@trobin939
18 Years
Gemini man is talking about marriage after ,,,
I have a few friends who are Gemini...I have watched them in relationships and they come on strong in the beginning...Get wrapped up in the excitement and euphoria...But after awhile they get wishy washy...My one friend is actually quite charming but very manipulative and lies to woman alot...
Just take it slow, don't you dare follow his pace. Go with what your heart says, if you're not ready then keep on not being ready. He'll be there and probably be more interested because you didn't follow along. They do get excited then get wishy washy, if you can deal with the hot/cold situations that are to come, you'll be fine.
Well....guys..he is still head strong in love and we have not had sex yet...He knows that I am the type of woman who is strong, and independent..and he must wait until but he wants to go to get a license and tie the not..he treats my like gold and I must admit that I cant help but love him he is my best friend and I WANT FOR NOTHING. He is very mature and has been in 12 years relationship...that ended two years ago...I think he took too long to committ to her and she go frustrated and place some distance between the two of them..now she professes to love and want him back, but he told her to move on..I actual heard him. in know way do I feel threatened, cause I bring a lot to the table....We are being patent, but he says he knows what he wants...so I will see...he wants to get a marriage license soon....
Hey Mr. Nice...Im a scorp....?
Maybe he just wants to get married before he dies? :X
LOL...He has mentioned that...but he has been married before ....last one was 12 years ago!
Something inside me is screaming COMMITMENT-PHOBE!!!!!
Hope I'm wrong.
I have known a few guys who have seemed perfectly normal and have raised issues such as The Future, Holidays, etc... only to back away scraeming that I'd got too serious too quickly!
He may be setting you up for him to run away sometime soon.
If not, he is definitely going to fast for you in any case so do make sure you feel he's right for you (for now, I mean) before you get in any deeper.
From One Who Bears Scars!!!
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oh my god ,im dating a gemini ,only 4 months now and hes already proposed !
and theres me thinkin id hypmotised him haha
its just the gemini in is it lol
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Three months.....But when I try to be pragmatic and discuss the topic he puts spin on me asking me WHy do you want to marry me? Im like huh your the one asking...I have tried to tell him its too premature for our relationship....and then he tells me Your my soul mate....I know cause asked God to bring me a green eyed woman with great legs, atractive and smart. I have been waiting for awhile..and sometimes he actually convinces me..I like him but I am not in love...I have no pressure,,but is he for real..He is always thinking about me..and since he is 55 I have to think he should know what he wants...but trust that I am not in danger of marrying him any time in the near future!