Friendships

Hi Gems, i am just wondering but how is your "friendship" skill? I just wondered because of all the people i have met in my 27 years of existence, i just think i gained less friends and more acquaintances. I dont know if its just how my gemini sign works but here are my thoughts:
-i tend to be very picky with friends. If i've been crossed once, i forgive but i tend to not be that close with the person again
-i observe people a lot and if i see red flags in my book such as being too talkative, being rude or being too full of him/herself, i start running away as fast as i could and dont want to hangout anymore

So far, i tried to avoid certain signs like virgo (because they are too demanding and wont let go of small details and i just cant stand it) or scorpio (because they are stubborn and dont know how to listen to others) or capricorn (they are nice actually but a little to conservative for me). I get along so well with aquarius though and other geminis. It seems like they understand me.

I thought i made friends with a pisces gal but then it tirned out that i havent. I was being the normal gemini: cheerful, observant and quick. Now i changed jobs. Moved to a bigger company and things are going so well. She would text me and ask how i was doing and i would tell her the exciting things. Before i moved, i had relationship problems a year ago and ran to her. I thought she was being a good friend. Fast forward to a couple of weeks ago, out of nowhere she sent me a message saying she doesnt like me and gets annoyed by me. She said i complained a lot and i used her when i had problems with my relationship. I was shocked. Honestly, i dont know what i did wrong. I ran to her because i thought she was my friend and i was going through something. And i dont think i complained a lot because when i didnt like what was happening in my job before, i decided to leave. She complained a lot too but she is still working there and tends to text me the shit that was happening there even if i dont work there with her anymore. She also decided to not invite me when out group of friends have plans and would tell everyone i was busy even if she actually didnt invite me. This is not the first time i have experienced shit from her specifically. So i have decided to cut all ties with her even if she apologizes for the second time.

Posted by muffle_kerfuffle
Pisces? Fucking hell, I can't stand any Pisces for more than 5 minutes.

I'm one that picks "true friends". I have many "friends", and I'm, as I'm told, "quite adored" but I only hold close a few friends. I'm disappointed as, given I'm very introverted, I can't quite uphold to the expectations that my peers have.

By the way, if it applies to any of the other Gems, apparently we have aspects that are against our favor for this month. Health, relationships, and finances are the big ones.

Really? Whats your experience with Pisces people? Omg. If that is the case I cannot wait for this month to be over..... :/

I am a very picky person when it comes to friends. Why would I want to have a friendship with someone who sends off red flags... I've been hurt sooo many times... I'll observe first before I make any decisions. I have a close few tho.

I don't keep in touch with anyone. I kind of have a friendship timer; I love you lots for short periods of time and then I can't stand you anymore. Two of my best friends are Scorpio, I have once Cancer that I adore and two Virgos. Gemini friends I can't do, although we understand eachother, they burn me out too quick, too demanding or too indecisive. Sagitarrius has always been a good friend but too needy and not exciting at all, too predicable.

Posted by misslissa
I am a very picky person when it comes to friends. Why would I want to have a friendship with someone who sends off red flags... I've been hurt sooo many times... I'll observe first before I make any decisions. I have a close few tho.

So true!!! I mean, i just feel like i have to be very selective because i consider friends as people that i share my life with. I just cannot bear being with a friend and wanting to choke them at the same time lol

Posted by muffle_kerfuffle

Posted by PureGem23

Posted by muffle_kerfuffle
Pisces? Fucking hell, I can't stand any Pisces for more than 5 minutes.

I'm one that picks "true friends". I have many "friends", and I'm, as I'm told, "quite adored" but I only hold close a few friends. I'm disappointed as, given I'm very introverted, I can't quite uphold to the expectations that my peers have.

By the way, if it applies to any of the other Gems, apparently we have aspects that are against our favor for this month. Health, relationships, and finances are the big ones.

Really? Whats your experience with Pisces people? Omg. If that is the case I cannot wait for this month to be over..... :/

It's funny, because my closest childhood friend for more of primary was a Pisces. My closest friends have always been Sags and Scorps, one being my wife. But, every Pisces I know tends to do well in the beginning but then I just can't stand them. Their ways, the way they look, I just want to smack them across the face.

They always tend to "I KNOW EVERYTHING, THIS IS HOW THE WORLD WORKS, I'M SO NICE AND PERFECT" and it's just BS. They're basically the kid of the zodiac. Outside of Libras, they're just too immature and naive of the world. Drives my Aqua moon nuts.

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Ooohhh tell me about it! She was always the righteous one and the perfect one. Like she knows everything and acts so diplomatic and all but we both know she wasnt doing very well. Ugh. She was always like her life is so perfect with photos on facebook about food that she cooked perfectly and her relationship all over facebook and instagram. It used to not bother me but after the incident, she just irks me

Posted by GemiGirl78
I don't keep in touch with anyone. I kind of have a friendship timer; I love you lots for short periods of time and then I can't stand you anymore. Two of my best friends are Scorpio, I have once Cancer that I adore and two Virgos. Gemini friends I can't do, although we understand eachother, they burn me out too quick, too demanding or too indecisive. Sagitarrius has always been a good friend but too needy and not exciting at all, too predicable.

I am the same actually. I dont know if it has something to do with being bored easily but i hang out with one person for sometime and then i get fed up. My aquarian bestfriend is the same so we konda hit it off fast. We are so close and we love each other like sisters but she is in middle east and im in asia and we absolutley love it. We dont smother each other. Ive had clingy friends who gets upset when i dont join them for a night out or i dont message them :/

Posted by blackphase
I don't ever avoid certain people due to their sign, But I have also found that I tend to clash with Virgos as well. I have a few in my life.. two of which are family that I work with, and they can be quite troublesome for me to have to be around.

I tend to be a loner. I didn't develop a lot of close friendships in my life. I had a few people that I formed tight bonds with and I still keep in touch with those people although most do not live near me anymore. But yes, I seem to have more acquaintances than anything. I was always the person people came to with their issues and that can be overwhelming and take it's toll, so I like to keep my close friends to a minimal because I get burnt out. I really only have one friend that I see on a regular basis. And three or four that I keep in touch with, although it's not even all that often that I talk to them.

Yeah. So true. One of my bestfriends is a virgal living in canada so im fine with her being that far. When we were kids, we tend to have a love hate relationship because she wanted everything in order like the time we were supposed to play or the time we were supposed to go home or just the minor details like if we practice dancing we have to wear the same outfit ... Lol it was a childish thing and we were kids then but you know....

I believe in pure soul connection, regardless of sign