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- Hey i have a question is there any Mercury in aquarius here?
I want to know if you can change your mind in love or you size the person from the begin weather if he is meant to be your potentiel love or friend or it can changes with time
thanks in advance! Posted by Candy_girl
Actually I friendzoned a Virgo guy. He said me he doesn't want to be my friend. Maybe he expected more than that. Or else asked me never to talk with him again. Misunderstandings happened. I asked him if I can express my feelings of love to him. He said ok. I removed my WhatsApp DP and about. He thought that I blocked him and he blocked me. I thought he doesn't love me so he blocked me. Since I was not realising my mistake. I blocked him back. Since 5 days, I sent him how much I hate him messages. He didn't reply. Finally, I realised my mistake today and expressed my care messages to him. And unblocked him. Will he ever unblock and be my love like before?
He is hurt mostly cuz you friendzoned him .and hating part is a part of the issue but the main issue is the friendzone i guess..so if you love him just go after him actions pruves to him that you care about him....i belive that it possible to win him back but don't waste too much time show him that you care.- Unless you are being afraid of being judged by other people or protecting your image
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Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.
Okay, so you don't care about "superficial" things like age, why aren't you dating a 10-year old?
It's ludicrous to ignore the influence of life experience, stages of emotional maturity and acquired wisdom. Those can only come with a capacity for self-reflexion and TIME.
Because I'm not a pedophile. What kinda self-report is this
Apparently you aren't smart enough to realize that I didn't literally mean you should date a 10-year old.
I'm dating someone younger then me, yes. If you wanted to know that you could've just asked instead of bringing children into it...weirdo
To be honest, I find it WEIRD when people categorically claim age difference is not an important aspect to consider when choosing to date someone or not. I suppose it would be convenient for you to be against questioning this, as in your case there is an (I suppose) important age-gap in your relationship.
To each their own. I find it weird for you to bring up dating a child, as a joke? making a point? idk, that's really bizarre and just icky.
You keep proving my point that you aren't smart enough to understand what I was trying to convey, so have a good day!click to expand
To be honnest i don't think it's a question of age but of maturity you can find someone way too older but still childish at heart and the opposite ,I don't want to judge but sometimes age dosen't change anything if you are a guy who dosen'ts have so much experience in generalPosted by Undine
She's feeding on you, like a vampire.
At least the vampire Bite pain dosen't last that much hahahaPosted by SureShotCap
She is an alpha widow and will properly be until her 40 because of her hypergamy. The best thing for you to do is walk away.
Thanks My friend for reply and yes it's kinda difficult for her to commitPosted by ImperfectStorm
So I had my first personal tarot read done and I’ll admit i felt myself sinking as I was listening to it. It seems as though my Venus square Neptune has fooled me once again.
The first card she pulled for the foundation was two of swords. She said this is a negative foundation and basically said that it indicates that he is deceptive and hiding something. The two of swords was clarified by Queen of Swords, justice and tower. She said this is a karmic relationship/cycle and that we probably knew each other in past life and that’s why it feels so fated and such a magnetic, strong attraction.
The justice card was clarified by the 4 of pentacles, knight of wands and the moon card. She basically said this shows that he is impulsive, lacks emotions. She said that she got the vibe that he “bullies” me or triggers my insecurities. He does have tendencies to push/pressure me, but I think bullying is a strong word. She said she feels that he oversteps boundaries with me.
The next card was eight of earns which was clarified by Knight of Cups, the Emperor and High priestess. She said the emperor card gave her vibes that he is keeping a secret from me (like he has kids or a spouse or something). She read the high priestess in 2 ways.. first she said he sucks my energy and then she said the high priestess could be MY energy as a strong woman that poses a challenge for him to conquer/control.
The next card was ten of wands. She also had two interpretations about this. She said the ten of wands could either be that I am stressed by this situation or that HE is stressed/burdened by the lie or secret that he is keeping from me. She said ten of wands can also indicate travel and delivery of a message, she said he might be confessing to me.
Next cards were kind of swords, the devil and queen of cups. She said the devil is obsessive, controlling energy and queen of cups is “wifey” energy. She said she feels the queen of cups is my nurturing energy that he takes advantage of and said that I need to take care of myself instead.
Then there was two of pentacles and she said again that he might have another person. Two of pentacles was clarified by Knight of Pentacles, King of wands and the hierophant. She said the hierophant is my goal and he is the king of wands standing in my way, distracting me from my life path.
The last card was the fool which was clarified by the star, the world, and the five of wands. So basically she said the world means that the karmic cycle is complete once I draw hard boundaries with him. So needless to say I guess it’s for the better that we never met face to face. But it was definitely kind of discouraging since I really liked this guy.
Sigh. So he is not exactly my knight in shining armor after all, but my rose-tinted fascination with him seems to have helped me get over my ex. So I guess i can thank him for that.
i thought something crazy happenedPosted by ImperfectStorm
Posted by LoveSeeker
is this capricorn tears is acting or she is really opening to me i'm kinda confused now,cuz she said i'm the only one with who she shared her life
I’m sure her tears are probably sincere and I’m sure she’s grateful for your friendship. But just because a woman opens up to a man doesn’t mean she is able to return the love that you’re offering her. You might find yourself in one of those unrequited love type of situations. In fact she doesn’t really sound healthy for you, so just be careful. Don’t lose yourself trying to save somebody else.click to expand
Hey thanks for your feedback! I'm grateful too for her friendships just felt more can happen....which why iwas still trying.yeah i'm mixing trust and love ...just because for me those qualities goes hand by hand...yeah i'm just her best confidante ...- is this capricorn tears is acting or she is really opening to me i'm kinda confused now,cuz she said i'm the only one with who she shared her life
Posted by saggurl88
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Posted by saggurl88
Same old excuse of being being hurt and not wanting a relationship. What was she crying about? Her ex leaving her?
You're wasting your time Mr. Nice Guy.
Maybe it's an excuse but i see that she really fear of commitment and that all her Relationshipq didn't last..and about her ex she left him because he didn't trust her at all and prevented her from going out with her Friends or to have any social media accounts
I would take what she says at face value. Most people will get into a relationship when they are interested.
Women are the same as men. Prolonged periods of uncertainty is a bad thing when you are just a "nice guy" to her. At least she's telling you the truth and saying she doesn't want to hurt you.
She knows too much about how you feel about her and she doesn't have enough interest in you to care.
Refocus your energy on someone who likes you in that way. Unless you like her hopeful sob stories.
You will be stringing yourself along though.click to expand
First thank you for your feedback Saggurl.
I welcome all the opinions and yeah i some realities are harsh but prefer that than sleep in false hopes
Her relationships dosen't last more than 3 weeks-months but like you said at least she jumps inPosted by saggurl88
Same old excuse of being being hurt and not wanting a relationship. What was she crying about? Her ex leaving her?
You're wasting your time Mr. Nice Guy.
Maybe it's an excuse but i see that she really fear of commitment and that all her Relationshipq didn't last..and about her ex she left him because he didn't trust her at all and prevented her from going out with her Friends or to have any social media accounts- Hello Capricorn!
This is not my not first topic here as i have already wrote before about my story with a Capricorn girl that i met on social media application and that i had an instant attraction to her .
We have been talking for a year now she calls me daily until it became a habit,i was always flirting with her..felt that she enjoy it that ,we talk for hours and hours,with time she started to open more and more about her life she told me everything about her past and when she talks about it she sounds sad but she never show it,so i just try to cheer her up everytime she talk and support her and make her laugh..3 months passed and i started to get attach so i asked her to meet up for the first time she refused..cuz she said she dosen't know me so i said ok,also she was telling me everything even about her sex and the guys who were hitting on her which made me jealous and told her that it bothers me when you talk abouth other guys..she answers"They are nice but i don't really care about them".i know it was on the friendzone but i was waiting for us to meet so i can see what happens...6 months later i tried again to meet her but she refused again..so i got hurt and stopped asking her...so instead i keep it talking with her until she gets super comfortable..
so last week i told her i'm coming to visit her so for the first time her answer was positive,she said "Suuuure comme! but i will meet you with a friend" i don't know why she wanted to bring a friend but i said "ok.."
Last Monday i went to meet her i took the train because she lives 4 hours a way because of vaccation..and when i meet her the chemistry was greater than it was on the phone..we were laughing.she was touching and we were playing together....until late at night i told her to come to the hotel because i was sitting alone and she brought her friend guy with her because he had no place to sleep so i said "sure"
she started to joke with her friend and all of sudden i got jealous and told her to stop that and then ignored them she said "awwww he is jealous again"
so her friend said to me "what's wrong with you?"
she said "he loves me ..." and after saying that she started to cry....explaining to me that she is having a problem commiting to guys because of her ex and past event and that i'm a nice guy and she dosen't want to hurt me then after the guy went to sleep she openend more to be ahout her past and she couldn't stop crying for like 4 hours ...so i listenend to her and i tried to cheered her as much as i can...then we went to sleep ....
as soon the guy wake up he decided to leave and she rushed to leave with him ,so i told her "hey stay it's been a year trying to meet you i have only 4 hours left before i leave so stay" but she didn't want to stay i felt that she was hiding her feelings or running from them .so i didn't force....when i left i send her a message telling her that i had a very lovely moment with her and that i want to see her lovely smile again and i don't want her to see her cry again..
I still want to try because the chemistry and connection with her is so deeep that even the blind can see it..but now she loooks so distant and alooof ..it's been 3 days and still no contacts ....
i want to keep trying cuz there is absolutely something there between us..
I'm her best friend for one year now
Any advice capricorns? - How to know if a capricorn girl likes you as friend or as lover?
I m talking with this person for 2 months and daily no stop until we sleep in the phonecall but i don t have any clue if it s the friendzone or not
We will meet in september when she comes back from her vacation - because it's funny
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Posted by caIiber
If you're willing to wait a long time... be charming and quietly persistent but not overbearing. Don't throw too much on her as far as your expectations go, or she'll possibly bolt.
If I don't really like someone like that, I subconsciously make them work for my attention. Give me something to like and I'll think about it 🤷
I m always trying and i m the one initiating
The texts, waiting her is no problem for me but she dosen't reveal too much and that scares me a bit.something to like ?do you mean gifts?
