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saggurl88
joined February 23, 2013
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  • saggurl88
    SunSagittarius MoonCancer MercurySagittarius VenusScorpio MarsLeo Jup
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    Posted by Gobby
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    You can lead a horse to water...


    Who’s riding the horse? 🐎 😜

    Well, it certainly isn't me...
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    I know. You’re such a saint!Laughing Tongue
  • saggurl88
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    I’ve never liked women. I can appreciate how beautiful they are and love looking at them naked. But don’t care so much for the taste of poosey 😩🤢

    It’s an acquired taste!
  • saggurl88
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    Posted by Gobby
    You can lead a horse to water...


    Who’s riding the horse? 🐎 😜
  • saggurl88
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    Posted by FantamRooster
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    he's going to do what he is going to do. i think we can be swayed on some things but we can be very stubborn and the to-ing and fro-ing can be only an attempt to delay what we know deep down we are going to do anyway.

    the best thing for him is to wait it out. tell him to have a time frame in mind - 6 weeks, 6 months, 6 days. whatever he thinks is a reasonable time to wait before he makes his final decision. he may feel differently then or he might fel the same, but he would have given it some time at least to make sure he is certain.


    Sometimes putting a time frame inplay delays the inevitable. I dont think the relationship with the girlfriend could or will last if he is confused between the two. You either love them or you dont. Im so guilty of using time frames and they just make it worse for me🤔


    true but feelings can be fleeting. i know if i go with a knee jerk reaction that i can regret it. for me, it has to sit with me for a while for me to determine if i am being carelessly reactionary or if there is merit to my sentiment.

    people in relationships often form crushes on other people. it doesn't mean everyone acts on it or lets it ruin the relationship. sometimes it can be an opportunity to address anything lacking. i wouldn't blow up my long term relationship on the basis on what could be a temporary crush.


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    people in relationships often form crushes on other people. it doesn't mean everyone acts on it or lets it ruin the relationship. sometimes it can be an opportunity to address anything lacking"

    thank you! Maybe it's just my experience but this is a standard-fare conversation to have in relationships at some points. Especially in my twenties because that's a time that's rife with walking the tightrope between what I thought was "the right way to do things" vs what was ACTUALLY right for me and my partner


    Wow. You have actually admitted to crushes on other people without destroying the existing relationship? I believe in open communication about most things, but that is something I would not want to hear. You're right, my ego would intervene.


    I also agree with @jeane.

    I would want to know if you have a crush on someone. I would want to know how it started and why you even got involved, and I would want to communicate about the next step in the relationship and we where to go from there.


    If there was involvement of any kind, that wouldn't be a crush to me, that would be cheating, and I'd be fit to be tied. Winking To me an innocent crush is one where the crush doesn't know he or she is a crushee. Those are the ones I don't need to know about.
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    Awww yes, I agree. But this is a kid in his 20's. He has much to learn about relationships in lifeLaughing

    He's blowing the longest relationship he's had right now. He loves the girl and admits that she's been the best girlfriend to him so far.
    As much as he want's a relationship, I don't think he's actually ready for one. He'll learn how to do things along the way.
  • saggurl88
    SunSagittarius MoonCancer MercurySagittarius VenusScorpio MarsLeo Jup
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    Posted by Black-Mamba
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    Old people scare me. I always think they are gonna for at any minute. I don’t want to be around when it happens! 😥😓


    im not talking about people in their 70s or 80s dude



    Oh lol Tongue

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    lol dude we got to worry about this butter, time flies, we're next

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    UGH! I know!!!

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  • saggurl88
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    Posted by FantamRooster
    Posted by tiziani
    Posted by jeane
    Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
    Posted by jeane
    he's going to do what he is going to do. i think we can be swayed on some things but we can be very stubborn and the to-ing and fro-ing can be only an attempt to delay what we know deep down we are going to do anyway.

    the best thing for him is to wait it out. tell him to have a time frame in mind - 6 weeks, 6 months, 6 days. whatever he thinks is a reasonable time to wait before he makes his final decision. he may feel differently then or he might fel the same, but he would have given it some time at least to make sure he is certain.


    Sometimes putting a time frame inplay delays the inevitable. I dont think the relationship with the girlfriend could or will last if he is confused between the two. You either love them or you dont. Im so guilty of using time frames and they just make it worse for me🤔


    true but feelings can be fleeting. i know if i go with a knee jerk reaction that i can regret it. for me, it has to sit with me for a while for me to determine if i am being carelessly reactionary or if there is merit to my sentiment.

    people in relationships often form crushes on other people. it doesn't mean everyone acts on it or lets it ruin the relationship. sometimes it can be an opportunity to address anything lacking. i wouldn't blow up my long term relationship on the basis on what could be a temporary crush.


    "
    people in relationships often form crushes on other people. it doesn't mean everyone acts on it or lets it ruin the relationship. sometimes it can be an opportunity to address anything lacking"

    thank you! Maybe it's just my experience but this is a standard-fare conversation to have in relationships at some points. Especially in my twenties because that's a time that's rife with walking the tightrope between what I thought was "the right way to do things" vs what was ACTUALLY right for me and my partner


    Wow. You have actually admitted to crushes on other people without destroying the existing relationship? I believe in open communication about most things, but that is something I would not want to hear. You're right, my ego would intervene.
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    I also agree with @jeane.

    I would want to know if you have a crush on someone. I would want to know how it started and why you even got involved, and I would want to communicate about the next step in the relationship and we where to go from there.
  • saggurl88
    SunSagittarius MoonCancer MercurySagittarius VenusScorpio MarsLeo Jup
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    Posted by piscesgotherscorpio
    I have a libra moon. So it comes down to whether or not theybe ruined me for every other guy. If the D is so dickmatizing the rest fall short then decision made.

    my vagina does not have libra in it.
    only scorpio!
    *rimshot*


    Hey now!Laughing

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    Posted by tiziani
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    I don't think it's a real decision honestly.

    You gotta decide on what you need and want, and that's all.

    The two women maybe one of them will listen maybe neither of them will. But that doesn't change your direction. It's not a reflection on either of them. But I've got to be real that i've seen women get competitive, ego gets in the way and they get arrogant turning it into a me vs her thing.

    Which means your relationship with either one is redundant since you can't trust either of them to pay attention to you.


    wut?

    How is a man juggling two women somehow an ego problem for the women? lol


    Because it's not about the two women. He's got to focus on himself.


    For each of the women, it is about her. She's got to focus on herself.


    That is the healthy way to go about it. When it gets into "it's me vs her" it's not about that anymore, it just becomes some weird competitive thing that's way off.


    Maybe so. I don't really see much of a way around that when you want a monogamous relationship, and you find out your dude has another woman (or your woman has another man, as the case may be.)


    Ah well, I ddin't get the impression this is about sex giving what he told his girlfriend. But I could be wrong. I dunno the full story.


    I always assume a romantic relationship includes sex unless I know specifically it doesn't. She did mention that the Cancer didn't want to be a "side chick."


    He just met a new girl and he wants to pursue her and dump the old girl, basically. He has't known the girl for that long though


    Is he not cheating, then? I kind of assumed he was. If he's not, maybe he just wants that Cancer ass really really bad, bad enough to dump the Sag.

    I wouldn't have given any advice in this situation if I were you either. Who knows what the best thing to do would be. Only time will show him that, and most people don't stay with someone they get with in their early 20s. *shrugs*

    I didn't even really mean to get involved in your friend's business; I was just taken aback by what Tiz said and trying to understand it.


    No, The cancer girl didn't want to. She basically gave him an ultimatum and said if you want some, then dump your girl and start dating me lol


    So he made the wrong choice then lol I agree with you, bad decision. She's already using him.
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    I didn't say much to him, but he will know pretty soon if it was worth it or not.

    @FantamRooster

    It's cool. I posted the topic for everyone smile You're input is welcome, just like the rest!

    It's always nicer to talk about random strangers life scenarios Laughing
  • saggurl88
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    Posted by tiziani
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    I don't think it's a real decision honestly.

    You gotta decide on what you need and want, and that's all.

    The two women maybe one of them will listen maybe neither of them will. But that doesn't change your direction. It's not a reflection on either of them. But I've got to be real that i've seen women get competitive, ego gets in the way and they get arrogant turning it into a me vs her thing.

    Which means your relationship with either one is redundant since you can't trust either of them to pay attention to you.


    wut?

    How is a man juggling two women somehow an ego problem for the women? lol


    Because it's not about the two women. He's got to focus on himself.


    For each of the women, it is about her. She's got to focus on herself.


    That is the healthy way to go about it. When it gets into "it's me vs her" it's not about that anymore, it just becomes some weird competitive thing that's way off.


    Maybe so. I don't really see much of a way around that when you want a monogamous relationship, and you find out your dude has another woman (or your woman has another man, as the case may be.)


    Ah well, I ddin't get the impression this is about sex giving what he told his girlfriend. But I could be wrong. I dunno the full story.


    I always assume a romantic relationship includes sex unless I know specifically it doesn't. She did mention that the Cancer didn't want to be a "side chick."


    He just met a new girl and he wants to pursue her and dump the old girl, basically. He has't known the girl for that long though


    Is he not cheating, then? I kind of assumed he was. If he's not, maybe he just wants that Cancer ass really really bad, bad enough to dump the Sag.

    I wouldn't have given any advice in this situation if I were you either. Who knows what the best thing to do would be. Only time will show him that, and most people don't stay with someone they get with in their early 20s. *shrugs*

    I didn't even really mean to get involved in your friend's business; I was just taken aback by what Tiz said and trying to understand it.



    Which part because I think I'm expressing myself in a real muddy way today
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    This is what I like!Laughing Always willing to talk it through! I love clear communication and getting to the bottom of it smile
  • saggurl88
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    Posted by FantamRooster
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    I don't think it's a real decision honestly.

    You gotta decide on what you need and want, and that's all.

    The two women maybe one of them will listen maybe neither of them will. But that doesn't change your direction. It's not a reflection on either of them. But I've got to be real that i've seen women get competitive, ego gets in the way and they get arrogant turning it into a me vs her thing.

    Which means your relationship with either one is redundant since you can't trust either of them to pay attention to you.


    wut?

    How is a man juggling two women somehow an ego problem for the women? lol


    Because it's not about the two women. He's got to focus on himself.


    For each of the women, it is about her. She's got to focus on herself.


    That is the healthy way to go about it. When it gets into "it's me vs her" it's not about that anymore, it just becomes some weird competitive thing that's way off.


    Maybe so. I don't really see much of a way around that when you want a monogamous relationship, and you find out your dude has another woman (or your woman has another man, as the case may be.)


    Ah well, I ddin't get the impression this is about sex giving what he told his girlfriend. But I could be wrong. I dunno the full story.


    I always assume a romantic relationship includes sex unless I know specifically it doesn't. She did mention that the Cancer didn't want to be a "side chick."


    He just met a new girl and he wants to pursue her and dump the old girl, basically. He has't known the girl for that long though


    Is he not cheating, then? I kind of assumed he was. If he's not, maybe he just wants that Cancer ass really really bad, bad enough to dump the Sag.

    I wouldn't have given any advice in this situation if I were you either. Who knows what the best thing to do would be. Only time will show him that, and most people don't stay with someone they get with in their early 20s. *shrugs*

    I didn't even really mean to get involved in your friend's business; I was just taken aback by what Tiz said and trying to understand it.
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    No, The cancer girl didn't want to. She basically gave him an ultimatum and said if you want some, then dump your girl and start dating me lol
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    Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3
    Best advise you could give him is to always remember to use a raincoat.


    Definitely!
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    Posted by Black-Mamba
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    Old people scare me. I always think they are gonna for at any minute. I don’t want to be around when it happens! 😥😓


    im not talking about people in their 70s or 80s dude

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    Oh lol Tongue

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  • saggurl88
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    Posted by FantamRooster
    Posted by tiziani
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    Posted by tiziani
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    Posted by tiziani
    Posted by FantamRooster
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    I don't think it's a real decision honestly.

    You gotta decide on what you need and want, and that's all.

    The two women maybe one of them will listen maybe neither of them will. But that doesn't change your direction. It's not a reflection on either of them. But I've got to be real that i've seen women get competitive, ego gets in the way and they get arrogant turning it into a me vs her thing.

    Which means your relationship with either one is redundant since you can't trust either of them to pay attention to you.


    wut?

    How is a man juggling two women somehow an ego problem for the women? lol


    Because it's not about the two women. He's got to focus on himself.


    For each of the women, it is about her. She's got to focus on herself.


    That is the healthy way to go about it. When it gets into "it's me vs her" it's not about that anymore, it just becomes some weird competitive thing that's way off.


    Maybe so. I don't really see much of a way around that when you want a monogamous relationship, and you find out your dude has another woman (or your woman has another man, as the case may be.)


    Ah well, I ddin't get the impression this is about sex giving what he told his girlfriend. But I could be wrong. I dunno the full story.


    I always assume a romantic relationship includes sex unless I know specifically it doesn't. She did mention that the Cancer didn't want to be a "side chick."
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    He just met a new girl and he wants to pursue her and dump the old girl, basically. He has't known the girl for that long though
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    Posted by 2Moon
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    Well thanks everyone. It’s too late. Lol he jumpethe him and just told his girl of 3 years (that he lives with) that he likes the cancer girl and doesn’t know what to do.

    Cancer girl threatened to stop talking to him cause she didn’t want to be a side chick.

    I told him that he will have to decide for himself if the grass is greener. But the cancer girl is extremely jealous. He doesn’t know that side of her yet and he’s only been talking with her for about 3 months.

    He’s young, in his 20’s, he will figure it out and learn lessons on life. I guess


    Oh godddd

    What a treetrunking retard this guy

    I don't Eve know why I care


    But GODD FOOOKING DAMN, HE IS A RETARD.

    tell him to connect on dxpnet and read everything that 2Moon has said about Libra - Cancer pairings

    🙌 😅😅😅

    😂😂😂

    What a treetrunking retard this guy.


    He is oblivious to when she's mad or jealous. It's gonna be a major problem for him lol But he has to learn for himself!Laughing


    You in real life very soon:

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    I love your new Avi BTW! lol
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    lol. Mine is body of a goddess, face from hellLaughing
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    Posted by tiziani
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by tiziani
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by tiziani
    I don't think it's a real decision honestly.

    You gotta decide on what you need and want, and that's all.

    The two women maybe one of them will listen maybe neither of them will. But that doesn't change your direction. It's not a reflection on either of them. But I've got to be real that i've seen women get competitive, ego gets in the way and they get arrogant turning it into a me vs her thing.

    Which means your relationship with either one is redundant since you can't trust either of them to pay attention to you.


    Tiz, Sag women don't fight for a man. We will let them go and just deal with it.

    At least I'm that way. There's too many men out here willing to give me what I want if a guy doesn't want to be here. But it still just depends on how tired I am of his butter. I put up a lot, too much in fact. I am extremely forgiving when someone is truthful. It's a major flaw that I ave.


    What makes that a flaw? It'd be an opportunity to get to deepen your relationship imo.


    Well it depends on how many times you tell me the "Truth" and take advantage of my kindness smile

    Once I start feeling used, I will end it. But only after I catch you in a lie lol It can be a tiny one too lol I will wait around for it and then be goneLaughing


    But you are getting something out of it for yourself right? Or does it just feel like you're doing a favour for the other person?
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    It feels like I'm letting the person walk all over me, just cause they told the truth lol I can deal with a lot though, but too much of it is bad. Especially if the truth hurts me. What could I possibly get out of that?

    I like knowing the truth so we can work on our issues and push through it together. Not use truth to run around and do whatever you want.
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    Yes, very true! smile
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    Posted by 2Moon
    Posted by saggurl88
    Well thanks everyone. It’s too late. Lol he jumpethe him and just told his girl of 3 years (that he lives with) that he likes the cancer girl and doesn’t know what to do.

    Cancer girl threatened to stop talking to him cause she didn’t want to be a side chick.

    I told him that he will have to decide for himself if the grass is greener. But the cancer girl is extremely jealous. He doesn’t know that side of her yet and he’s only been talking with her for about 3 months.

    He’s young, in his 20’s, he will figure it out and learn lessons on life. I guess


    Oh godddd

    What a treetrunking retard this guy

    I don't Eve know why I care


    But GODD FOOOKING DAMN, HE IS A RETARD.

    tell him to connect on dxpnet and read everything that 2Moon has said about Libra - Cancer pairings

    🙌 😅😅😅

    😂😂😂

    What a treetrunking retard this guy.
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    He is oblivious to when she's mad or jealous. It's gonna be a major problem for him lol But he has to learn for himself!Laughing
  • saggurl88
    SunSagittarius MoonCancer MercurySagittarius VenusScorpio MarsLeo Jup
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    Posted by tiziani
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by tiziani
    I don't think it's a real decision honestly.

    You gotta decide on what you need and want, and that's all.

    The two women maybe one of them will listen maybe neither of them will. But that doesn't change your direction. It's not a reflection on either of them. But I've got to be real that i've seen women get competitive, ego gets in the way and they get arrogant turning it into a me vs her thing.

    Which means your relationship with either one is redundant since you can't trust either of them to pay attention to you.


    Tiz, Sag women don't fight for a man. We will let them go and just deal with it.

    At least I'm that way. There's too many men out here willing to give me what I want if a guy doesn't want to be here. But it still just depends on how tired I am of his butter. I put up a lot, too much in fact. I am extremely forgiving when someone is truthful. It's a major flaw that I ave.


    What makes that a flaw? It'd be an opportunity to get to deepen your relationship imo.
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    Well it depends on how many times you tell me the "Truth" and take advantage of my kindness smile

    Once I start feeling used, I will end it. But only after I catch you in a lie lol It can be a tiny one too lol I will wait around for it and then be goneLaughing
  • saggurl88
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    Posted by tiziani
    I don't think it's a real decision honestly.

    You gotta decide on what you need and want, and that's all.

    The two women maybe one of them will listen maybe neither of them will. But that doesn't change your direction. It's not a reflection on either of them. But I've got to be real that i've seen women get competitive, ego gets in the way and they get arrogant turning it into a me vs her thing.

    Which means your relationship with either one is redundant since you can't trust either of them to pay attention to you.


    Tiz, Sag women don't fight for a man. We will let them go and just deal with it.

    At least I'm that way. There's too many men out here willing to give me what I want if a guy doesn't want to be here. But it still just depends on how tired I am of his butter. I put up a lot, too much in fact. I am extremely forgiving when someone is truthful. It's a major flaw that I ave.