Do Gemini females like a challenge??

I have a profile on a dating website looking for female friends, I've made it crystal clear about a few things, I'm not looking for any type of relationship, its strictly friends only, I don't do one night stands, fwb etc, would rather hear from females with similar interest to me.

Anyway this Gemini woman contacted me with no pictures on her profile looking for friendship too, said she really liked my profile, then out the blue asked if she could send me some private pics via the site, I said ok. She sent me a few cheeky pics (not nude but in her underwear) I complimented her but in the nicest possible way I told her she didn't need to send any more cheeky ones.

Tbh at first I thought it was a fake profile so was reluctant to chat which I think she realised, she then asked if she could call me, I said ok. She calls me in the morning, we have a really good chat and in that time she reiterates that she likes my profile and after the call she txts me to say she likes me. That same day she txts me to ask if I can meet her for a drink that evening, I had plans, so I said it wouldn't be possible but I could call her when I get back later that evening. I call her and all she kept asking me was to come over for a drink and stay the night, I made my excuses and told her no, every time I changed the subject she reverted back to asking me to come over that night, I kept telling her no but she was having none of it to the point she was literally begging. Is this woman for real??! Did she NOT understand anything I said on my profile??!!! It's like she read my profile and thinks I'm some sort of challenge or is she just testing me on what I stated?

Not too sure how loyal Gemini females are but IF I was after a relationship at this moment in time she would be right up my street because she is very attractive but I'm far too focused and strong-minded to wilt at her advances. Do I just keep telling her no and try to establish a friendship or simply ignore her txts and calls?!

In my opinion she's very hot but I'm afraid if she's after only sex even after me stating I wasn't, she's barking up the wrong tree. No doubt in my younger days I would have bitten her hand off, I'm just no longer like that, that's not to say my sex drive has diminished cos believe me it hasn't.

I do respect her for being honest and upfront with me but the thing is, even if I was looking for sex, she's making it a far too easy for me, I'm not attracted to any woman who gives it up as easy as that no matter how attractive they are. I don't think any less of her but I'm afraid she's going to have to take an L on this one and go elsewhere, although if she does, I have a sneaky feeling she will be back again.

Posted by Geminivixen

Posted by Zion
In my opinion she's very hot but I'm afraid if she's after only sex even after me stating I wasn't, she's barking up the wrong tree. No doubt in my younger days I would have bitten her hand off, I'm just no longer like that, that's not to say my sex drive has diminished cos believe me it hasn't.

I do respect her for being honest and upfront with me but the thing is, even if I was looking for sex, she's making it a far too easy for me, I'm not attracted to any woman who gives it up as easy as that no matter how attractive they are. I don't think any less of her but I'm afraid she's going to have to take an L on this one and go elsewhere, although if she does, I have a sneaky feeling she will be back again.

Damn.. Your making me want you now.. What are you doing to her to make her want you so bad? Okay put your photo up lololol 😛

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lol not going put a photo up and certainly not going to bs and make out I'm some hot ass looking guy, I'm just an average looking guy!

TROUBLE...Gems are playful and like a challenge to some extent.....She ain't playing nice....if she's not playing nice to begin with then something is seriously wrong. Walk away.

That's exactly what what I was going to tell her once she cools down! Would love to remain friends and get to know her as I think she's a really nice person, hopefully she will get to know me and understand me a little better and maybe then respect me for the reason why I said no, I certainly don't have sex without any emotional attachment or commitment, period.

Sorry.... I don't understand this level of aggressiveness in a woman. She doesn't know you and wants to show up at your house? I wonder if that is her business.

I don't see a match here. Too fast too soon.

Continue looking, Mr Zion.

P.S. I've been on dating sites. Never sent a guy an undie picture.

Besides, any woman with an operating mind will want to meet the guy in a public place.

Posted by FUM
Sorry.... I don't understand this level of aggressiveness in a woman. She doesn't know you and wants to show up at your house? I wonder if that is her business.

I don't see a match here. Too fast too soon.

Continue looking, Mr Zion.

P.S. I've been on dating sites. Never sent a guy an undie picture.

Posted by FUM
Besides, any woman with an operating mind will want to meet the guy in a public place.

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Not at my house, her house which is still dangerous as she don't know me, I could be serial killer for all she knows and I told her that.

Posted by JuneBugGem
I don't love a challenge and I'm a good girl. I don't do one night stands either but I've been one night stood by the wrong kind of guys. That's why I'm cautious and super guarded now. But every Gemini woman is different. Some of them are quite sexual and when they want someoeone I think they think they HAVE to have that person and the opportunity to be with them is too great to resist. they Not because they're trying to use you and play the maneater role, but she may be thinking she can change your mind about her if you just meet up with her and get to know what she's like in real life.

She's probably a good person with a good heart(most of us are super sensitives). She's coming off a bit desperate, but chances are that if you were in a relationship with her, she'd be loyal to you. I've also heard about the permiscuous Gemini woman, but she may not be that type at all. I'm pretyy modest and when I'm with someone, I'm with them, not them, him, him and him. Just let her know nicely that the pics seem desperate. Tell her you think she's too beautiful to sell herself out like that. Maybe it'll make her see she needs to back off a bit.

Yeah, anything's possible 🙂 I wouldn't tell her about the pics twice though...