Gemini men always after new rather than "perfection"?

Hi,
Having known many gemini males, I feel that to them, everything new/exotic is exciting and perfect (regardless of actual quality) and once they get tired of it, even the seemingly most perfect/high "quality" thing or person can seem like rubbish, boring and not something they're interested in - any truth in this?

I know there is no exact definition of a "perfect" partner, as what everyone wants varies but say a girl is:
1) Reasonably pretty facially (Big eyes, shapely lips, thick hair etc.)
2)Curvy yet petite (around size8/10 measurements but double Ds chest
3) Young (early twenties)
4) Reasonably well-off financially
5) Highly educated (2 degrees from a worldwide top 5 Uni)
6) Good, exciting job (e.g. medical research)
7) "Naughty" i.e. not an uptight prude (yet a virgin!)
8) Good listener, talks just the right amount (can discuss a variety of intellectual topics - not a political expert or anything but does go beyond some girls' basic convo which is just hair, fashion etc.)
9) Really nice to everyone i.e not a gold digger, doesn't talk about people negatively behind their backs, polite, friendly and generally fun, not massively over-confident nor insecure.

^If these are all either true factually (e.g. for age, job etc.) or confirmed by opinion from multiple people including the gemini male (e.g. for friendliness, naughty-ness, good listener etc) and without prompting, if the gemini male points out these things for why he thinks you're amazing.. why do they still suddenly go cold, move on etc. (often to other girls who are sometimes plainer, less impressive job etc.)?

I know this makes me sound like I have an overly high opinion of myself - I don't..I was just curious as to why this happens - is there some sort of magical trait they value more highly than all those traits I've listed above, that I lack in? Too easily available? Just a sudden change of feelings? Intimidated?

I know everyone's definition of "perfection" varies, but surely the things I've listen would at least be enough to persue to a reasonably long term relationship rather than one consisting of two months - not like I mean marriage etc

Can the spark/chemistry just go out for no reason?

Posted by aj123
Can the spark/chemistry just go out for no reason?

Hmm I dunno I would say it's keeping the guy on his toes, being a mental challenge meaning witty, good banter...playful. I've had 2 long term Gem relationships and one Gem bestie for like 8 years(male) soo that's my 2 cents 😉

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by aj123
Can the spark/chemistry just go out for no reason?

Hmm I dunno I would say it's keeping the guy on his toes, being a mental challenge meaning witty, good banter...playful. I've had 2 long term Gem relationships and one Gem bestie for like 8 years(male) soo that's my 2 cents 😉

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Thank you for the reply.. haha yes I know that's true but one gemini guy I knew said he especially liked me as I could "keep him on his toes", another gemini said that I was soo witty, that it spins his head lol and they both always called me playful..and as I have an aquarius moon, it comes naturally to me... but somehow that still wasn't enough?

Any more replies appreciated 🙂

*years*

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Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by aj123
Can the spark/chemistry just go out for no reason?

Hmm I dunno I would say it's keeping the guy on his toes, being a mental challenge meaning witty, good banter...playful. I've had 2 long term Gem relationships and one Gem bestie for like 8 years(male) soo that's my 2 cents 😉

Thank you for the reply.. haha yes I know that's true but one gemini guy I knew said he especially liked me as I could "keep him on his toes", another gemini said that I was soo witty, that it spins his head lol and they both always called me playful..and as I have an aquarius moon, it comes naturally to me... but somehow that still wasn't enough?

Any more replies appreciated 🙂

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Then the mental connection was just not there, or emotional maybe depending on the guy preference. It's true you can tell when a Gem is really into you, they smile at you with their eyes, but it's like a mixture of admiring and vulnerability look with a smile. Did you ever notice that? You would most likely see it when being cute about something and he give you an 'awe shucks she's so adorable look'.

Posted by MissGemmi
We can find you perfect on paper, but we actually like people who are 'different' and not so mainstream. We like it when you excel in certain things. We need subtle attention. Like text us every night, start a conversation, just playful without too much expectations. Invite us over for dinner. If we start making excuses, give up, it will not happen.

We are a bit childish and babies so we love it when someone takes the lead and gives us the opportunity to give you ideas. Just being smart, beautiful, cute, funny doesn't cut it for us. We need to see something in you we can learn from, what we ourselves lack. We need that kind of information so you will have to be someone who can provide it to us. It can be anything. Emotionally, spiritually, sexually, mentally, professionally.

Actually we don't like perfection. We are happy if you can teach us something. We to some degree like/love imperfection so we can learn from it and we actually like to show you that we accept you with all your flaws as long as you accept ours. Because we have many.

Yes, this is a lot of it actually. Makes sense, because I am a disaster on paper, haha. But now a Cappy would love perfection on paper. That is why my marriage to a Cappy went down in flames and I've been with Gems pretty much(2 LTRs) since. I am a beautiful disaster, as I laugh on the outside and cry on the inside.