. but i myself don't base sun signs with relationships cuz any signs can be made perfectly for each other.
Well I do.. I get scared of being heartbroken or taken advantage of. I go very well with Water signs but lately I’m attracting Air and Fire signs, plus my heart wants him and only him right now.. Just talking about him gives me the butterflies lol ^_^
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TauriLove
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Posted by P-Angel
Posted by TauriLove

I always give him the run around.



so, you play for attention rather than actually be an adult.

As for the women he tags on fb in front of you ... you deserve that for being a player, rather than a sincere person.

You think you're a loving person, but, you're not. You're a player
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I get your point, it’s not like I choose to do that, it’s in my nature.. I give guys a hell of a challenge before letting them come near me and that helps me determine whether that person is serious or just wants a free ride, and I have noticed that if I play my game I am able to see which guy is serious and which one is not. It’s less work for me. 😉

I am a loving person.. I still love you even after your comment. I appreciate the fact that you are direct and straightforward, you never sugar coat shit, and you don’t do favors for anyone.. I always read your comments on other threads lol, always makes my day.

I am actually honored that you commented on my topic.

*Happy Dance* 😄
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I dated a Gemini with a a strong Leo placement and he was a 7th and 8th house Aries, so this seems familiar to me. My guy was SUPER loving and accomodating but he also was very forward and could be a little unrealistic about things. He was an actor, loved the spotlight, SUPER social and caring towards all of his friends equally which made me feel on the same level almost. He was my longest relationship but he did have a Taurus mercury and mars scorpio so there was an earth/water influence. My issue was he was addicted to sex and as much as I love sex I just couldn't keep up with him or his freaky side, it made a big difference after 2 years I saw it so clearly but until then I was blinded by the rest of his great personality. Maybe if this guy has less firey 5th 7th and 8th houses then he could be more calculated or genuine about this than impulsive. Where is his moon and where is his virgo...
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Posted by TauriLove
Hi Gems!
I lives a flashy lifestyle and also seems highly materialistic. His placements = Gemini Sun, Virgo Rising, Aries Moon, Gemini Mercury, Leo Mars and Leo Venus.
Hey Taurus, I would observe how he manages his money. Really, really pay attention. Because if it progresses to where you have a future together, it could be a big problem for you if he doesn't have good financial management skills. That flashy lifestyle costs money. If he can afford it, no problem, but sometimes people that live that lifestyle can't afford it.

Have fun on your date, though. Gems are a blast!

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TauriLove
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Lol I'm back again.

I ended up not going on a date with him because his phone was not going through on Friday night. Saturday morning he calls me, starts calling me "babe", I was confused as butter lol. Next thing he tells me that he is sorry that his phone was off, he was arrested for possession of marijuana and suspected stolen property. He even took a pic of the police report and sent it to me to show me that he is not lying, I was actually shocked and a bit shaken. He says it's his first offence and his lawyer is dealing with the matter. He is so cute you wouldn't imagine him doing such. 😢

Here's the funny part.. After all that shock he gave me he still says, so baby when are we going to meet?

And he talks like I'm already his woman, I'm just so confused and scared as treetrunk.
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Sweetie, please don't get with him. I mean aside from Taurus and Gemini not being the most compatible (I don't have much room to talk being a Gemini dating a Cancer lol) you don't want to get involved with someone like that. I know it's innocent until proven guilty but would you want to be involved someone even suspected of doing that? It's not exactly screaming "boyfriend material"..
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geminisun97
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hmmm all I can say is be yourself. Thats what makes a gemini even more attractive you. Talk about the things you like and ask about the things he likes. I know this is like the most common advice anyone can give. Making them laugh is a BONUS for air signs. We usually like light hearted conversations. You can get a little deep but know when to come back up to the surface and play it cool, flirt here and there, and be sure to look neat and cute. not so much flashy items xD