Gemini-Cancer girl needs advice..rated PG

I am Gemini-Cancer. My boyfriend is Capricorn-Aquarius I believe (Jan 22). Him and I just do not understand each other.
1. I want physical contact (cuddle, make out) without having sex sometimes.
2. He wants alone time
3. I hate being alone
4. He can't stand being "smothered"
5. I don't know how to act around him sometimes
6. We live together, and have for a year and a half
7. He says I talk too much
8. He says I'm immature
9. I say he's detached
10. I say he's a grouch
11. I say he's a stick in the mud
ETC ETC ETC.

I am contemplating leaving him. Should I?

That's the medium to short list. There's not much more, but usually THAT'S enough to make one another sick of each other.

It means a lot to me. I mean.. I want him to understand that I need a certain amount of affection and assurance.

He knows what I want, but he's stubborn completely and declines or makes excuses everytime.

Very nice of you. hehe. yeah.. I'll blame you. jk.

I know what you're saying.
I told him the other day that if my Cancer would scoot over, we'd be perfect for each other.

But something I didn't tell him was that Gemini is less clingy and wouldn't stay in a relationship that was unhealthy. I want to be that. I hate my Cancer love traits. I don't want them at all.

I talk a lot. He doesn't like that.
I am clingy. He doesn't like that.
I am very affectionate. He doesn't like that.
I am very inquisitive. He doesn't like that.
I am very suspicious. He doesn't like that.
I am very .. sensual. He likes that.
Ya know.. I think I figured it out on my own!

people dont change

Grr, I know. That sucks though.

Next day comments after
"I am.. he doesn't like that.."
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Last night we did have fun together.
We have the same tastes I guess.
Intellectually we match.
Neither of us like crowds at all.
It's not that bad I suppose.