Im a Leo and want to make this gemini girl fall for me.
How to get a gemini girl to like you?

Be really sweet to her and then totally aloof. Both her twins will be obsessed with trying to figure it out. Double trouble! Gets me everytime!

just be you.... 🙂
Stop caring. The second she sees that u like her she's gonna run away

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Be really sweet to her and then totally aloof. Both her twins will be obsessed with trying to figure it out. Double trouble! Gets me everytime!
This is TOTALLY true! Ill have to second this notion 100% as a fellow female Gem
Posted by KiNG23
Im a Leo and want to make this gemini girl fall for me.
1. intrigue her with your mind FIRST...then the rest will follow. if we gems don't have any mental stimulation, all the other stimulation won't do it for us. we have to have a "meeting of the minds" to connect with the opposite sex, period. I'll put it to you this way: If you are unable to communicate and have an intelligent thought beyond saying "Hi", you're already doomed. I'm not saying you have to be Einstein, but don't think acting goofy and only talking about boring stuff as celebrities etc. will intrigue her enough to connect with you.
2. Don't just talk about yourself. Ask her a little bit about her, nothing to personal, mind you. The personal stuff should wait until you have a strong rapport. Nothing turns me off more than a man who thinks he's so important, he has to impress a girl by telling her everything about him in 30 minutes. Women are intrigued by a little mystery just as men are. You reveal too much of yourself early and there's very little anticipation in regards to learning more about you as the relationship progresses.
3. Treat her with respect and admiration. Maybe I'm old fashioned, but there is no bigger turn on to me than a man who is a gentlemen and demonstrates this by treating a woman with pure class. MOST women are appreciative of this, period. Women who don't appreciate a man who acts as a gentlemen aren't looking for a good man for the long run imho.
4. Last, but not least, bring your sense of humor. If a man can make me laugh, and stimulate my mind, it magnetizes me and most Gems.
btw, i've living proof that there are men out there who actually have all these qualities. I've been married to one for over 13 years.
Good luck KiNG23.....Gems are a challenge, but worth the endeavor.....hope this helps you with your Gem. remember one thing, however, you don't really make someone fall for you as much as you make them comfortable in your presence. and in time, they begin feeling more energized, happy and alive in your presence. it's really not all about how you feel or what you do as it is how the girl begins to feel when you two are interacting. Whatever you do, don't put on a facade. Gems will see right through you in a heartbeat. Be yourself and consider some of the things I stated above.

Posted by DazedScorp
Sprinkle glitter on your wiener...
like fishn' with a spinner bait.
Bwahahahaha Shiny Things! But if that works, it's only temporary! The question from the OP shouldn't be 'how to get a Gemini to like you". The real question should be "How to keep a Gemini interested in you".
But I like where this Glitter dick thing is going. Wonder if anyone has tried to Bedazzle their junk?
Swag

Posted by DazedScorp
Sprinkle glitter on your wiener...
like fishn' with a spinner bait.
LOL! Very clever.

Nothing beats a smart, funny, polite, imaginative guy who is nice and attentive to a Gem girl...then becomes unavailable. She has to choose the pace, and if you push your energy on her too soon, she will pull away.
GemRa, I concur!!
When I met my Cap husband he was quite reserved. Everyone we worked with thought he was cold and rigid. Then, one day he cracked a joke that no one else thought was funny (though it was probably because no one expected him to have a sense of humor), and we started to banter back and forth. One day we worked in close quarters and had an amazing rapport. After that day, he barely spoke to me for the next few days, which really intrigued me and made me want to speak to him even more!
Was this a mind trick to reel me in? Later when we were a couple, I found out the reason why he didn't speak to me was simply because we were busy at work. It was the side effect of the Cap's industrious nature, not any game, that lured me!
When I met my Cap husband he was quite reserved. Everyone we worked with thought he was cold and rigid. Then, one day he cracked a joke that no one else thought was funny (though it was probably because no one expected him to have a sense of humor), and we started to banter back and forth. One day we worked in close quarters and had an amazing rapport. After that day, he barely spoke to me for the next few days, which really intrigued me and made me want to speak to him even more!
Was this a mind trick to reel me in? Later when we were a couple, I found out the reason why he didn't speak to me was simply because we were busy at work. It was the side effect of the Cap's industrious nature, not any game, that lured me!

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