Help! capricorn in luv with a gem man

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capdragon77
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20 YearsCapricorn

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Ok so Im goo-goo gaa-gaa over a gemini man and this has been going on for a year. I cant tell if hes for real or not. He breaks plans with me constantly with no call to let me know, he just wont show. As a cap that is the biggest slap in the face to me, and he keeps doing it. When I do see him, he tells me he wants to marry me, he loves me, "lets make a baby", and continually says things like "tell me that you love me" "are you sure you love me?", do you love me more than your ex?" things like that. Then he leaves the next day and I wont see him for awhile. Its confusing and he makes the craziest but he makes the happiest at the same time. I have tried to walk away from him and all his contradictions but something always pulls me back. I even date other people but nobody compares to how he makes me feel. He knows I date other people and he doesnt get jealous. Is he just stringing me along? I dont know how to handle him. Can someone help me try to figure this out please?
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Fire&Ice
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20 Years

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Capdragon....
And Freebird I know what you're thinking?.LOL
It is one thing if you already have children from this man, but you have no ties?? It should be easy to walk away, and he is a Gemini, come on now, they are flaky flirts with 2 different personalities. They think they are intellectual but they are to dumb to see that it is not intellect it is a need of constant change and stimulation to fulfill some lack of emptiness "boredom" because they are forever changing and two faced.
Capdragon I don't mean to be too hard on your Gemini, I do have some Gemini friends, and I observe them very well. They are fun to party with but nothing more....
I do not trust them, but then again who do I trust lol.
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Freebird
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O - Jake-O my pal...I do indeed KNOW how bad it can be to be with a Gemini (please Gem's do not take offense as I know you are not all alike...are you?) as I WAS married to one. Never could figure him out and lying—?? he saw no problem with that, that was normal for him. Emotions? he didn't have any....I suppose you all are thinking...why did I marry him? All I can think of is, lack of knowledge. Once I figured things out....things changed!

Bye-Bye he was.....

Happy Freebird 🙂
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Lazlow
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20 Years

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Hi Capdragon, I see you live in Tulsa I live just south of there (Broken Arrow). To me Cap and Gem would be better off left as a friendship. But if you really love him that much then do what you feel is best. However he doesn't sound very serious about the relationship and maybe breaking it off would be all that bad. ....and no Gems aren't all that bad, I've never done anything bad unless you count all the times I sold dope disguised as a nun. 🙂