does anyone give gem girls a chance anymore?

I feel like anyone who lets astrological stereotypes influence them in any way does not give gem girls a chance anymore.

They read about us and assume we are bitchy and can't commit to anyone and say "I'm not gunna deal with that!" Even Aries guys that we get along with really well say ohh ultimately I want a nice sane clean calm girl that I can take home to mom like a Cancer or a Taurus and even though its not right for them, they will suck up their wild side and fake being a tame good guy just to get an earth girlfriend.

My Aries ex has a boring but super sweet girl next door, Taurus girl and she makes him look good, but I feel like he is going crazy inside and will blow up at some point after controlling and taming himself for her all the time. I 'feel' this because he has tried to solicit me for crazy rough sex because there are so many things he can't do to/with her. I don't want him to cheat on her with me or anyone else since I am against cheating and even if I wasn't, she specifically is so nice and doesn't deserve that. Anyway, I don't know how he would live that life style much longer without going crazy or cheating on her, since he has already tried. I don't want to date him again, I just don't get why someone would want a relationship where they can't be themselves.

I am a little goofy, but I'm not crazy, and can definitely commit to a man. gosh!!! Who am I supposed to date!!

Yea I am faithful too, but my gemini ascendant makes people think im cuckoo. And I like to intellectualize and talk about hypothetical situations which makes some people think I have no emotions. It is becoming a lot more clear as I deal with people more frequently in adult friendships/relationships.

Consider yourself lucky. Bullet dodged. Anyone who would judge a person solely based on their zodiac sign isn't someone you'd want to be with, anyway. They're cheating themselves out of experiences. I see astrology as a way to understand people, not exclude them. I couldn't imagine only dating or being friends with Aquas and Libras, because it's the safest bet. Nor would I automatically avoid certain signs without due cause.
People who behave this way are looking for a sure thing. They want astrology to do the work for them. A guarantee that if they date A. He'll be faithful, and if they avoid B. They'll find eternal love. It's easier to prejudge than actually sticking one's neck out and taking a chance.
We are so much more than our sun signs. Anyone who is not willing to look beyond that is not worth your time.

I haven't met anyone in real life who explicitly stated they wouldnt hang out with a gemini, but I spent a lot of time reading the Cancer board that last few months when I dated a cancer guy and some of the people on that board seemed to just be like ugh geminis!! They are two faced and terrible! haha

@GCV

I know right. I have this same problem. I might be zany and completely eccentric maybe a little neurotic, but hell I am also faithful when there is a good person around. But I am anything but boring, calm, or routine. That isn't in my book. I think that is why so many water signs are attracted to me because Gemini's are everything they are not. I love to laugh, have fun, do off the wall things, laugh at my own jokes, etc. Oh excuse me if I'm not boring and placid. Geeze. Seems like so many guys can handle the earth/water signs but absolutely not the air ones. Figures right? Air isn't meant to be contained or boxed in. We keep people on their toes. Some just don't know what to do with us and our unpredictable selves.

However that story you said about your ex coming back asking you for amazing crazy sex. OMG! I know! I don't know how many times I have been called for things like that. I'm like hell no. Oh you can get with this but you can't be my man? No thanks. Can't handle this mess that means you won't be getting a ticket to this Cirque du Soliel that's right! Now walk on home to Susie Homemaker! (Hair Toss)

hahahaha Xin, you're not getting a ticket to cirque du soleil!! That is too funny.

Maybe guys think it's easier to make a good girl go bad than to make a bad girl go good.

I have never met a guy yet who believes in astrological signs and stereotype us geminis thank goodness lol. I have been told that I'm weird and that makes me not girlfriend material. I think I can use that to my advantage and weed guys out haha I need someone who can handle me. 😉