how do you tell a scorpio u need your space

Im married to a scorpio male and im a Gemini female. He used to be addidcted to golf .. no more golf and his addiction is on me... Now!!! he wants my aattention at all times. Doesn't want me to do things with my girl friend... No more " girls night out"... He wants me to end a relationship that i have with a girlfriend because he doesn't like the company she keeps.
I feel like im sufficating and i need help

Here, Sally .. I pulled this back up to the top for you. GF is nice and all, but, she doesn't really provide any help .. after the weekend, a Gem female who can offer you insight will probably be back on. If this drops off the page, it might not get noticed .. and that's likely to happen with the weekend incessant babble.

did not know that the SCORPIO MAN were this jealous 2. IF THIS IS THE CASE THEY CAN get really bad. I WOULD SAY YOU NEED TO SIT DOWN and explain this was could be much healtier. BE YOUR MAN AND RISE UP!

I'm thinking being able to communicate how you feel is the whole problem ..

1) You knew that his neglect was making the business suffer, yet, you didn't say anything to him, which caused a financial fall.

2) You won't bathe or take care of yourself, while expecting him to understand you are in a depression, yet, won't relay how you feel to him so he can understand why you have fallen.

3) He is suddenly hovering over you after 18 years of marriage, for no apparant reason that you can detect .. if you look at this from the opposite angle, it would become apparant that his hovering is BECAUSE you have fallen and he is trying to protect you.

Have you stopped, even once to ponder ... after 18 years of marriage, it's not until you have sunken into a funk and won't even wash your hair, that he has started to smother you? Think about that ....

4) You want to hang out with your friends, and want him to understand that you want your freedom and you can't understand why he isn't getting this information from your communication with him .. yet, what you are actually communicating to him, by not taking care of yourself, is that these friends of yours are enabling you to stay in your funk, for if they were helping you, you would be bathing.


Sally .. please .. go to the doctor and see if s/he can give you some meds for depression. Many people suffer with this, so, it isn't anything to feel wierd about. I'll bet you, once you lift out of your funk, you're going to find that your man has actually been trying to protect you and you just can't see it right now because you've fallen.

EG, on the Scorpio board you will find this info ..

I'm merely saying to her that since after 18 years, this man has made a sudden drastic change as this, and it coincides with her depression, then the reality of this not allowing her her freedom may simply be because he realizes she's in trouble right now and he's trying to protect her, NOT hurt her.