Gemini ex, now traveling buddy

My gemini ex contacted me again after years.

And now we've been talking here and there if we're not busy.

I have no more special feelings for him, but i do like him around cause we're get along so well. I see him as a bestfriend now.

But he seems like still has feelings for me, he called me one night and told me how the broke up hurted him so bad that it fucked up his life. And i could her him saying that in tears.

He asked my jokingly to be his gf again that possibly could lead to marriage, i have told him i'm not ready for any serious relationship right now but i do still care a lot for him and i do want him to still around and being my bestfriend. Because why not? He is awesome and fun to be around with, and we have a lot of things in common.

So i've been really stressed out with my work and such lately and consider myself to travel out and refresh. And the one i want to go with is him, it should be great and fun. He sounds like down for it. Is it an ok thing to do tho or should i just forget the traveling idea considering he sounds like still has feelings and such?

I think if he still has feelings then the travelling thing might not be the best idea as he will have hopes that something more could happen.

I for myself know when I make "jokes" about feelings or relationships etc I'm testing to see the person's reaction. A joke from me in those situations usually means I actually feel what I'm joking about.

Gems and Aquas - it's always something there.

Maybe see him without travelling first, hang out a bit and see how it goes..

Hmmm... why do you say you don't have feelings for him anymore?

Posted by nats
I think if he still has feelings then the travelling thing might not be the best idea as he will have hopes that something more could happen.

I for myself know when I make "jokes" about feelings or relationships etc I'm testing to see the person's reaction. A joke from me in those situations usually means I actually feel what I'm joking about.

Gems and Aquas - it's always something there.

Maybe see him without travelling first, hang out a bit and see how it goes..

Right, hang out a bit would be nice. Thanks for the input 😉

Posted by firebunny
Hmmm... why do you say you don't have feelings for him anymore?

Because i really don't have any romantic feelings for him anymore. But i do care for him, like i care for my other besties.

Posted by notsosure

Posted by aquaglass
My gemini ex contacted me again after years.

And now we've been talking here and there if we're not busy.

I have no more special feelings for him, but i do like him around cause we're get along so well. I see him as a bestfriend now.

But he seems like still has feelings for me, he called me one night and told me how the broke up hurted him so bad that it fucked up his life. And i could her him saying that in tears.

He asked my jokingly to be his gf again that possibly could lead to marriage, i have told him i'm not ready for any serious relationship right now but i do still care a lot for him and i do want him to still around and being my bestfriend. Because why not? He is awesome and fun to be around with, and we have a lot of things in common.

So i've been really stressed out with my work and such lately and consider myself to travel out and refresh. And the one i want to go with is him, it should be great and fun. He sounds like down for it. Is it an ok thing to do tho or should i just forget the traveling idea considering he sounds like still has feelings and such?

So I´m always waiting around for when somebody here makes a post about some guy I know 😄 What are the odds, but still. I am paranoid like that (scorpio). So I looked at your profile and previous posts to try and see (as I know a gemini man and like him). And it´s like basically all your posts are about guys that are way into you!!! Who are you?!?!? What´s going on with all those men all the time? What do you have, so that they all want you and tie you down so much?

click to expand

Haha, i actually don't know what's going on with these men being around as well. It's not always cool to have things this way though, thats why i'm here rambling about them and such.

Posted by notsosure

Posted by aquaglass

Posted by notsosure

Posted by aquaglass
My gemini ex contacted me again after years.

And now we've been talking here and there if we're not busy.

I have no more special feelings for him, but i do like him around cause we're get along so well. I see him as a bestfriend now.

But he seems like still has feelings for me, he called me one night and told me how the broke up hurted him so bad that it fucked up his life. And i could her him saying that in tears.

He asked my jokingly to be his gf again that possibly could lead to marriage, i have told him i'm not ready for any serious relationship right now but i do still care a lot for him and i do want him to still around and being my bestfriend. Because why not? He is awesome and fun to be around with, and we have a lot of things in common.

So i've been really stressed out with my work and such lately and consider myself to travel out and refresh. And the one i want to go with is him, it should be great and fun. He sounds like down for it. Is it an ok thing to do tho or should i just forget the traveling idea considering he sounds like still has feelings and such?

So I´m always waiting around for when somebody here makes a post about some guy I know 😄 What are the odds, but still. I am paranoid like that (scorpio). So I looked at your profile and previous posts to try and see (as I know a gemini man and like him). And it´s like basically all your posts are about guys that are way into you!!! Who are you?!?!? What´s going on with all those men all the time? What do you have, so that they all want you and tie you down so much?

Haha, i actually don't know what's going on with these men being around as well. It's not always cool to have things this way though, thats why i'm here rambling about them and such.

Yeah I think a lot of people wish they were chased, but when it actually then does happen it can be really stressfull, because then you have to make a bunch of decisions and be very aware of your own feelings and all that stuff.

But I must know: how old is this guy? And when is his birthday? Maybe it is the guy I know 😄

click to expand

Yeah, and it actually could be pretty sad when people who came around aren't that person that you actually waiting for or you want to be with in the end.

He is 27 yo, his birthday is May 28th. Hahaha i bet you don't know him!