Huh?!

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Sola
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Last Thursday I met a Gemini man for dinner after he asked me out the previous week. We met early evening and I didnt home until 2am, but straight home..there was no sexy encounter or anything. I had a great time, and I could swear he did too, but there has been no contact since. I text him the Friday simply to say that I had enjoyed the night, because to me that`s simple manners. Man, i get that he`s probably not interested, but why not have balls and say that? He`s 34, so i guess I thought he`d be more mature than to pull that teenage vanishing act.
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nngemini
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I am a Gemini and talking honestly....we can just be pure assholes.

Though we know it's rude, if we are not interested, we just don't bother to keep up with all the polite stuff.

however, it might also turn out that he was busy with something/someone, and that he will turn out of the blue, and behave as if nothing has happened, and ask you out again.

play along, and ignore it, Gems can handle anything but someone ignoring them.
we get crazy when we see the other person 'lost' interest.

good luck hun!
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Sola
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Yeah, but it doesn`t matter now if he gets in touch. His serious lack of manners and balls have turned me right off. He can ring my phone right off the hook, but there isnt going to be a "part 2" 🙂 The situation has lot its momentum for me. He was a little drunk, and made it clear he wanted us to sleep together, but I just wasn`t going there on a first date. He is probably just sulking like a big baby or used an FWB in the meantime, lol!!
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nngemini
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well it's a good thing that you firmly believe in what you are saying, and you seem to be very strong in sense that you don't let anyone play with you.
as a fellow lady, i take my hat off for that, but it just makes me wonder why would you post this topic then?

no offence, but you are either still interested or hurt.

if you care (for whatever reason you might have) and he happens to get in touch again, don't play hard to get for too long, cause then he will cool off real time.
if i am mistaken, then don't think about him or what happened, and move on.

conclusion: be honest with yourself and proceed with complementary action.
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Posted by Sola
Yeah, but it doesn`t matter now if he gets in touch. His serious lack of manners and balls have turned me right off. He can ring my phone right off the hook, but there isnt going to be a "part 2" 🙂 The situation has lot its momentum for me. He was a little drunk, and made it clear he wanted us to sleep together, but I just wasn`t going there on a first date. He is probably just sulking like a big baby or used an FWB in the meantime, lol!!



You're doing the right thing. If he shows this rude, inconsiderate behavior now, he will show it again.

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Posted by nngemini
I am a Gemini and talking honestly....we can just be pure assholes.

Though we know it's rude, if we are not interested, we just don't bother to keep up with all the polite stuff.

however, it might also turn out that he was busy with something/someone, and that he will turn out of the blue, and behave as if nothing has happened, and ask you out again.

play along, and ignore it, Gems can handle anything but someone ignoring them.
we get crazy when we see the other person 'lost' interest.

good luck hun!