Gemini guys and sex (one night stands)

So i work with this gem and we had been totally flirting with each other off and on. well he let me know he was interested sexually, my curiousity climbed. so we had dinner after work one night, he was all over me while we waited for a table.

we sat and then he asked me to kiss him, he enjoyed that so much that he came and sat beside me. i mentioned i wanted a friend with benefits, he said he just wanted to have fun. there was touchy feely and then after eating we did the deed. he told me i made a great first impression. however i did not feel the same and when he asked how it was, i stuttered and said it was ok. he caught me off guard.

we discussed that we'd act normal at work. now he flirts less with me, he used to stare me down now it's like he's lost interest. he's 20 and i'm 23. did i totally shoot his ego down with me "ok" answer. how do i get him interested again??

oh and do gems liked to be chased or something - cus he always wanted me to take his number, even when i offered mine he tried to get me to take his. how do i get this guy - i just want him sexually and he knows that. i also think he's not that experienced sexually. why does he seem less interested—? is he playing hard-to-get or has he lost interest cus i said the sex was "ok"

He had some fun with you I think he should just be grateful for that.

But coworkers? hm

Didnt he tell you from the beginning he just wanted to have fun?

hey Joe and dward:

ok great he had fun but i feel cheated out of my fun - lol - so i guess i kinda wanna get mine but i guess he's lost interest. i think he's confused me because he seemed to impressed with the kissing and sex, i thought he'd want more...

joe, us being co-workers is a bad thing— we don't see each other everyday.

you shot down his confidence. geminis walk a fine line between confidence and doubt sometimes. geminis can flirt with anyone so he is probably thinking "fine then i will just go find another one that thinks i am more than just ok." what you need to do is go up to him and just be plain about it and ask why he has been being mean to you. this will probably catch him off guard and he will wonder what you are talking about. then just resume flirting. cancer and gemini are compatible sexually. my advice would be to just get really cute before work one day and just ask him to hit it doggy style right after work. he will love it if u are all spontaneous like u want to do it so bad u have to do it now and it dosent matter where.