Gemini's + Misunderstanding = ?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Xin on Tuesday, May 15, 2012 and has 20 replies.

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@Xin
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So why is it we are so misunderstood on this board?It seems to me that when we post or me directly, when I post something along the lines of someone else same type of subject they get more in depth answers and I get, well to put it plainly nothing constructive. I just read over someone else's post about having some issues with a Scorpio and they went into major detail and mine I just felt more like I was on trial. What is the issue with people and Gemini's on this board. I don't think we are that bad. Feeling like some people just rather assume than really get to know us.

Le sigh....
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@Xin
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I do talk a lot I mean I will admit that. I have some placements in air but also a bit of water/earth placements.

I just figured maybe someone could shine a light on this predicament because I feel sometimes things are overlooked due to my sign or maybe what others have done previously before I came to this board of some of us who lurk now in the Gemini forum.

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@Xin
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Well of course not, especially if they are biased. I've just been trying to figure out what the hell has been going on and why certain signs are overlooked. I try to contribute but here I am thinking wow no one likes us Gem's. I think we are a wiley bunch and pretty interesting.
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@Xin
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Yeah more than likely. Mostly just trying to figure out the issue with people not liking us Gem's. Either it was people before us, blah blah who knows.
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@Xin
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You know I just don't see where all these posts were made about Gem's and Scorp's being a great pair esp female Gem's and Male Scorp's. I'm like where the hell is that posted at la la land? Cause shit mine was anything but happy puppies and rainbows and cotton candy. More like 9th gate in hell.
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@Xin
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Posted by anearthygemini
Posted by Xin
You know I just don't see where all these posts were made about Gem's and Scorp's being a great pair esp female Gem's and Male Scorp's. I'm like where the hell is that posted at la la land? Cause shit mine was anything but happy puppies and rainbows and cotton candy. More like 9th gate in hell.



Sorry to read this Xin,

Did you guys break up? Or is it another episode of —the battle of the wills— You have a good and strong will, and you need a guy who respects that. I hope all is well. I love your personality. You're a straight shooter. 🙂
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Thanks Earthy 🙂

I am a straight shooter and that is probably what caused our demise. Honestly his Cap moon wasn't helping the situation either. I'm not sure what he's doing now but I know he's doing something with another female. He swears up and down it's platonic but eh. I guess it isn't my business anyways. I broke up with him. I guess I am having a hard time trying to figure out where I went wrong esp with as many posts as I have made about this Scorpio. I decided to end it because of disrespect and a myriad of things. See the strange thing is that I find it really hard to give up on someone. Probably from my Taurus Venus and Mars. Really wish it would have worked out but in the end I made the decision. Of course I keep second guessing my choice but I know deep down that logic rules over the heart and right now my heart is speaking to me and my mind is fighting it. *Les sigh*
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@Whimsy
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Gem guys seem to disappear from DXP. It sucks, because (besides simply missing them) there are lots of questions people have for the guys, and it's often us girls trying to answer on their behalf. I think we do an alright job, but we'll never know what it's like to be a guy.
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@Xin
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I think Carlos ran off cause someone scared him off. I can't remember her name but apparently he had some crush on her? Water sign girl. Id like them to come back cause a lot of the females have questions about Gemini males.
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@ElleSeCache
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Posted by Marrakesha
Having grown-up with a Gemini mother as a single-parent, I understand the twists and turns and psychology/pathology of a Gemini very well. It's an interesting one and not as contradictory as many people think it is from the outside. Yes, there are certain things are completely contradictory about Geminis, but they very intelligent and intricate thinkers who unfortunately are not the best at executing their thoughts and intentions because they can become easily distracted by so many things. You can't give a Gemini too many options because they won't be able to make a real decision.

They also are a very emotional sign that really wants to be understood and accepted. I think most Geminis feel out of place and like most people don't understand or appreciate them and write them off as just being crazy or superficial or whatever, but this isn't true at all.



^^^ TA! DAH!!
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@Xin
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I looooove Leo's but for some odd reason I've been finding really strange ones lately. Or maybe the one I just met was weird. He was all super into this Scorpio female that wanted ZERO to do with him. Heh. Totally wasn't going to waste my time because I know how that is trying with a friggin' Scorpio. Pff. Done and done. Too old for me anyways.

COME ON UNIVERSE SEND ME AN AWESOME LEO!

I think I want like a super Leo like....Leo in several houses 🙂
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@Xin
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Gand - Yeah you're probably right about the Leo thing I said. I just love them! Yay!

Oh and totally 100% correct on that Leo I was talking about he did have some Cancer placements. I was like *rolls eyes*
I got annoyed and just left. NEXT!

Im a Gemini with some earth placements both double Taurus in Venus/Mars 😄
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@littlegemini
13 YearsGemini
my sun/venus sign is gemini, moon/saturn sign Aquarius, ascending/mercury sign Cancer, mars in taurus, Jupiter in virgo, uranus/neptune/node capricorn, & pluto in scorpio.

I'm honestly dominated by Gemini, then Aquarius. I get misunderstood alot. people don't give the chance for us to fully explain, or simply put, everyone wants to know about you but only 10% want to be your friend. i find that in life alot being a gemini. we go through much and thats because we care too much. I'm a total noobie boobie here with this board but im guessing you were your gemini bluntly honest self and said something other people didn't want to hear or were too sensitive & got offended. Typing is a great and a bad way of communicating, you can reach out instantly, but its so easy to misunderstand someone. So easy. its all in tone.

LEOS ARE THE SHIT MAN I FUCKIN LOVE EM LOVE EM LOVE EM. BEST FRIENDS IN THE WORLD TO A GEMINI.
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@BeaShine
12 Years
Some Geminis aren't so friendly... The ones that I've come across are double crossers and backstabbers.... And I'm NOTHING like them ! ( yes I am a Gem)


But there's only 2 Gems that I get along with ... And they were both born in May ..