AFRAID FOR MY GEMINI BRO

ok so my bro, gemini was dating a scorp for 5 yrs or so - he cheated sexually on her (i know it's wrong) during their relationship and during the ending of their relationship he was interesed in a girl from work - he even brought girl from work to our house n introduced her as his friend

i had advised him that he should leave the scorp bcus if he loved her he wouldn't cheat on her - anyway the point is they broke up - n scorp girl really took it hard- the night he broke up wit her - she was an emtional wreck- he was so deperate he called my mom n asked her to help scorpgirl n be there for her -

so the next morning mom n i r havin breakfast n i see a shadow at the glass backdoor - i thought someone was bout to break in - i was shocked when it turned out to be scrop girl - she looked wrecked - my mom got up n opened the door n scrop jus ran into her arms - i felt sorry for her -

anyway my mom got a little freak out when scorp somehow ended up in my bro's room, mom found her holding onto a shirt of his (my bro was out of the coutry at the time)- so mom calls my aunt n asks her to be there for scorp cus it doesn't make sense for my mom to be there - i mean come on it's her son -(u guys still wit me?)

ok so now it's been maybe 5 to 6 months since they broke up n can you believe they r still friends?? i think bro is makin it worse for himself cus i think he even told her he cheated on her - n i have this strange feeling that she's waiting for payback - i think she has him wrapped around her fingers n i don't know how to pull him away- he told me once she was the first person he ever opened up n trusted so much - so they have a bond i guess

i had told him i think he needed some time for himself - to be single n enjoy his life - but i feel that becus they opened so much wit each other n stuff -he trust her n doesn't think she would ever hurt him - that he's not putting himself first n is lettin her manipulate him - men r blind to women's tricks especially my bro

there's something bout her n i can't figure it out - i don't trust her --has any gems males here dealt with scorps females??

Sounds like he just needs to expereince this and learn from it. I mean, he is still putting himself in this position with this Scorp. ANd if he is, and isn't seeing the bigger picture he isn't going to. Sometimes we are gluttons for punishment because we always think people have good intentions. And we have to expereince things.. not just be told. Very hard headed... Advice him the best you can, but let him go through this. I'm all about live and learn..

yes that is true, maybe if you can proove it in some way what she is up to .... you'll have proof to back you up, then he should believe you if he's a gem... bc i agree with you cancer i don't think she's just "forgiving him"....

She's kinda scary... lol

Isn't there a movie.... lol

STAY TUNED TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS! ...

hahaha @ juicy! yea man dis girl is sooo weird - the shirt thing in his bedroom WAS SO CRAEEPY when my mom told me -lol - pathetic!

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revenege

come on is it that bad guys?? is it jus me or doesn't that seem a little immature to you - ok fine cheating bad - no one deserves to be cheated on but so what - move on- get a life --oh no poor baby ur ego's shot - get over urself - we're adults - u're telling me that jus because someone cheats on my i shud waste my time and try to hurt them? why , is that going to win them back? i don't see the purpose -

DB here's the deal - it's ok to heal but don't go hurting someone intentially - how is this ok? how is this accepted?? let's take this to the extreme - lets say this chick is hurt bad n decides "i'll feel better if i stick a knife in his gut" is this ok— does this justify her "healing" - come on - i may cry bout my hurt n i may talk to someone close bout my hurt but i don't go out of my way to hurt someone - how does this make sense?

i think scorps (hurt ones)jus seem desperate sometimes - my mom's a scorp but i guess she's a mature one - i guess they got alot of uncontrollable emotions when they immature but that doesn't mean it's ok to hurt someone - imagine how much more fucked up the world would be if we all tried to get revenge from each other --"oh man u broke my pencil!" muthfucker that pencil cost me 10 cents - looks like i need to break ur finger to make myself feel better bout that 10 cents"
- look i've been broken hearted b4 -n i went thru the healing phase- i've done the crying, and hating (for like a month)on an ex but i realised that i was wasting energy -realised that i had a choice: i could choose to mope or i could choose to move on - guess which i chose?

it takes time to heal, i think it's how u choose to deal with ur feelings is what matters

THE WORLD IS SUPPOST TO BE FILLED WITH PRETTY FLOWERS!!! i love being in denial lol

hahaha

lol - DB is sensitive cus DB is scorp - relax ur ass it's not u i'm talkin bout

- m&mgem, u're right it's prob because he's my bro it bothers me so or prob cus i don't like dis girl either - since she n my bro had started datin she's been so selfish - she wanted all his time wit her - we barely saw him - even my aunts, and other famly memebers noticed that he let her have her way in that aspect- even if we wanted to do something wit him alone she'd be like "hey u guys don't love me - u don't want me to join u" -- maybe she jus desperate for attention or love or something - my bro is so much nicer that they're not together - maybe he feels less pressured? i dunno