gemini men and confronting

Hi guys,
sooo to update my story with gemini guy (i'm capricorn woman) there was always this hot & cold act with him and i kinda accepted it although i wasn't so comfortable with it.. yesterday it's been two weeks which is the longest he ever took to reply to me! Usually the longest was few days... i decided not to chase him around but today i couldn't take it anymore since he liked my post on facebook (really cute romantic song even) so i asked him "you're not talking to me or what happened?" I added few smiley faces as well so it wouldn't be so uptight... he replied within 5 minutes apologizing that it's been odd times for him that he's been busy and he mentioned his heel doesn't hurt anymore but that it's not healed yet (he hurt his foot like 1 month ago). I was angry i have to admit... i know there is some other girl he met within those 2 weeks he didn't respond to me so i finally confronted him and said.. "look if you don't wanna talk to me or see me anymore just say it, i don't wanna annoy you or push you into anything you don't wanna do. I'm sorry for putting it this way and i hope i didn't offended you in any way" i feel like it was bit too much on the other hand my patience is wearing thin... our first date was so good, he was so amazing and we kept messaging each other after that... so i thought there might be some chance for us but now i don't even know anymore. He made me very angry and i'm waiting what will be his reply... maybe he already chose the other girl (although she's very plain so i don't understand that but whatever) if he did it shows how superficial he is... so yeah i just wanna ask you if you think it was too much, i think i have right to ask... i can't take dishonesty.

I feel your pain i really do. Im also a cap woman
Interested in a gemini guy, and i also get the same thing constantly, hot cold hot cold hot cold.
Its sooo frustrating i hate it.
Ive also done what uve done a few times, said in a polite manner
" look u dont have to talk to me just tell me so i know where i stand, i cant read ur mind"
Hes usually given me an excuse
"I was busy"
" dont feel well"
Which may be the case but then i see him constantly online talkin to other people. Im as confused as u are to be honest.
Sorry ive not been much help to you .

Posted by Leyla00
I feel your pain i really do. Im also a cap woman
Interested in a gemini guy, and i also get the same thing constantly, hot cold hot cold hot cold.
Its sooo frustrating i hate it.
Ive also done what uve done a few times, said in a polite manner
" look u dont have to talk to me just tell me so i know where i stand, i cant read ur mind"
Hes usually given me an excuse
"I was busy"
" dont feel well"
Which may be the case but then i see him constantly online talkin to other people. Im as confused as u are to be honest.
Sorry ive not been much help to you .

Sweetheart that's okay! :* well i'm starting to feel like i don't care which is not good sign (definitely not for him lol) with me as cap woman i'm very proud and mainly honest which i'm sure you understand to. I don't get it either i know that if we ever see each other again he will be again the loving guy that he was before but i can't take this crap. We are not exclusive so he doesn't owe me anything and i can't accuse him of anything. At our first and only date..it's been 2 months since then... we were supposed to go on date #2 he said "i wanna see you again and i'm not joking i just don't know when thanks to work" then he had fallen ill, hurt his heel which was quite dangerous but his mistake for doing foolish things like jumping off fences (we're in our twenties so yeah)... the funny thing is i can't forget the way he smiled at me, the way he listened to me like i was the only thing in the world... geez his eyes blazed with so many emotions.. the way he kissed me.. he even got me vulnerable at one point asking why do i look so sad and i said cuz i'm scared i'm gonna get burned again and he said i need to trust him duuuh i wanna laugh at that right now.. but he seemed sincere and i think he likes me.. though it's only been like 3 months since he broke up with his ex gf so he might still be not ready for anything now.. i think he's really in odd place now so maybe time will help but i'm not sure we'll be at the same place at the same time so yeah sorry for so much babbling 😄

Yeah i know where your coming from, i dont think i can put up with this nonsense any longer either. Your either in it or your not , theres no inbetween and you cant expect to come and go as you please and expect me to act exactly the same.
I just cannot do it, i like consistency and i like being told whats going on. If you need space, just tell me id understand. But this hot and cold thing an dissappearing acts is driving me nuts!
Now the guy im talking to hasnt texted me now for 4 days, we work at the same place, so i seen him briefly yesterday for 5 mins, and he was going on an on about a concert he had been to over the weekend with his brother.
He was talking but he was distant,
Talking to me more like i was his buddy than his girlfriend.
Ive decided not to bother calling or texting him until he does and if he dont then its his loss. sorry rant over ƒ

the thing with geminis is yes we like to keep our options open. if we were committed to you then we would talk to you constantly, but I am sure he is attracted to you too if he texts you back. We play hot and cold because we know that you'll be there, but by the time you don't give us attention we will miss you. I am not saying to do that on purpose because you'll hurt yourself in the end. You can't expect the same results to reciprocate back because it seems like you both are on different pages. Try to get out and meet other people. I know its hard but youll be okay and youll see that hes not the only one for you. You do your own thang girl 🙂

Posted by geminisun97
the thing with geminis is yes we like to keep our options open. if we were committed to you then we would talk to you constantly, but I am sure he is attracted to you too if he texts you back. We play hot and cold because we know that you'll be there, but by the time you don't give us attention we will miss you. I am not saying to do that on purpose because you'll hurt yourself in the end. You can't expect the same results to reciprocate back because it seems like you both are on different pages. Try to get out and meet other people. I know its hard but youll be okay and youll see that hes not the only one for you. You do your own thang girl 🙂

yes from now on i will be very casual... since that's the way he is 🙂 i didn't want him to commit to me i just like to know if it's worth it or not so i know i'm not wasting my time on someone who won't bother if i exist or not if you know what i mean 😄 the attraction was there since the first moment we met... it was so strong that if i could i'd be able to see it floating around us in the air even our compatibility chart said this
" It's love-at-first-sight, the great passion: they will be drawn to each other like two magnets, they will always have to see and touch each other. Very good sexual understanding, typically very passionate. It must be said that this type of relationship may not last forever, it may not develop into a quiet and tender love. If they part, it is close to impossible to stay friends because of the constant reminder of the passion that once existed. It's all or nothing with them. If they part, one will suffer when the passion of the other dies, it will be a very difficult time to live through. However, if they stay together, there is strength to gain from each other."
I think it's indeed very accurate. I could see him like me .. i think there is something else that's holding him back. But today he shared such a sad song on facebook while i was reading the lyrics i though god why do i see this as message.. i think he could feel me slipping away from him. I don't wanna give up on him in the end we shared something very special we could be very special... but we'd have to work very hard and i'm not sure he's ready to commit at this moment. I hope we'll be able to work it out we will see...

LOL so he replied "hey don't worry everything is good, are you alright? 🙂" WHAAAT so I guess the best solution is just go with flow or I will go mad 😄 i just said "I'm sorry i'm probably going mad from all the work" (that is true!) and kept talking normally geez he really hits the nerve but at least he replied and i guess that means he wants to keep talking... but i will be very carefull to take it casual and not stress myself out over him..

I hope alls going good with you ☺ï¸Keep me informed lol

Posted by Leyla00
I hope alls going good with you ☺ï¸Keep me informed lol

Hey well I asked him if he wants to hang out this week and he replied that he has too much work and that he's going mad from all of that... which made me feel like an idiot. Well then i was looking at his new profile pic and i realized it was taken in the same room as is the profile pic of that girl i mentioned before. I thought it's gonna hurt like hell but actually i didn't feel anything in that moment but of course it didn't make me happy either. Well the thing is i felt with him like he was my soulmate, it was so intense and real and i think i fell in love with him first time he looked me in the eye... he was taken that time but he had to feel it too.. he messaged me the moment he broke up with his ex gf. I could see it in his eyes, we could be very happy together. My intution tells me he has feelings for me, he thinks about me but he's not ready for me, he's not ready for such an intense feeling and i feel like i shouldn't meet him right now. I mean the date would be great since our chemistry is there all the time, you'd be able to feel it in our presence we must look like we're in love and in that moment i would agree.. it's just like meeting someone and you just know he's that person you're supposed to be with. It's hard to explain if you've never experienced it. It's mutual feeling you can't just let that person go. And if we did go out again right now we'd be so crazy about each other, the date would be amazing i know that but nothing would change... he's not ready. I think he needs his time to think about everything. I don't care about the other girl, she's not even half as pretty as I am, she doesn't seem to be very bright or special, she seems rather superficial so i don't even take her as my rival or something if he chooses her life will move on anyway. The point is: yes we are meant for each other, i love him and i can feel him love me too (i can't explain why don't ask me, it's just the way i am) but it's bad timing and life can get in very easily. So yeah all i can do is keep living my life and let him do his thing (whatever it is he needs to do) and if he'll want he'll come back to me and i will know if it's right or not. Maybe I'll meet someone new but i can't let him go he's too special for me. I respect the fact he doesn't see me when he knows he's not ready and he doesn't wanna screw it up or hurt me. I think he's indeed very kind hearted person. So yeah that's probably all i have to say 😄 i'm sorry it's not oriented on him being gemini this is what i feel as human being 🙂

Posted by Baru


We are not exclusive so he doesn't owe me anything

Posted by Baru

i know there is some other girl he met within those 2 weeks he didn't respond to me so i finally confronted him and said ......

.... on the other hand my patience is wearing thin...

... maybe he already chose the other girl (although she's very plain so i don't understand that but whatever) if he did it shows how superficial he is ...

... i can't take dishonesty.

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