Different Geminis

Yes, I am Pisces, St. Patty's Day baby, and sometimes Gems are hard for me to understand. Just wanted some insite from you other Gems. I have many gems in my life, yet NONE act, feel, their views or expressions, are anything a like. My mom-gemini-June 5th, 2 sisters-gemini-May 21st & June 21st, my boyfriend-gemini-June 1st. My boss at work, and my best friend are geminis, surrounded. What would make them all so different— I know that gems are the twins, is it possible that they are just changing so much that I can't keep up? LOL Can anyone shed some light on this?

lol well my birthday is may 21st also...it's on the cusp of a taurus/gemini..but yes we are forever changing..mind, hair, clothes... but that's what makes us unique as gems...most people do find it hard to keep up with us...

"I know that gems are the twins, is it possible that they are just changing so much that I can't keep up?"

BINGO 🙂

We are adaptable.. and chamelion like.. ever changing. I'mma June 3rd baby.. and i have lots in common usually with my fellow Gem's. Age plays a huge part in it too.. just FYI. As we age, we get a handle on ourselves.. and that tones us down.. Just enjoy each one.. 🙂
I don't do well with pisces typically. My sister is Pisces and we are up and down. She can not, in anyway grasp the type of person i am. She is 7 years older than me, and we didnt have any kind of relationship until i was about 25, and i matured some. And now there is alot of, 'accepting' in our relationship. I understand she is this way.. and she understands i'm that way.. and we deal with it.

Chamelion Like is right, you all fit into about any crowd!!!! That's funny you said that babygrl, My sister-May 21, and I get along great. She is 34 and I am 27, but we have probably been the closest of the family since I was 18. Its kind of a reverse of your situation. I have heard that Pisces and Gemini do not get a long well, and in some cases, I am sure that is true, they usually don't see eye to eye. My boyfriend is 2 yrs younger than I, and we seem to get a long just fine, as long as we give one another their space. Their are times he can't keep up with me too though, he says I change my mind too much..ha ha ha. We are good together though, we have much to learn from one another I am sure! Any thing I should be warned about when dealing with a Gemini guy?

I am a very emotional person... but i don't cry much.

I'm not good with the male of my kind.. lol haven't dealt with them much. Well.. a couple.. the one seemed much more low key then me. And he wasn't a social butterfly like i am. Took him to a club for a party, and i felt the need to have to babysit.. which is one of the biggest turn offs.. I was like.. so many people talked to him, and he just wouldn't respond to them.. say just enough.. that drove me NUTS. lol

My sister is extremely emotional. I don't have much patience for that. And she can not concentrate on more than 1 task at hand. If she is having financial troubles.. she can't do ANYTHING else but focus on that.. well she has kids.. they need a mom.. get a grip.. suck it up and deal with it.. i'll help you with whatever i can.. but lets get those emotions in check and face what life throws at you. She can't do that. and i'm all over the place.. she can't deal with that.. she gets frustrated cuz i'm always somewhere doin' something. And i'm not supposedly compassionate. Which i am.. really i swear..lol but only for a minute. I don't dwell.

Thanks for the advise babygrl, I know the babysitting feeling, though that was when we first met. He is a social butterfly, I just had to open his cocoon. So maybe that is a trait of the gem male. I still could use some heads up on the gemini male, if you or anyone else has any advise! Thanks :-)

Well i have a couple male gem friends...it would really depend on there birth chart...bc one is just like me out going, loves to party, dance , 10 things at once, doesn't dwell on to much, and the other is very sensitive, very emotional and doesn't move around as quick.. so if you could find out his birth chart we'd probably be able to help you out more..

it really does depend on the other aspects of the chart-ive noticed the sun sign tends to be the way we project ourselves in society, while the moon sign qualities tend to show up in times of stress, and also in times of love. i am a gemini, june 17th, but i have the moon in virgo-for me this manifests when i am stresses or not happy with someone-i tend to nitpick and find every little thing wrong with someone.but it also shows up in love,where i know when i TRULY have feeling for someone because i dont want to run and change my mind constantly as is typical at any other time in my life!

Wow- good luck with that many gems- dealing with just one of us is like dealing with about 5 or 6 different people 🙂 We change with the situation- sad to say most of the time depending on how we're feeling....also like the others already said, it depends on when you were born- I'm a june 19th baby- on the cusp of gem/cancer. Gems like to talk about how they're feeling, so my advice would be to talk to them if you really want to know what's going on- though I have to warn you, we may say everything is fine when it is not- that's when you have to press us for info- we love the extra attention 🙂 Best of luck in the gem jungle 🙂