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Gemini Girl Cancer boy.
Thanks.
I have one posted in there but no ones replying on it haha.
I just guess i'll have to be patient.
I have one posted in there but no ones replying on it haha.
I just guess i'll have to be patient.
Cancers are too damn emotional for most Geminis. Expect everything you do to affect him in a way you never intended. Even with my male friends who are cancers, they're so easily bruised. It's annoying. We're always babying them, or curving our words around them so they don't 'take it the wrong way'. I guess I'm not the right Gemini to give you advice on the Crabs.
I guess i'm more patient then most geminis in someways.
Hes very frustrating though, I do have to admit.
Hes very frustrating though, I do have to admit.
"I am a Gemini girl and I'm interested in this cancer boy."
DON'T
DO
IT!!!
DON'T
DO
IT!!!
lanathegreat- I'm going to say this, and listen.
Be really careful, your going to get hurt.
Be really careful, your going to get hurt.
Maybe it was because I was with a cancer II.
They are the most emotional of all the cancers.
But he is veryy stubborn and wont admit to anything.
He doesn't seem to care about anyone but himself.
Good luck I suppose.
Sometimes it will seem like he likes me then other times it will seem like he doesn't at all.
I never know.
So lately i've just been nonchalant about everything, and just letting him talk to me first.
He does occasionally.
They are the most emotional of all the cancers.
But he is veryy stubborn and wont admit to anything.
He doesn't seem to care about anyone but himself.
Good luck I suppose.
Sometimes it will seem like he likes me then other times it will seem like he doesn't at all.
I never know.
So lately i've just been nonchalant about everything, and just letting him talk to me first.
He does occasionally.
I am a Gemini girl and I'm interested in this cancer boy.
He is the definition of confusing.
I NEVER understand him, hes so frustrating.
One minute he'll seem like we're really close, then the next its like he doesn't even know who I am.
Him and I had a thing for about a month and we kissed and whatever and I stayed at a FRIENDS house that was a guy and I told him that I did and he seemed okay with it, at first.
But then He just started really pulling away from me.
He was hurt by what you did. He retreated into his shell, and pretended everything was ok; but it wasn't. He pulled away so he wouldn't get hurt even more. When you two had this "thing for about a month", did he shower you with attention?
For awhile we barely talked.
He made me feel so weird when ever I would run into him, Like I couldn't even look at him.
Even though I didn't do anything wrong.
About a month of this I finally got the guts to text him and ask him why he stopped liking me.
This is what I said;
"Why did you stop liking me, and please don't just answer with a "I don't know."
And this is what he said
"Well because I changed. I decided I would rather be alone. I don't want to have a relationship with anyone."
Sounds just like a Cancer. Ever-changing like the tides and the moon. When he said this, it may be the truth, or he may be just trying to put up a wall between you and him. He was hurt once before, and doesn't want it to happen again.
Later I finally got him to admit that I hurt him because of me staying at my friends house.
It usually takes us a while to admit we are hurt. We like to go off to our own place to deal with our feelings and won't want to talk to others until we sort things out for ourselves first.
Are cancers big grudge holders?
The biggest there are. We hold onto the past and use it to anchor ourselves and guide our future actions. That doesn't mean we don't forgive, just that when we are deeply hurt, we don't forget.
I figured maybe I could just prove to him that I still like him and him only that maybe I could get him back.
Please, Please help me or at least try and explain why hes acting the way he is.click to expand
You can, if you are persistent and genuinely express your feelings for him. It will probably take a while for you to win him over, if you can at all. But when you do,
Thank you all for posting and replying.
Especially domanb, you helped me a lot by breaking it down and going over everything.
Him and I have been talking a lot more and we flirt...in are own way.
Right before we actually had a thing we always used to flirt buy joking around with each other and he was very touchy, always tickling me.
He's starting to do this again.
So on Friday he texted me asking me if I wanted to come over, And I replied with a yeah. Then like five minutes later he texted me saying "I have plans tonight, never mind." I said "oh, okay?" and he said "But we can hang out soon." and I just said "sure." I have to admit I was pretty upset and frustrated, you don't just invite someone over and cancel?
Then when I ran into him the next day he would just stare at me with a weird trance like look on his face, almost like he was trying to see if I was mad at him or something, He didn't say anything to me but just kept starting so I just said "what?" and it seemed like he snapped out of his trance like state and shook his head and looked away.
What is/was that about?
Especially domanb, you helped me a lot by breaking it down and going over everything.
Him and I have been talking a lot more and we flirt...in are own way.
Right before we actually had a thing we always used to flirt buy joking around with each other and he was very touchy, always tickling me.
He's starting to do this again.
So on Friday he texted me asking me if I wanted to come over, And I replied with a yeah. Then like five minutes later he texted me saying "I have plans tonight, never mind." I said "oh, okay?" and he said "But we can hang out soon." and I just said "sure." I have to admit I was pretty upset and frustrated, you don't just invite someone over and cancel?
Then when I ran into him the next day he would just stare at me with a weird trance like look on his face, almost like he was trying to see if I was mad at him or something, He didn't say anything to me but just kept starting so I just said "what?" and it seemed like he snapped out of his trance like state and shook his head and looked away.
What is/was that about?
Gemini.its.true, your Cancer guy isn't mature enough to be in a relationship with a free spirited Gemini like yourself. Water and earth signs have different boundaries about relationships than air signs. Air signs tend to blure the boundaries of friendship so your cancer guy is wondering if you really are serious about him.
I am not saying Geminis are floozy people. Not at all. Geminis'', when committed are quite loyal. It's just that your Cancerian dude doesn't understand your nature yet. I wouldn't try to explain that you are a Gemini because he won't know what you are talking about.
So ask yourself if you are willing to deal with the misunderstandings and "hurt feelings". Is he worth it?
I am not saying Geminis are floozy people. Not at all. Geminis'', when committed are quite loyal. It's just that your Cancerian dude doesn't understand your nature yet. I wouldn't try to explain that you are a Gemini because he won't know what you are talking about.
So ask yourself if you are willing to deal with the misunderstandings and "hurt feelings". Is he worth it?
Eric11, I think hes worth it, I just with he was more straightforward with me. He keeps to himself about ALOT of thing from anyone, even his close friends.
If its possible do you think you could explain to me the differences about the boundaries? I don't really understand.
Do you think maybe I should just talk to him and be straightforward about my feelings with him or....
If its possible do you think you could explain to me the differences about the boundaries? I don't really understand.
Do you think maybe I should just talk to him and be straightforward about my feelings with him or....
Posted by Gemini.its.true.
Eric11, I think hes worth it, I just with he was more straightforward with me.
Good luck with that. Your best bet is to be straight forward with him. You will first need to get close enough for him to trust you, or he won't tell you anything for fear of being judged/hurt.
He keeps to himself about ALOT of thing from anyone, even his close friends.
If its possible do you think you could explain to me the differences about the boundaries? I don't really understand.
Do you think maybe I should just talk to him and be straightforward about my feelings with him or....click to expand
I don't know much about Gemini's in relationships, but I do know we Cancer tend to get attached quite firmly. Personally, when I fall for a girl, I fall hard. I smother her with attention and want to be with her 24/7 if the chemistry is right. I try not to get to jealous, and give girls the benefit of the doubt when they are with other guys. But for some Cancers, there can be real jealousy issues if you flirt, or even just talk with other guys. It's not that you are doing anything wrong by just talking or hanging out, but Cancers can be very insecure and emotional. So it's best to reassure them in these situations. Hope that helps.
I've had the same experience with this Cancer guy. He was flirty one minute, cold the other.. and although we had the same interests I felt I couldn't connect with him. He was both more superficial & incredibly deeper than I at the exact same time. I sometimes feel there's this weird sexual tension hanging over us (he is beautiful) but yeah. When we first met I used to hate him. He was just so cold to me, but having looked up things about cancers I learned not to take it personally.
Gemini's just deal with the world completely different to Cancer's. The shyer they are, the more extreme this difference is.
Gemini's just deal with the world completely different to Cancer's. The shyer they are, the more extreme this difference is.
Posted by domanb
Are cancers big grudge holders?
The biggest there are. We hold onto the past and use it to anchor ourselves and guide our future actions. That doesn't mean we don't forgive, just that when we are deeply hurt, we don't forget.
Being able to forgive is very important in a relationship, but being able to forgive and forget is key. If one doesn't forget it's likely every time that same infraction is touched or nudged by a new action the Cancerian Water sign WILL remember the prior event. They may not mention it, likely will not mention it, but they will be thinking about it.
This festers disdain and creates a warm, wet enviroment for anger to grow. In addition, Cancers are know to be vengeful from their shells... pulling you in and pushing you out.
This "never forgetting" makes the Cancerian Water sign one of the three worst signs to date.
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He is the definition of confusing.
I NEVER understand him, hes so frustrating.
One minute he'll seem like we're really close, then the next its like he doesn't even know who I am.
Him and I had a thing for about a month and we kissed and whatever and I stayed at a FRIENDS house that was a guy and I told him that I did and he seemed okay with it, at first.
But then He just started really pulling away from me.
For awhile we barely talked.
He made me feel so weird when ever I would run into him, Like I couldn't even look at him.
Even though I didn't do anything wrong.
About a month of this I finally got the guts to text him and ask him why he stopped liking me.
This is what I said;
"Why did you stop liking me, and please don't just answer with a "I don't know."
And this is what he said
"Well because I changed. I decided I would rather be alone. I don't want to have a relationship with anyone."
Later I finally got him to admit that I hurt him because of me staying at my friends house.
Are cancers big grudge holders?
I figured maybe I could just prove to him that I still like him and him only that maybe I could get him back.
Please, Please help me or at least try and explain why hes acting the way he is.