Are Venus in Gemini People talkative in bed?

He asks so many questions!

Ahh Im a Gemini in Venus and So is the Cancer guy im hooking up with. We both talk allot We just keep asking eachother questions the whole time in the most randomest moments we just keep making eachother paranoid its like as soon as we think it our brain just lets it out no matter what were doing . for example we were making out and I had on lipstick and hes like omg you have lipstick on I hate lipstick and we started kissing again then I stopped and asked "Wait Do you want me to take off my lipstick?" "hes like no it doesnt bother me that much" we start kissing again and I started touching his hair hes like "why are you touching my hair?" so I stopped and hes like " wait no keep on touching my hair" Its so retarded now that I think about it hahahaha so yea its not a big deal its just how his brain works He just wants to express himself even if its not the most appropriate time.

It just always catches me off guard because it is definitely random and my mind is off somewhere in la la land, so when he asks me something I'm having a huhhhhhh moment. haha

Aries girl on Fire, you and your cancer sound too cute. My guy is a cancer sun, too, except he's got high walls up, doesnt flow so easily for him.

It's not the random non-challant questions of his.... its a particular one actually. The first few phone calls he asked me if I've been on any other dates from the website we met on. I wrote it off as him asking about my experience with the website.... but it's been two months, seeing him about once a week and he asks the same question. He's up to something. I can't pin point what he is figuring out about me.

haha and when we're in bed he constantly asks me how do I want it. endearing, but I'm having another huhhhhh moment, yet again. haha

@Lady Aries What is your Venus in? I think hes trying to figure out if your seeing any other guys besides him? sounds like he might be a bit insecure.


hahah awww and the fact that he asks you how you want is cute that means he wants you to enjoy it I love when the dude makes it all about me but as Aries we usually want someone who is gonna dominate and take control in bed and just do work and not ask us how we want it every second so I can see where ur coming from.

lmao!! I knoooooowww! can he just DO instead of asking all those questions?! hahaha I think whether he asks more or does more depends on his mood.

My Venus is in Taurus. I know he's getting somewhere with wanting to know if I am dating other guys. Is he looking to pursue more? I've already told him I like him. Is he wanting me to elaborate on something else? I can totally be the initiator in a relationship, but I don't want to scare him off. I can be pretty brash, with actions, verbally, or otherwise. I've learned that I cannot ask direct questions with this guy.

his venus is in..... gemini. 😉

Oh haii my moon is in Aquarius too!

This is Venus in Taurus compatability with Venus In Gemini

How You Relate to a Partner with Venus in Gemini: Your Venus signs are side-by-side, meaning you both approach love relationships very differently. This combination can generate much intrigue and fascination. In fact, side-by-side signs tend to turn up more frequently in love relationships than those that are traditionally considered compatible. Perhaps it's because we tend to be attracted to challenges. If your differences are not accepted and appreciated by each other, however, over time they can cause many disagreements! You are a steady person in love, very sensual but quite practical as well, taking commitment quite seriously. Your partner tends to live in the moment when it comes to love, and is an expert at infusing relationships with playfulness and a lively spirit. Although you find each other intriguing, the problems start when you recognize that your values are at odds. Your partner values verbal exchanges, while you value stability and security. Your lover shows his or her love by playfulness, teasing, and interest. You, on the other hand, are less concerned about variety and fun than you are with having a partnership that can be depended upon. A touch means more than words to you, and both constancy and physical presence do as well. Your partner might complain that you take what he/she says seriously, and wants to hold him or her to it. Your partner's moods and wants change at a moment's notice, and he or she doesn't like being pinned down. When you are in need of regeneration, you tend to turn to physical and natural pleasures, often in solitude. When your lover is distressed or out of whack, he or she wants to be able to talk it through. He or she enjoys new experiences and environments, while you are not as quick to embrace change. This is a partnership that has much potential if both of you are willing to learn from each other, mainly because each of you expresses qualities that the other lacks. If either or both of you are stuck in your ways or self-righteous, this will be a rocky partnership! However, when your partner is unsure, he or she can find great strength in you; and you can certainly enjoy your partner's wit and social ease—he or she is wonderful company.

Too cool. I do not know his birth time, so his moon is either in pisces or aquarius.

his and my venus placements seem to only give us a 65% compatibility rate. :/ Now I am feeling out to see how he evolved and mature he is in relationships.

no clue what decan he is, how do I find that out?

9 of July

Posted by wineaux

When Venus or Mars is in Gemini, use words in bed with them. Talk turns them on, and they love to kiss! Oral pleasures are extra special for these lovers. They love role-playing, as long as it is varied. They are generally fun in bed, if you can forgive their sudden bursts of speech during the act. To you, an intellectual conversation may interrupt lovemaking, but to them, it's just extended foreplay. Sometimes given to trying too much in one session, these lovers are enthusiastic and curious about all kinds of sexual expression. Still, many people with this position are not wanton lovers. The Gemini tendency to over-think brings up all of the "buts" and "what ifs" surrounding sex. They are less driven by their desires than they are by their intellect.

This is sooooo me in life right nowww!

ohhh what about
june 23rd a Gemini/Cancer Cusp would that be considered the first Decan?

He won't let me figure him out from the get go. He specifically said "whatever you think I am, I am not." wow!

I find that first decan cancers can be manipulative... at least the three I know are.

awwwww oh wow such a trip that is sooo him esp the psychic part like I swear to god Ill think something and before I can even try to fix whats wrong he does it for me Im always like whaaaa da fuckk?

I've grown to be very fond of second decan cancers. I don't mind secrets, unless it is intentionally hurtful or they try to dig into mine being a one way street.

oh shit yea maybe he is manipulative I cant tell yet tho gonna have my guard up as ive been doing with him from the start

I really look to have a guy that can read me the way yours does you, aries girl.

I use to have a crush on a second Decan Cancer but he had an on again off again relationship with this Taurus girl and he use to hit her like just beat her in public but it was so weird because he was so nice to me I never saw that side of him.

no need to frett aries girl, they either have to be stressing hard or have been badly hurt to be manipulative. at least that is the way it seems to me as an aries. they are merely expressing their emotions in their own way. *shrugs*

isn't that a whole 'nother playing field, aries girl? that is just a nasty person. I refuse to be disrespected, nor will be ok with anyone else being disrespected, much less in public. WOW!

yes but mine does have a girlfriend so thats my main drama but its a long distance relationship and she lives like amillion miles away he told me they have an "Open relationship" but he could just be bullshitting me I honestly dont know and he sort of acts like she doesn't even exist so I can see his little sneaky ways already.

I've dated at least 2 other second decans. They are the ones I miss most.

yea he would hit her like she was a man but that guy had some serious issues but he was so nice to me I ALMOST fell for that shit thinking I could "save" him and "change" him of his bad boy ways or whatever but yea thank god I didnt get involved.

sneaky indeed.

SRSLY how could a girl NOT fall for a guy who can read her mind? its like I never had a chance he had me at hello

I'm a Gem with Venus in Gem. I'm not into talking in bed, but I'm into my partner talking. I dated a Pisces who would talk dirty and it nearly drove me mad. My current partner won't do it.

Whimsy, haha driven to madness is pretty head on. Talking is fun, but being asked so many questions with no specific direction makes me think too hard. haha can't concentrate.

Yes they are my ex is a taurus sun and gemini venus and he asked a lot of question during sex and it was like shut the hell up already Lol...........