Weird way of flirting or just weird?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Visio_Dei on Sunday, November 1, 2015 and has 23 replies.

Understanding Unusual Flirting Behavior in Geminis with Mars in Libra

Flirting styles vary greatly, and some Geminis with Mars in Libra may express affection through unusual or provocative comments. These might be attempts at humor or attention, but they can also come across as strange or inappropriate. Recognizing intent and boundaries is key to understanding if it's playful or problematic.

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@Visio_Dei
10 Years

So I know a gemini man with mars in libra and Venus in leo. You would think that libra in Mars would make him more smooth talking and non violent. But oh my god, this gemini man, he tells me that he wants to take my teeth and wear it. And he tells me very unusual innuendos. Like most recently he told me he wanted to shove something up my ass. Don't you think this is a wierd way of flirting when you have Mars in libra. He also has Mars in the 5th and his 5th house has aries in it. What's he trying to do? I don't know if it's flirting or he's just weird. Help Geminis? Š

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@Visio_Dei
10 Years

Posted by gemguyaz34
He's being weird. I'm sorry but going by what you said, that seems a liitle much for just flirting unless it's some technique I'm unaware of. Certainly not how I flirt..

Oh, so he's being friendly in his own way . Okay thanks!

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@Angmodurian
11 Years

Lol OP does he think you are into weird stuff or your image looks different? That's the worst flirting technique tbh, it puts people off instead of making them interested 😆

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@Visio_Dei
10 Years

Posted by Angmodurian
Lol OP does he think you are into weird stuff or your image looks different? That's the worst flirting technique tbh, it puts people off instead of making them interested 😆

Haha, idk to be quite honest. Maybe he feels that I'm different........ or just submissive. 😕 but sometimes he just stares at me. Maybe he's still trying to find the perfect flirting technique. Lol, I mean the guy is very beautiful and he isn't all that creepy.

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@Visio_Dei
10 Years

Posted by Vanish

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Posted by Vanish
I have that venus, mars combination. Mars people have weird thoughts. Best for him to find a Gemini mars.

What do you mean by weird thoughts? Like.....weird...kinky?

He wants to get in and out of there with as much damage done as possible.

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Oh, okay! So how does your Mars libra affect that Since it's an air sign?

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11 Years500+ PostsGemini

You've already been told. I think it's needless to say anyone who wants to rip out your teeth and ram shit up your ass has a real disconnect of what flirting is, if you can even call it that.

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@Angmodurian
11 Years

Probably he is trying hard to be a bad boy because well gals have a soft spot for bad boys. But i think this pretty much gonna backfire lol 😆

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@Visio_Dei
10 Years

Heh maybe, he's acting very distant it's really awkward now. Like, he speaks to me but ignores on other ocasions. Maybe he's busy.

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@Angmodurian
11 Years

You got to have what it takes the confidence & charisma to make sex jokes work. But it does work if you are good. I have seen it can bring people closer because well you are already touching on the sensitive issue so the progress is very fast! Probably Sag men is good in this.

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@Visio_Dei
10 Years

Posted by Vixen2
Lol...it's like a little tween boy flirting, halfway picking on the girl and then halfway saying awkward shit to garner a reaction so he can tell if you like him back

You know, I actually think he's trying to do that haha!

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Posted by Visio_Dei
So I know a gemini man with mars in libra and Venus in leo. You would think that libra in Mars would make him more smooth talking and non violent. But oh my god, this gemini man, he tells me that he wants to take my teeth and wear it. And he tells me very unusual innuendos. Like most recently he told me he wanted to shove something up my ass. Don't you think this is a wierd way of flirting when you have Mars in libra. He also has Mars in the 5th and his 5th house has aries in it. What's he trying to do? I don't know if it's flirting or he's just weird. Help Geminis? Š

He's got issues. I don't care what sign he is. Good men with integrity can use subtle sexual innuendo and pull it off without a hitch. Women (most) love this because it opens the door to sexual tension and allows us (women) to use our wit, charm and a little banter to keep things lively.

This dude you know is messed up or a narcissist. No man worth his salt would ever tell you to your face about wanting to shove something up your a $ $ . That's just tacky and shows his lack of maturity. Honestly, that is locking room material, certainly not dating material.

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10 Years

Posted by gemini64

Posted by Visio_Dei
So I know a gemini man with mars in libra and Venus in leo. You would think that libra in Mars would make him more smooth talking and non violent. But oh my god, this gemini man, he tells me that he wants to take my teeth and wear it. And he tells me very unusual innuendos. Like most recently he told me he wanted to shove something up my ass. Don't you think this is a wierd way of flirting when you have Mars in libra. He also has Mars in the 5th and his 5th house has aries in it. What's he trying to do? I don't know if it's flirting or he's just weird. Help Geminis? Š

He's got issues. I don't care what sign he is. Good men with integrity can use subtle sexual innuendo and pull it off without a hitch. Women (most) love this because it opens the door to sexual tension and allows us (women) to use our wit, charm and a little banter to keep things lively.

This dude you know is messed up or a narcissist. No man worth his salt would ever tell you to your face about wanting to shove something up your a $ $ . That's just tacky and shows his lack of maturity. Honestly, that is locking room material, certainly not dating material.

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Done.👠you think he's nervous. I mean this guy has good manners, maybe he isn't used to flirting with people I guess.