What causes a Gemini man to go silent

She could be the super-jealous type and he toned down his socialization to make her happy. No creature more depressed than a Gem who can't feel free to socialize.

More often than not, negativity. Karma will eventually deal with her.

what is the point of this thread if you have such insight?

....hmmmm from a cancer .....that scorpio seems perfect for you. 😉

So you want this Scorpio, yes?

You know, people can be very different depending on whether they are in an intimate, committed relationship with you or just friends with you (even very good friends)

Posted by AirMan
you wanna know what i think? i think he should just stop being a people pleaser. quit trying to please others and just focus on you and your relationship. you can't always please people no matter what. he need to toughen up a bit. and its always the brilliant men with good education and a solid background that gets rejected by women *smmfh*. i wish i was there in his presence to tell this insecure gemini man "screw those that rejects you". and it doesn't make sense to not want anything to do with a man all because he's insecure. no no. that's being judgemental. and i've been picked on a lot too during my childhood days. a soft weaklin kid that couldn't stand for myself who practically grew out the hell outta that.

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I think you think that this gemini man is weak and can't handle being with this scorpio woman. The reason why you're talking shit about this Gemini man is because you want to be with this scorpio woman. You did say that you understand her? And he doesn't? You're also being slick about it by saying that this Scorpio woman is controlling this Gemini man, so it can seem like you're not talking shit. This Scorpio woman isn't doing anything wrong. If he's that unhappy, then he needs to move on. Otherwise, stay the fuck out of their business. Let them deal with it.

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Posted by Noreallynow
I think you think that this gemini man is weak and can't handle being with this scorpio woman. The reason why you're talking shit about this Gemini man is because you want to be with this scorpio woman. You did say that you understand her? And he doesn't? You're also being slick about it by saying that this Scorpio woman is controlling this Gemini man, so it can seem like you're not talking shit. This Scorpio woman isn't doing anything wrong. If he's that unhappy, then he needs to move on. Otherwise, stay the fuck out of their business. Let them deal with it.

Soo true. I also think if a gem keeps himself being led and controlled, he just needs to fuck somebody. Eventually, it will be over. The scorp will cry on your shoulder.

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You might be right. Coming from a scorp woman, if that gem fucks someone, then that would be the end of his existence(to me). I won't cry about it either.

So, yea OP, convince the gem to break up with the scorp. It may actually work. Tell him that she made him her bitch and tell him he looks weak and miserable. See what happens... See if she comes crying in your shoulder. Which I doubt that she would, seeing how she doesn't want you anyway. If she really wanted you, she would be with you. One thing I know about most scorp woman is that we're loyal. When we're in, it's all or nothing. Dont seem like you and the scorp woman will ever be anything more than friends. Just saying.

Oh and I was being sarcastic when I was saying that you should get them to break up. All that's going to do is backfire on you anyway. Why? Because you would be the cause of it. Then she won't speak to you at all.

Wow. With friends like you, that Gem guy doesn't need enemies, it seems.

Posted by Stihl46
This Gemini guy that is with my scorpio is jealous of me I can steal the attention of woman away from him every time. I have done it, fun to see him pout when a woman walks away from him. Big difference between him and I, women have flat out call me attractive and women say eww to the Gemini guy.

I was curious why he went silent for 8 months I've known this guy for years he's never stopped talking ever but he went silent. He is back talking again after 8 months of silence not sure what changed.

He is friends with the same women I'm friends with they have told me what he is like, he has deep insecurities it drives women away from him. They said they would never date him because he is too insecure. This guy craves attention if nobody is paying attention and he is standing on his own he will start making noises to get people to pay attention to him. He used to try flirt with my Aquarius friend she finally had to tell him to go away she wasn't interested.

He preys on weak women he even admitted it too me he says he likes damaged women they are easy to get into their pants. He thought this scorpio girl was a weak woman I think he got a surprise when she started controlling him.

I have Gemini female friends they are not weak and insecure like this Gemini guy is the girls are not people pleasers like him even the Gemini girls said this guy is insecure they want nothing to do with him. Another Gemini guy friend I know he doesn't let woman walk all over him he will kick a woman to a curb if he doesn't like a girl.

All gemini females aren't insecure... Some are.

Gems are MUTABLE. We change, change back, and then change again. Over and over...forever.

Why on earth do you care why he went silent? Are you trying to gauge how much longer he'll be with her, or something? Why don't you just ASK him why he went silent?

Posted by moongem
It might sound rubbish, but I think the OP is a woman who wants the gem man.

Hmmmm....maybe...

I get what I want when I want.

You DO? Because it seems to me that you want this Scorpio and he's got her instead.

Guys, you deserve a DXP medal for entertaining this imbecile.

My Gem would have stopped talking to him ages ago 😉

Honestly, WHY do you want this woman at all? You've described her as perfectly horrid. According to you, she stays with men she doesn't love for money, walks around so testy and scrappy that you have to tread lightly around her, is insanely jealous, and makes men so unhappy they fall into depression and feel like they have "a noose" around their necks.

Do you actually want her? Or, do you just need to prove that you're not going to be outdone because a guy you regard as a weak, annoying, ugly, manipulative, beta male has something that you feel you should be able to take away from him? It really does come off as pure insecurity and arrogance.

Posted by Undine
Guys, you deserve a DXP medal for entertaining this imbecile.

My Gem would have stopped talking to him ages ago 😉

Alright, then, I'll amend my post to add "control freak who needs men she can keep under her thumb" to the list of things that make her seem horrid. If you want her, you had better start jumping through some hoops and getting a lot more doormat-y, because that's obviously what she's looking for.