Feeling broken

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Princess420
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7 Years

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Hey so . I’ve had this Gemini guy in my life for a little while . We recently just re connected we’ve been doing this “thing “

Since October of last year at first it was really hot and steamy and we shared every moment together . Then he started pushing me away he said it was because he was falling so we became very on and off . Soon I just started to believe he was just here for the Sex because he’d come in then leave right after . Recently he texted me saying he missed the times we had and he missed me . But I told him I just think he looks at me as a fuck he goes on to tell

Me he wasn’t with me just for that . Long story short we ended up hooking up

Then two days later he texts me saying “ from my heart I love you ( he’s never said I love you ) ever before but I may not hear from

Him ever again because he’s in a bad place and he doesn’t wanna keep failing and that’s he’s sorry “ I’m very confused and broken myself I’m a Pisces and I’ve been holding on for a while deep down I just honestly feel like this is all manipulation and I wanna hate him and just get over it .
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7 Years

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What happened? Talk to us... You might feel better.
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I posted it . I’m very confused it’s not like we have any bad blood or anything we have a great time together . I just don’t see why he’s doing this . I feel like it’s him trying to use me as a back burner for him

And his ex but I honestly don’t know that . He keeps a strong distance from me and it’s been like that ever since after Christmas he said he was starting to fall in love .
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Princess420
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What happened? Talk to us... You might feel better.

I posted it . I’m very confused it’s not like we have any bad blood or anything we have a great time together . I just don’t see why he’s doing this . I feel like it’s him trying to use me as a back burner for him

And his ex but I honestly don’t know that . He keeps a strong distance from me and it’s been like that ever since after Christmas he said he was starting to fall in love .


So he's being avoidant once he said he's starting to fall for you? Did you reciprocate?
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No I didn’t start acting the same , I just let him know it’s understandable because I myself was a little scared . And that we could take it slow and I told him I was happy he found a way to explain what’s being going

On . But I’ve never given him the cold shoulder like he does me. He just completely pushes me away but will watch me on social media
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Princess420
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7 Years

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Posted by Princess420

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Princess420




What happened? Talk to us... You might feel better.

I posted it . I’m very confused it’s not like we have any bad blood or anything we have a great time together . I just don’t see why he’s doing this . I feel like it’s him trying to use me as a back burner for him

And his ex but I honestly don’t know that . He keeps a strong distance from me and it’s been like that ever since after Christmas he said he was starting to fall in love .


So he's being avoidant once he said he's starting to fall for you? Did you reciprocate?
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I also

Give him his space . When he runs away . I try a few times to

Catch his attention but he ignores it so I just fall back . I’m not into

The cat and mouse chase thing
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You're being to understanding with him and his bull shyt excuses of why he isn't with you. Falling too hard —? REALLY—? He's full of shyt. Tell him to come over and to stop being so freaking dramatic. Put your foot down. Don't coddle him and his dramatic antics. If you want to see him, tell him and he will come. Gemini men aren't that hard to get.
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Princess420
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7 Years

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Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Princess420

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Princess420

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Princess420




What happened? Talk to us... You might feel better.

I posted it . I’m very confused it’s not like we have any bad blood or anything we have a great time together . I just don’t see why he’s doing this . I feel like it’s him trying to use me as a back burner for him

And his ex but I honestly don’t know that . He keeps a strong distance from me and it’s been like that ever since after Christmas he said he was starting to fall in love .


So he's being avoidant once he said he's starting to fall for you? Did you reciprocate?

No I didn’t start acting the same , I just let him know it’s understandable because I myself was a little scared . And that we could take it slow and I told him I was happy he found a way to explain what’s being going

On . But I’ve never given him the cold shoulder like he does me. He just completely pushes me away but will watch me on social media


Do you guys meet up or it's online rn?

If you are uncertain, geminis tend to hold back.

Do you know what you want with him?
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Well In the beginning we spent every day together , that was atleast 3months before we started having Sex . Then out of the blue his ex dropped in on us he let me know he wasn’t dealing with her anymore . And that he didn’t want her . That’s when we started being physical. Once that happened he grew distant . I felt like it was as if he was trying to balance us both . Then it turned into us seeing each other on and off . But him always watching my social media . Then we’d see one another in person have sex and he’d go back to his hole . Then I finally told him how I really felt about the ex situation and that it would really hurt me if he still was talking to her even as friends and he let me know that she’d come by his place and poured detergent all over his car after that he disappeared once again . Then he came

Back and wanted to meet up . So we met up

Then he hits me with the I love you then leaves . Again



I know that if he’d just tell me what’s really going on . I’d be considerate of his situation and I’d stick by his side . I honestly do care about and love him. I would love to be his woman and have a family he’s an amazing guy he’s just confusing . And I wish I could

Truly understand him and not just hear him

Saying sorry over and over again for

Going away because he’s down . I wanna actually be there for him make him happy but I don’t think he wants that . He just wants to be alone
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Princess420
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Posted by saggurl88

You're being to understanding with him and his bull shyt excuses of why he isn't with you. Falling too hard —? REALLY—? He's full of shyt. Tell him to come over and to stop being so freaking dramatic. Put your foot down. Don't coddle him and his dramatic antics. If you want to see him, tell him and he will come. Gemini men aren't that hard to get.

Did that already he just stays to himself . Or gives me with another excuse .
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Princess420
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Posted by Princess420

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Posted by Princess420

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Princess420

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by Princess420




What happened? Talk to us... You might feel better.

I posted it . I’m very confused it’s not like we have any bad blood or anything we have a great time together . I just don’t see why he’s doing this . I feel like it’s him trying to use me as a back burner for him

And his ex but I honestly don’t know that . He keeps a strong distance from me and it’s been like that ever since after Christmas he said he was starting to fall in love .


So he's being avoidant once he said he's starting to fall for you? Did you reciprocate?

No I didn’t start acting the same , I just let him know it’s understandable because I myself was a little scared . And that we could take it slow and I told him I was happy he found a way to explain what’s being going

On . But I’ve never given him the cold shoulder like he does me. He just completely pushes me away but will watch me on social media


Do you guys meet up or it's online rn?

If you are uncertain, geminis tend to hold back.

Do you know what you want with him?

Well In the beginning we spent every day together , that was atleast 3months before we started having Sex . Then out of the blue his ex dropped in on us he let me know he wasn’t dealing with her anymore . And that he didn’t want her . That’s when we started being physical. Once that happened he grew distant . I felt like it was as if he was trying to balance us both . Then it turned into us seeing each other on and off . But him always watching my social media . Then we’d see one another in person have sex and he’d go back to his hole . Then I finally told him how I really felt about the ex situation and that it would really hurt me if he still was talking to her even as friends and he let me know that she’d come by his place and poured detergent all over his car after that he disappeared once again . Then he came

Back and wanted to meet up . So we met up

Then he hits me with the I love you then leaves . Again



I know that if he’d just tell me what’s really going on . I’d be considerate of his situation and I’d stick by his side . I honestly do care about and love him. I would love to be his woman and have a family he’s an amazing guy he’s just confusing . And I wish I could

Truly understand him and not just hear him

Saying sorry over and over again for

Going away because he’s down . I wanna actually be there for him make him happy but I don’t think he wants that . He just wants to be alone


Next time he's around tell him how you feel and show him by actions. Be supportive. Once he trusts you, he will open up and share whatever that he has on his head with you. Just don't look at the end game, take things day by day and be there for him. Words to reassure him how you feel, he's a Gemini afterall. Sometimes all we want to hear is some cute stuff and to be adored. We don't expect you to do the heavy lifting or be our crutch. Telling him you are there for him would mean a lot to him.

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Thank you girl imma try : I appreciate the advice
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You're being to understanding with him and his bull shyt excuses of why he isn't with you. Falling too hard —? REALLY—? He's full of shyt. Tell him to come over and to stop being so freaking dramatic. Put your foot down. Don't coddle him and his dramatic antics. If you want to see him, tell him and he will come. Gemini men aren't that hard to get.


I love your respond so damn much. 😍
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Why? lol? What sign are you?
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Princess420
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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Nevamore

Posted by saggurl88

You're being to understanding with him and his bull shyt excuses of why he isn't with you. Falling too hard —? REALLY—? He's full of shyt. Tell him to come over and to stop being so freaking dramatic. Put your foot down. Don't coddle him and his dramatic antics. If you want to see him, tell him and he will come. Gemini men aren't that hard to get.


I love your respond so damn much. 😍


Why? lol? What sign are you?


Because thats whag I also want to respond like thag as having Aries merc. like.. GET YOUR FUCKING GRIP HES BUFUCKINGSHITER AND STAND ON YOUR GROUND LIKE A MOTHERFUCKING ROCK
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Honestly it’s not in between I rather just let go of the like all together I don’t have time to be pretend mad . It’s either I’m nice or I don’t care .
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Posted by Princess420

Posted by Nevamore

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Nevamore

Posted by saggurl88

You're being to understanding with him and his bull shyt excuses of why he isn't with you. Falling too hard —? REALLY—? He's full of shyt. Tell him to come over and to stop being so freaking dramatic. Put your foot down. Don't coddle him and his dramatic antics. If you want to see him, tell him and he will come. Gemini men aren't that hard to get.


I love your respond so damn much. 😍


Why? lol? What sign are you?


Because thats whag I also want to respond like thag as having Aries merc. like.. GET YOUR FUCKING GRIP HES BUFUCKINGSHITER AND STAND ON YOUR GROUND LIKE A MOTHERFUCKING ROCK


Honestly it’s not in between I rather just let go of the like all together I don’t have time to be pretend mad . It’s either I’m nice or I don’t care .
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And once you start not caring so much is probably when he will start trying to come around more lol Attraction works in funny ways lol