completely violated

I'm seeing this new guy.. and in our getting to know one another.. he did this 'test' on me.. and OMG i was floored and appalled!! not in a really bad way though.. but anyway.. He was asking me questions.. and he is one of them observant types (Aries)

1. where did my parents take me on vacation when i was a kid.

2. tell me about an imaginary place.

so i answered..and he started to laugh.. and me being me, felt like i missed the boat.. this is what he said:

when you ask someone a question (looking for truth).. and they start to think about it, and they look up and to the right.. they are reaching (that area of the brain) memories that are hidden back there..
if they look up to the left.. that is an 'other' area and he went on to discribe it almost as telling a lie, that someone doing that is actually looking to make something up.. It was crazy cuz he kinda used me as a ginea pig unknowingly. I was freaked out.

Just thought i'd share this.

hahaha the right way 🙂 whew......

Wow, BabyG, you got to be a guinea pig . . . they are so warm and fuzzy and cuddly, lol

I think he was looking for you to look both directions. To the right when you pulled out a memory about your childhood, that would be truth. Then to the left when you thought about an imaginary place - imaginary is lie, really because it doesn't exist.

That's really cool in a way that your guy was having fun with you. But, I can certainly understand how that would make you feel wierd. He should have told you before hand. Sounds like your relationship with this man is going to be full of surprises.

You wont' be getting bored, it looks like.

Exactly P-Angel. I wasn't like wtf you doin'? and he couldn't have told me prior to, or it wouldn't have worked.. cuz i wouldn't have let it.. lol. Yeah he is really umm good for me so far. I love how intuitive and intellegent he is, and the fact that he humors me. It was just something completely new and i already feel like he sees right through me. I'm all about eye contact when i talk to people and so is he, but i have to back down and look away cuz i feel he is looking right into the very heart of who i am. I don't share that. It takes a long time for someone to tap into the root of me, and it's like this guy has a direct link. Scarin' the pants off me.. well not literally just yet. LMAO

hahaha nah.. diggin' too deep inside me is violating to me. I can better handle him removing my clothes without permission. hehe

Oh and Mornin' E-gem 🙂

OHHHH yeah.. i'm not good at not being in control... after all.. i always run shit! haha and this guy isn't about that. He is a true provider and someone you can lean on and count on and makes it clear that i will not be catering to his every need. and it's hard cuz i'm the same way as him. So we just keep laying out the 'ground rules' which neither of us are following.. LMAO like he got all icky on me cuz i washed MY dish. i was like whatever... i wased mine and he had a couple inthe sink so i washed em'. He wasn't happy bout it and i told him to just deal with it like he tells me to deal with him runnin to get me everything and anything my heart desires! UGH but i would take this kinda power struggle over any other kind 🙂 this one is fun.