Gemini, as a friend...

I have embarked on a series of assessments of my friends. Altogether, there are twelve (I hadn't realized there were so many!), one of whom is Gemini. This is more for me than it is for you, of course. Feel free to add as necessary.



Cons: I know she has some, because we all do. Strangely, none come to mind. Oh wait, she's incredibly indecisive. Emphasis on the word incredibly. lol That's about all I can come up with. ::shrugs::


Pros: Gosh, we have quite a few things in common. In terms of our thought process, taste, and life style s. Who would've thought? A Gem and a Scorp. The Laverne and Shirley of Downtown Manhattan. That's why I say astrology-shmology. 😛

I couldn't ask for a more earnest, straightforward, thoughtful, and utterly hiLAriOus friend!

I concur with you on that EG...My Gem drops out only one time went MIA for 4 days he still calls everyday and if I go without a day talking to him I am ok with that, I just take as him wanting some space, or he is just busy so far he's always comes back, act like nothing never happened but I just ask him did you need some space and he says yea no biggie because I like my space as well.

EG-
I think it could last long because I feel that gem and scrop are a bit simiular, especially when it comes to communication,(my gem as express to me that we have to communicate with each other) I think that gem enjoy the passion and emotions of scrop and scrop enjoys the strenght and confidence in the gem, (especially the men) one gains from the other, cuz I don't think my gem has an emotional/affection bone in his body 🙂 and I feel he just loves my affection/passion/intensity and attention I give him.

I can't believe I am saying this but I could not have asked for a more beautiful person to come into my live. 🙂

Ya I know that gems and scorpions good well together too.

I too tend to drop off the face of the earth as well. I like being antisocial sometimes. It to re-energize myself.

I have too many people to go out with , too many things to do I tend to forget about people sometimes. That is another reason why Im out of some peoples lives then I come back.. My true friends know that I will be around then I wont but if they call Im there. Im not good with calling people. Im sorry its not one of my strengths.

slady- I agree with you. on this ""I think it could last long because I feel that gem and scrop are a bit simiular, especially when it comes to communication,(my gem as express to me that we have to communicate with each other) I think that gem enjoy the passion and emotions of scrop and scrop enjoys the strenght and confidence in the gem, (especially the men) one gains from the other, cuz I don't think my gem has an emotional/affection bone in his body and I feel he just loves my affection/passion/intensity and attention I give him.""

I dated a scorpion male but the think with him was if I didnt talk to him for a day or two he would get mad. So finally he started sending me text msg like crazy. He drove me crazy. Finally when I came back he custed me out for 2 hours.... Not a good thing to do with a gem because they will be gone out of your life for good.. And thats exacly what I have done.. He couldnt handle the fact that I needed my space and I didnt want to talk everyday. Everytime he said something about it I was one more step closer to the door. Sorry scorp he was a great guy we had amazing conversations but I cant handle the fact that he gave me crap everytime I saw him. Not cool..

So my advise to you is dont say anything about his MIS moments because he will always come back if you let him..

I enjoyed almost everything about him too but I couldnt put up with that it felt like he didnt except me as I am.... How can you live with yourself if you cant be yourself...

""I can't believe I am saying this but I could not have asked for a more beautiful person to come into my live. """
Congrats Im glad your happy you deserve it.

gemini_82grl

Thank you 🙂

""I tend to drop out of view for periods of time...either don't feel like talking, or talking to different people or just plain out of sight, out of mind. And that has lost me friends.""

I'm the EXACT same way. Except, it hasn't cost me any friends. I count that as a blessing.


I guess that's another reason why my Gem friend and I get along so well, because we understand the tendency to go MIA at random. We don't hold it against one another. I love her to death.

Oh! And another cool thing about her is her humility. She's a model, and can be found in magazines, on the side of buses, etc. But, you'd never know, because she never mentions it.

I don't have any close friends who are Scorps. Hmm... makes me wonder what I'm missing lol.

But I agree with AM about other Gems. My suitemate is a Gem, but she's a May Gemini and has lots of Taurus influences. We butt heads a lot and she's really firm on her thoughts where I'm always willing to listen to someone else's opinion lol. So my compatibility with other Gems is very wary.

And I get on my own nerves too! Like when I have a mood swing and I don't want to feel that way but can't control it lol. Weird.