do all gems love drama

hi all i am dating a gem gal you cant have enough drama in her life. i am a aqua guy that just has no need for it. she almost worse than my last girl freind that was a sorp.

hi all i am dating a gem gal you cant have enough drama in her life. i am a aqua guy that just has no need for it. she almost worse than my last girl freind that was a sorp.

I cant stand drama.. Im the straight up on the table, get it sorted and stop being a dick type.

Posted by bubblyaquarius

Posted by caliberquick
i had a gem friend, key word here being "had". i cut her off a few months ago for spreading lies to a libra i have my eye on. me and the leeb teamed up and got rid of her. she seemed to ALWAYS say how much she hated drama but would cycle through friends like she changed her underwear(hopefully... :x). female gems are toxic, and that's definitely something i can do without.

EXACTLY! And they don't think it's them at all! They blame it on everyone around them. Or when you confront them, they just keep lying, to a point, where you start to believe their lies and think you are te craz one. It's crazy. It's like seriously, 'your' ISSUES, may actually have something to do with YOU. They act like everyone is just trying to "get" them or something and they "have no idea" why. -_-

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Posted by DeeGee
^^^^Well, if you keep talking all this shit about them, no wonder why they turn on you....I'm a Gemini and wouldn't trust you as far as I can throw you.

Thanks for the heads up ladies....Next!!!

lmao!!... Tut! drama! sort ya shit out before you are stereotyped! haha

Posted by Purr

Posted by DeeGee
YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO VOICE YOU'RE OPINION, IT'S A FREE COUNTRY.....ONE WORD OF ADVICE TO YOU AND CALIBER SINCE YOU TWO ARE SO NEW TO THIS SITE, DON'T PULL THIS SHIT ON THE SCORP BOARDS. BELIEVE ME THEY WON'T BE THIS KIND. YOU WILL BE GANG RAPED AND THROWN OUT IN THE COLD NAKED.


I LOVE YOU TOO BUBBLY....🙂

LMFAO

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HAHA.. Good job we dont like drama.. 🙂

Posted by bubblyaquarius
LMAO, I wont! Honestly, I've seen some convos about Aquas on here before, among other air signs, that weren't so favorable, and I don't even comment most of the time. This is an Astrology forum, unless I'm saying my friend's name and talking directly behind one's back, I don't think I'm back stabbing. I notice negative and positive traits of many signs, and I felt like sharing.

There is no point in saying only what a sign wants to hear. I've come across god knows how many posts about how Aquas are liars blah blah blah. Imo, all the air signs are huge ass liars. It's something I notice among many of us. Not to mnetion, every human being has lied at some point. So I guess, I shouldn't bash you guys.
I've had my fair share of drama with geminis, but I wouldn't at all, if I hadn't liked something about them to befriend them in the first place.

There are signs I've never had drama with becuase I don't know any. 0.o

And the worst I've had, friendship wise so far, has been another Aquarius and a Virgo.

I cant stand dishonesty 🙂

Posted by bubblyaquarius
Don't take it so personally. Nothing is stopping me from becoming friends with more Gems. I'm not tainted over here. o.0

Its not taken personally and I dont believe you are tainted 🙂

Posted by bubblyaquarius

Posted by guccigemini55

Posted by bubblyaquarius
Don't take it so personally. Nothing is stopping me from becoming friends with more Gems. I'm not tainted over here. o.0

Its not taken personally and I dont believe you are tainted 🙂

I couldn't tell if you were being sarcastic or not. Communication over the net! Sucks sometimes.

I love you Gems.

I must sketch a reindeer now!

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Absolutely am not..

Make love not war 🙂

thats good insight i am not a normal aqua being an aqua pisces cusp it could be i am just sensitive

whats the deal with the double posts? this one is much longer and possibly more drama filled. gang rape by scorps for posting is a little off chart lol! dont get me wrong i am not looking to replace my gem gal; just looking for better understanding about gems in general.

truth is psycho's have a place in every sign. to say the psycho exfriend was psycho because she was a gem never met a pissed off aries or annoyed scorp. lol

I personally hate drama. and I am NEVER invovled in anything dramatic either.... hmmm....

im gem cusp of taurus with taurus moon though and iv never felt that much like a gemini entirely.. so i could be wrong

I like to keep a low profile, so I don't like to stir up drama or have it in my own life. I'll happily discuss other people's drama, though. Keeps things interesting.

The Gem girls I know have always been an easy going free spirited bunch, What I find is this attracts an awful lot of people, many of us are known for having a vivacious sparkle, everyones friend type, often people want a piece of that, some of us have attracted people who are not secure in themselves and have unhealthy motives, like any sign I guess its down to life experience and whether or not we are evolved enough to handle the situation correctly, theres always drama around the corner who ever you are.. This thread is an example, i cant see any gem girls trying to create drama, although we could have taken some of the contents personally weve chosen not to, so i would say theres your conclusion 🙂

Posted by caliberquick
n. female gems are toxic, and that's definitely something i can do without.

O_o

No offence but...

No one has said that people are not allowed to express an opinion, thats what message boards are there for..

"NONE of us really know each other outside of our charts." ...

This is where we are trying to offer you learning, we are not taking it personally, i feel no hostility towards you whatsoever, I can only offer my honesty, it is coming across that the people stereotyping Gem girls and casting the stones are the ones feeling attacked and taking the response personally, there are no gem girls attacking you but merely offering you an opportunity to grow from your personal experience and gain more of an open mind, we are not all liars, we dont all like drama and are able to share and embrace the opinions of others without hostility, insulting, disrespecting or generalising.

If you read back through the thread you will see this.

Posted by caliberquick
"it is coming across that the people stereotyping Gem girls and casting the stones are the ones feeling attacked and taking the response personally"

lol really? not at all. i'm not taking anything personally. what i find extremely annoying though,

this is what im meaning, within this sentence contradiction and bothered, why on earth are you bothered? no one is attacking you but merely responding to a generalisation being made and giving you an insight at what point has a gemini in here insulted you?


is the passive aggressive bs throughout the thread. i must have tunnel vision right now, though. i can't get passed the ridiculousness that arose here...

An assumption and another insult


what i'm not finding is open communication without the hee hee's and ha ha's. pretty immature if ya ask me. but i guess that's fair game seeing as i did make a comment about gems being toxic. and again we come full circle. i guess i don't mesh well with female gems lol. case and point.

did you say you were a cap? i dont have trouble with caps, im pretty open minded about people.

Come on as a rough guess i cant speak for anyone else but can you not see what you are doing? thats why people are laughing, you are hanging yourself every time you open your mouth, WE cant be bothered with the drama its amusing, theres nothing but assumptions, accusations, insults, disrespect flying around this thread and its not coming from one gemini, thats whats funny lol

gucci, i appreciate your straightforward and grown-up approach. there's hope.

I hope so!

efff! my response above printed out wrong, dont want anyone else taking credit for my brains huh, Ive gone through alot of SELF REFLECTION on my own PERSONAL ACTIONS and CHOICES to get to where I am lol!

Posted by DeeGee

Posted by guccigemini55
efff! my response above printed out wrong, dont want anyone else taking credit for my brains huh, Ive gone through alot of SELF REFLECTION on my own PERSONAL ACTIONS and CHOICES to get to where I am lol!

LOL...got plenty of my own don't need yours...

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LOL! Indeed you have hunni, my response just all came out in that blue box 🙂

Posted by DeeGee
are overly dramatic gems indefinitely..blah blah blah". so i'm still not sure why everything i've said aside from the first post was taken personally.


Refer back to your: i hung myself with the toxicity comment, yes.


Comment and you'll have answered your own question.

Lol the point Im trying to get across.. almost every comment is toxic and not actually constructive

Posted by caliberquick
lol none of that specifically pointed to YOU guys individually. laawwwddyyy.

i get it, generalized statements ruffle feathers, fine. but christ i've said it a MILLION times and i'm not repeating myself. i'm out.

Caliber I dont believe it was your intention to come in and insult anyone..

I could pick holes with each and every sentence you type but im hoping that you actually take a look and see for yourself and for yourself.

Posted by DeeGee
Your on an Astrology Annonymous web-site where we Idnentify ourselves sloely by our Zodiac sign...HELLO

That's ok, I made the same mistake once on the Scorp boards(hence my comment on page 2) and then learned how to act right...

At least you were lucky enough to have made that mistake on the Gem boards.

Am hearing ya... 🙂

Posted by DeeGee

Posted by guccigemini55

Posted by DeeGee
are overly dramatic gems indefinitely..blah blah blah". so i'm still not sure why everything i've said aside from the first post was taken personally.


Refer back to your: i hung myself with the toxicity comment, yes.


Comment and you'll have answered your own question.

Lol the point Im trying to get across.. almost every comment is toxic and not actually constructive

I don't think so..

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Not your comments

Posted by DeeGee
I'm sure her intention wasn't in malice, I don't poke holes, I just have a flare for breaking it down a lot quicker than most....

Mercury in Gemini😉

I agree, 🙂

Merc In gem too

Aqua moon.. Passion for faciltitating people to evolve in their thinking, humanitarian= I just wanna help 🙂

I am on the same page as Whimsy. discussing is entertaining... but being apart of the problem isn't

Posted by peanutsNcrackers
Everyone lies but let`s single out the gems and hold them accountable.

Yeah; hoekay.

I hate lies.. for me lies create a jail for ourselves and others it takes away choice, of course ive lied in my life but you grow from that 🙂

Posted by peanutsNcrackers
Anyways; a good read: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Association_fallacy

An intelligent read 🙂

To the OP:

My Aqua's ex wife was a Gem. He said she drove him crazy with all the drama. (his words)

I think Gems just like excitement and have a desire for new experiences. They feel stifled when things are dull and boring. I lived with one for 18 years, so this is my take on it. If that means drama to you, then so be it.

😛

No drama from me. No harm meant.

Gems aren't the only sign that likes excitement and new experiences! Nothing wrong with that!!!!

For the record, I don't know Aqua's ex wife. And, I was too dull and boring for my Gem ex. I don't have a problem with Gems. I think you guys are fun as all get out.

Posted by guccigemini55
The Gem girls I know have always been an easy going free spirited bunch, What I find is this attracts an awful lot of people, many of us are known for having a vivacious sparkle, everyones friend type, often people want a piece of that, some of us have attracted people who are not secure in themselves and have unhealthy motives, like any sign I guess its down to life experience and whether or not we are evolved enough to handle the situation correctly, theres always drama around the corner who ever you are.. This thread is an example, i cant see any gem girls trying to create drama, although we could have taken some of the contents personally weve chosen not to, so i would say theres your conclusion 🙂

+infinity! :]

Posted by peanutsNcrackers

Posted by guccigemini55

Posted by peanutsNcrackers
Everyone lies but let`s single out the gems and hold them accountable.

Yeah; hoekay.

I hate lies.. for me lies create a jail for ourselves and others it takes away choice, of course ive lied in my life but you grow from that 🙂

No one in their right mind likes to lie. Mind you, in some cases, lying is approiate. Some information is not for the faint of heart or will cause social uprest or chaos. I side that there is cases where liar is benefical and is the right thing to do even if I like it or not. Justified lies is what I calls it.

Everyone is a liar; and saying otherwise just further proves that point.

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I understand what you are saying and of course everyone has lied at some point in their lives so im not totally disagreeing here.. hand on heart I honestly cannot remember the last time told a lie, dont get me wrong im not purer than thou by a long shot.. ya just keep quiet and hope you dont get asked 😉.. ok to give you more on an insight where im coming from my turning point was through studying zen and the art of helping others theres a way to tell people the truth without hurting feelings and its not to be horrid but to enable growth so ive kinda adopted that, for me its about compassion, my career is about facilitating growth in others, I dont want to bore anyone with it all but for me done in the right way its a true act of compassion.

Awwe this cheeky lil bad ass got a do good heart look 😛 < aqua moon the good twin 😉

Wow gems thank you for the wonderful insight. Took a bit to process all the information but my conclusion is gems love to communicate and excitment. The two mixed together can be called drama or (life) depending on the speaker.

Nearest Ive ever found for an insight of the gemini woman..

http://cyberspacei.com/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/gemini.htm#_Toc6671986

I don't think I do! I will stand up for myself however that is not drama at all,people shouldn't be disrespectful

Ok its offical gems cant help themselves they NEED drama.

Posted by EvilTurtle
Ok its offical "some" gems cant help themselves they NEED drama.

corrected. lol!

I don't love drama, drama loves me.

No. I'm a Gemini and I hate drama. I stay as far away from it as I can. If I notice a person has a lot of drama going on, I will cut them off and stop associating with them.

Posted by DeeGee

Posted by Marmotini
I don't love drama, drama loves me.

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Hahaha! YESSSSSSS!!!