Gemini Charm

What do you think makes Geminis so charming?

When I'm not completely irritated by them, I actually adore them (and even when they are annoying there is something about them that is charming). One thing I noticed, and I find this funny, is that gems(mostly the men)are sometimes so fucking oblivious or innocent that it's almost endearing. For example, I was speaking to my gem friend once about something serious, and throughout the conversation, it didn't seem like he wasn't exactly getting it, but he still remained optimistic and... cute. I was just kind of floored until I gave up being serious. I don't know whether it's that childlike spirit you guys have, but it's like trying to reprimand a puppy: it's so hard until you shit all over the carpet; then you aren't getting away with just a slap on the wrist.

Also, you guys just usually have charming smiles.

Thanks Candeh! Wow, well... most Gems are naturally happy-go-lucky & fun-loving. We kinda do our own thing and have a quirky sense of humor. We understand that life is serious, but we don't take ourselves so seriously. Along with that, the world can be harsh...there's no reason to spread negativity. That goes for me, at least.

Posted by Kleo
Thanks Candeh! Wow, well... most Gems are naturally happy-go-lucky & fun-loving. We kinda do our own thing and have a quirky sense of humor. We understand that life is serious, but we don't take ourselves so seriously. Along with that, the world can be harsh...there's no reason to spread negativity. That goes for me, at least.

Honestly, I don't think I've ever met a Gemini who wasn't quirky and cheerful in some way.

Posted by geminiwizard
if virgo girls didnt worry so much all the time, we would make a good pair, gem males, virgo females.

Lol we can't help it sometimes... all the time. Gem males make me nervous sometimes. But, I do think it's really possibly to have virgo girls and gem males make a great couple. I've been warming up to them more in the last year or so.

I can't resist you pretty boys anymore... well that's kind of a lie. I can. But, I'm less resistant.

Posted by Norcalman67
The same thing that makes Gemini men interesting is the same that makes you want to hurl large objects at them. We have a tendency to mold ourselves into any situation or adjust ourselves to any person. You might even say we mimic. But, we love a challenge. So, we find one person or one topic interesting right this second then get distracted by something or someone the next moment. It does not mean we are disinterested on you anymore we just had to make sure we were not missing anything.

True dat bruh!! And that's just the very tip of the iceberg!

However, I've broken a many a Virgo woman's heart in my life. 😢 Not intentionally, but, you can't try to control me. What happens when an immovable object meets an unstoppable force? Doesn't fucking matter to the Gemini! We absolutely always win, especially when we lose. 😉 Now, only a Gemini can make sense of all of this, which is what makes us half immortal. 😉 I can hear the chuckles now. HaHaHaHa!!!

But, I do love those Virgo chicas! GW is right! We would make a great pair if The Virgo would not worry so much! Many of my Virgo colleagues and associates drink....A LOT!! They remind me of the tin man in the Wizard of Oz. They need to be oiled up and be told that "YOU DO HAVE A FUCKIN HEART MUTHA FUCKAS!! NOW LET IT BEAT GODDAMMIT!!" Love you Candeh! 🙂

~GM

HaHaHaHaHaHa!!! Perfecto!!! A pic is worth the infinity of all languages!!

~GM

Posted by TG
You know... I??ve noticed something. Why is it that gemini men are so attracted to virgo women and all virgo men are attracted to gemini women? Is that like birds of a feather.... (but in this case people-without-feelings)- fly together kind of thing?

Air and Earth, with Mercury tying them both together. For me, the intellectual stimulation is usually there. But.....

~GM

Let's not get crazy. 'karmic'? Not sure about that one. But, for me, I need more than just intellectual stimulation. I need a free thinking, fun, flexible, down for whatever woman to roll with me. Virgo women tend to be to exacting for moi. The words "Wild Cards" and "Intangibles" are words that trip them up consistently.

What's your Sun, TG? M/F?

~GM

Not "exciting", EXACTING. Huge difference!! LOL!

Caps tend to be the stronger and the smarter of the Earth signs imho, and I think you guys see the weakness in the Virgo men. The women tend to be much stronger than the Virgo men however. At least from my perspective they are.

Gems keep Virgos on their proverbial toes!! They can't get away with the "bullshit" with us!! HaHaHaHa!! But, hey, Virgos need love too!!

Tell me about the worst experience you had with them? Also with a Gem if you can.

I can dig it. Virgos are the Vulcans, Gemini's are the 'Spocks'. I loved a Cappy girl once when I was a shorty. You're right, the emotional differences are there. But, I've found that once Gemini people develop they seem to be able to mix with any sign. At least I've been able to. I just got out of a 4 year relationship with a fish. What does that tell you? I put her ass on a plane to forever land. Now, I'm hanging with a Taurus girl.

For Gem and Caps, I think they have a plethora of information to exchange. For the Gem that's highly erotic, to the Cap it doesn't have the same meaning. The Cap (because of the earth element) need to be the protector. Well, never met a Gem that need protecting. We are the ones doing the actual protecting because we are usually way ahead of the person sitting across from us. It gets so friggin tiring!! It's Kinda like running from a bear in the woods. Gems are always ahead, but have to slow down so the other person can catch up. Guess what happens next...

Posted by Norcalman67
The same thing that makes Gemini men interesting is the same that makes you want to hurl large objects at them. We have a tendency to mold ourselves into any situation or adjust ourselves to any person. You might even say we mimic. But, we love a challenge. So, we find one person or one topic interesting right this second then get distracted by something or someone the next moment. It does not mean we are disinterested on you anymore we just had to make sure we were not missing anything.

Oh this is so true. I go back and forth between wanting to hug and punch geminis. It's like I mentioned that I find a lot of gems to be incredibly oblivious or incapable of sitting still so to speak, and often it drives me crazy, but at the same time I find gems to be sincere and innocent, which I find really adorable. This part though:

So, we find one person or one topic interesting right this second then get distracted by something or someone the next moment. It does not mean we are disinterested on you anymore we just had to make sure we were not missing anything.

That's something I'm still trying to understand. My immediate reaction to actions like that is the person is no longer interested; it crushes my venus in leo, hahaha.