If you were my Gemini Girl.....

I have this dilemma and I figure its best to receive the opinion of the majority of Gemini women before I do what I'm thinking to do. As some of you may know, I've been actively waiting & won over this gemini girl. Well you know how you women show affection & its what she gives me when she's around. We aren't currently dating but we are on the brink of whatever it is you girls label your potential lovers. Anyway, we talk briefly once in a while & she does her Gemini thing & leaves me to do my Virgo thing. She is very protective of me & shows me attention in her way. Now the juice. Recently, I met two other girls (not Gems) who have pursued me like I'm worth my weight in diamonds. I kinda like the attention, but its only because my gemini girl is always off doing her own thing & doesn't act like that towards me, though I do know how she feels about me. My question is this.... Should I tell her about them or should I just keep it to myself since we're not really a couple?? I don't want to upset her & most gemini women believe men are a dime a dozen anyway. Her attention is always elsewhere. Why shouldn't I let the girls play & flirt with me— Afterall, what's good for the goose is good for the gander right— A little guidance on how she would react to me telling her will go a long way. I don't want to hurt her or upset her at all. Any advise— Thank you in advance. Am I wrong for playing—

Yes, playing is always wrong no matter what sign she is.. I don't know your history or what you mean by 'won over' but if this is the girl you want then you better forget your admirers before your Gemini girl forgets you.

Well its not like I'm cheating on her is it?? She's not claiming me. She just gets jealous whenever someone else has my attention. Also, if she wants to be with me I'm the one whose been waiting around for her. By play I mean flirting. I'm not physically cheating. How could I when I'm single?? I just need to understand how she would view it because I don't want to hurt her.

@GeminilovesVirgo Ummmm. Even if I was I wouldn't tell you. I need you to help me understand. I've read all your posts since I came on here. No I'm not. I don't work with my gem, but I still need advice. You have me thinking htough maybe it is something like that, which is why she's always running away from me instead of towards me. I just need some advice seriously.

So ok, if youre crazy about her and she has feelings for you, how come you are not an item? are you communicating you want to be?.. i agree regardless of whether you are, if you play she will lose interest, half the attraction to a guy is the attraction he has for us, its the dance, the dance plays a massive part in the buzz, youll kill the dance, no gem girl.

wow! umm, your best bet is to go date one of the other 2. you are playing a dangerous game that you'll regret ever playing.... again, wow.... tbto... i would've got rid of you a LONG time ago.... just sayin'.

@misslissa So a gemini in general is aloud to have 100 admirers, but because I have one other you would have gotten rid of me a long time ago?? Ok. Gotcha.

@guccigemini55 I understand this & this is the information I truly wanted to know. I do truly care deeply about her. I've waited patiently, kept my cool when she wanted all her space & to be really flirtatious with others. Not only did I dance, I danced as cool as Michael Jackson was in the 80's!!! For her. She has trust issues like so many people & I've been patient. I asked her today & she said she'll think about it & she promises to give me an answer right after she's finished moving today or tomorrow.

@DeeGee Sometimes in life you have to do what's best for yourself. I know you understand that. You're a Gemini. I have given my patience, my understanding, my time & my love asking for nothing in return. The night I met her, she actually was upset because her ex of 3 years was still harassing her. She didn't want to talk about it at all & she was really upset, so I stayed up all night telling dirty jokes to her. I help her after she helps everyone else. I have never let her down & I have never lied to her. I treat her as if she's my girl already & I never even kissed her. I deserve something for my undying loyalty.

The virgo guy i was seeing said he felt this and that and whatever about me and didnt feel anything more for anyone than me.. BUT! said there was a girl he liked and thought was kinda cute, finding someone attractive fine, contemplating it, 100% trust and loyalty or my time is wasted...

my response:

"ya know what? go get her..... see ya later 😉"

Posted by LostintheSauce
@misslissa So a gemini in general is aloud to have 100 admirers, but because I have one other you would have gotten rid of me a long time ago?? Ok. Gotcha.

@guccigemini55 I understand this & this is the information I truly wanted to know. I do truly care deeply about her. I've waited patiently, kept my cool when she wanted all her space & to be really flirtatious with others. Not only did I dance, I danced as cool as Michael Jackson was in the 80's!!! For her. She has trust issues like so many people & I've been patient. I asked her today & she said she'll think about it & she promises to give me an answer right after she's finished moving today or tomorrow.

@DeeGee Sometimes in life you have to do what's best for yourself. I know you understand that. You're a Gemini. I have given my patience, my understanding, my time & my love asking for nothing in return. The night I met her, she actually was upset because her ex of 3 years was still harassing her. She didn't want to talk about it at all & she was really upset, so I stayed up all night telling dirty jokes to her. I help her after she helps everyone else. I have never let her down & I have never lied to her. I treat her as if she's my girl already & I never even kissed her. I deserve something for my undying loyalty.

we're both intelligent ppl. right? lets keep it that way. i will be sure never to disturb your posts again, but the rest will catch on soon. :}

Posted by LostintheSauce
@misslissa So a gemini in general is aloud to have 100 admirers, but because I have one other you would have gotten rid of me a long time ago?? Ok. Gotcha.

@guccigemini55 I understand this & this is the information I truly wanted to know. I do truly care deeply about her. I've waited patiently, kept my cool when she wanted all her space & to be really flirtatious with others. Not only did I dance, I danced as cool as Michael Jackson was in the 80's!!! For her. She has trust issues like so many people & I've been patient. I asked her today & she said she'll think about it & she promises to give me an answer right after she's finished moving today or tomorrow.

@DeeGee Sometimes in life you have to do what's best for yourself. I know you understand that. You're a Gemini. I have given my patience, my understanding, my time & my love asking for nothing in return. The night I met her, she actually was upset because her ex of 3 years was still harassing her. She didn't want to talk about it at all & she was really upset, so I stayed up all night telling dirty jokes to her. I help her after she helps everyone else. I have never let her down & I have never lied to her. I treat her as if she's my girl already & I never even kissed her. I deserve something for my undying loyalty.

Ok saucey 🙂 .. want me to be 100% honest with you? im not meaning it as an attack or to be offensive with you in any way ok but to help you and for you to look within...

what i think I see here from reading some of your other posts too, ok its ok to feel as deeply as you do BUT I am also seeing that you want to make her jealous and there is some insecurity on your part, ie: general is aloud to have 100 admirers, but because I have one other you would have gotten rid of me a long time ago?? Ok. Gotcha....

lways attract admirers, its her way, dont be put out by it but be flattered if she is the girl you get to keep, being flirtatious is part of her make up, it DOES NOT mean its a sexual flirtation, she is a peoples person, she adores people, ...the REAL sexual flirtation will be for the guy she selects and boy he has to be really something, insecurity is a turn off for her, Virgo`s guys have an in built possessiveness, i saw this in my virgo, the jealousy game doesnt work she will see straight through it and wont play the game, gem girls are intelligent where as head games are a form of emotional abuse, she will see you as insecure and thats why you are doing it, I saw this in the virgo guy i was seeing, I saw it as a dumb move, he had no reaction, i saw it as his problem, not mine. Never change yourself to fit in, this is where it messes up, what she would want to see is the REAL you, an HONEST you, stripped down to the core, if youre insecure about something say, but take responsibility, own your feelings, dont resent her for what you feel, get used to her many admirers, its the way its always going to be, doesnt mean she wont be loyal to you, treat her good and shes a one man woman. An example I have 12 guys on my case to take me out on a date/ want a relationship, think Im their ONE at present, apart from my friendliness I have no idea WHAT I am giving out, Its actually becoming a problem because although I enjoy male company (being tomboyish) I am having to spend many evenings alone as not to encourage it and hurt anyones feelings, I am a one man woman and theres one guy on my mind and one only, Im not even with him! Im no more special than the next woman BUT there is something Gems give out, I dont know what it is. We love engaging with people, it doesnt mean its sexual, we are interested in everyone we come across and make time for everyone, you will have the feeling that she is spread thinly and often she is.

Be totally you, its ok to be open and vunerable, she wont take advantage of it, dont play games.. remember what i said run beside her, keep up, if you have a problem with it then its just that you dont fit and she WILL see it, she wont waste time she is looking for the guy who gets her and can handle it, no faking, REAL 🙂

Posted by DeeGee
@DeeGee Sometimes in life you have to do what's best for yourself. I know you understand that. You're a Gemini

And....so what are you trying to say? I think every sign under the sun knows that too....

The biggest dissatifaction in love is when youre motivated by fulfilling your own needs, true love is about what you give how you feed that love, no one else is responsible for your own happiness or feelings... this is what i mean by keep up with her, ie: intellectual, spiritual level, evolve with her, no offense but some of your thoughts and actions are a little behind sauce.

The comment "I know you understand that youre a gemini" is this an assumption we put ourselves first? if so then that couldnt be any further from the truth, we often put others needs infront of our own, we are humanitarians and everyones friend, until they get spiteful, resentful.

@guccigemini55 Thank you so much for laying it all out on the table. I greatly appreciate you opening up and commenting sincerely because trying to figure out what's really going on in the mind of my Gem gal is very trying at times. I came in here seeking to understand what she possibly could be thinking concerning us. Previously in a post, I had stated that she's the one for me. I meant that. I would rather read than bother wasting times with admirers. However, prying into the mind of a Gemini is difficult. You can receive a million responses, but never truly know anything more than initially. This was a scenario that stirs emotionally all people. I believe strongy in courting & always have only talked to one woman at a time. That is who I am. I actually stopped talking to the other girl last night, because of the way you expained this to me. My inital question was whether or not she would consider this cheating. The overall answer was exactly what I expected. With sincere gratitude, I thank you.

@DeeGee & @GeminilovesVirgo Thank you for your advice. My goal was to see how serious on the scale this was. Thank you for helping me understand that its a deal breaker. I need to ask forgiveness from you both. Its much easier to talk concerning an issue or situation that may arise than to act it out & look foolish or cause harm. My intentions were to avoid causing any harm to my gem girl. She's my one. There will always be other women in my face & other guys in hers. Such is the way of the world. Jeopardizing Wonder Woman for the girl at the bus stop is an unfortunate occurence that may happen often, however it will not happen in my life. I believe in her & though I may not fully understand her, that is the initiative to search for answers from all of you wonderful Gemini minds. I apologize for any discomfort I may have caused you. Unfortunately, a necessary evil in order to safeguard the one I love. I would never betray what I feel for her due to what someone else feels for me. With humble respect & admiration of your honesty, thank you.

Im guessing, correct me if im wrong its a friendship and he has fallen, theres been no kissing so i guess no causual sex thing going either, see this is the danger zone with a gemini woman, especially if you are showing insecurities, posessiveness ect, man you have to seriously hit the spot with her right about now, passion, wirl wind it, dont be shy, go in for the kill but do it good and right, youve got to know her and get her totally, youve got to have it takes to really fire her up at the beginning, shes the type of girl who is imune to guys hitting on her because most gem women i know get that all the the time, she has a choice, she selects.. just stop the games be you and be secure, if youre not be honest, put it on the table..

@DeeGee yes true, id say more fuck with guys heads if they feel a sense of entitlement, wont be taken seriously if they arent their true selves or act a total wuss about it, we want a man.

@deegee .. ahuh 🙂
@ saucey.. Thats it!.. right ok, tell me if im right, she doesnt know half of whats going on in your head right about now and just how much you are feeling for her, playing it alot cooler than youre letting on right? scared butterless? told her youre in love? thats where the sense of entitlement and a lil bit of resentment is coming from because its a whole lot bigger inside of you than what she is seeing from you.. Spill 🙂

OH MAN BREATHE IT ALL OUT LIKE JOHN COFFEE!! 😄

.. I think you have worked yourself up about her so much youre scared shitless to commuciate honestly about your feelings incase you mess it up and lose her.. —?

@DeeGee @guccigemini55 Honestly, I've played it so cool she broke first & told me she loved me. When she did it was world shattering. I told her exactly how I felt the next day (playing it cucumber cool) and we just went right back to playing it cool. I began to show genuine interest. Sending her flowers for no reason, buying her presents for her birthday, & showing her my little black book. Complete honesty. She all of a sudden becomes the cucumber cool one & begins to ignore me. So, I chill and never interrupt her doing her thing. THEN.... she became a text once a week. This lasted for the past two months. The only time I've been able to get her attention is when I do a little head fake (Man trick). That's when she comes around and get territorial. We aren't dating. After reading your responses I laid it all out on the table & asked her to be officially my girl. She promised to get back to me after she finished helping a family member today or tomorrow. Also, she emphasized the fact that she has trust issues. Scared to communicate— Never that. I can't run from my feelings & bottling them up only brings more stress. I'd rather get rejected. Do you know what it feels like to burn for someone throughout. To wish it was cool to just drop by & have someone lay on you while you put popcorn in her hair or cook for her before she gets home. I've waited for her to be as comfortable with me as she can be. She talks to me when she feels its too much & I make her laugh it off with my corny jokes then help her as best I can... when she lets me. 10-1 its me telling her I love her & her ignoring it to the point of almost feeling unsure of myself. Maybe this will all makes sense tomorrow but today, I don't know what she's thinking or what she really feels.

This waiting is so nerve wrecking. No amount of exercise or tea is calming me down... Ughhh!!!! You know that feeling you get during a job interview you know you're qualified for, but it's for a much larger company. Having 3 people interview you in one office & two more in another on the same day all for one position?? It feels ten thousand times more nerve wrecking. My tie is beginning to choke me & under my suit is getting kinda warm. lol The suspense is terrible!!!! I hope that it lasts.... 🙂

Posted by DeeGee
Oh, FWIW, trust issues to what extent? because we should all have trust issues, its natural to feel someone out for a time. The question is, how deep are her issues?

What's up with her family and friends? why is shes always up they're arse? is someone sick or dying that she has to put her life on hold?

Lol @ why is she always up their arse? .. lol straight up, funny

ps im laughing at the way its worded not the situation.. 🙂


Sooooo... all we can do is sit and wait....

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Ok.. I know you want the juice. She's only had one boyfriend in her life who cheated on her, so she scrutinize to the letter never risking anything inside herself for a guy. Not even myself. She's been single for 3 years because of it. I ran her gauntlet. It actually wasn't hard at all. Just be myself. Throughout the entire time she's been looking out for her family. She watches her nephews after work & spends her weekends with her parents & siblings. I used to think that she was just a pimpette, but she's the real deal. She always put her life on hold for her family. Its one of those things that are admirable. Previously her dad was sick, she stopped going to work until he was better. She never left his side regardless of the consequence to her personal life. She holds on tightly to her loved ones & is never too busy or preoccupied to make sure they're ok. Because of this I have been in constant limbo, waiting for when she can make time for me & accepting it as the way it had to be. I see Wonder Woman in her character. I just want to be the lucky guy who gets to rub her back at the end of the day. She inspects men like an interrigator & for the most part see no good in most of them. She hasn't been out with anyone except her best friend in years. I think that she had her mind set to the idea of never taking guys serious again. Don't know what I did to change her mind, but I can't deny that I wanted to.

sooooooo—....

What does that mean soooo—? I thought you gems were more verbal?? 🙂

Ohhh... Do you mean you want to know what's happening right now—? Not a D*% $ Thing...

Posted by LostintheSauce
Ok.. I know you want the juice. She's only had one boyfriend in her life who cheated on her, so she scrutinize to the letter never risking anything inside herself for a guy. Not even myself. She's been single for 3 years because of it. I ran her gauntlet. It actually wasn't hard at all. Just be myself. Throughout the entire time she's been looking out for her family. She watches her nephews after work & spends her weekends with her parents & siblings. I used to think that she was just a pimpette, but she's the real deal. She always put her life on hold for her family. Its one of those things that are admirable. Previously her dad was sick, she stopped going to work until he was better. She never left his side regardless of the consequence to her personal life. She holds on tightly to her loved ones & is never too busy or preoccupied to make sure they're ok. Because of this I have been in constant limbo, waiting for when she can make time for me & accepting it as the way it had to be. I see Wonder Woman in her character. I just want to be the lucky guy who gets to rub her back at the end of the day. She inspects men like an interrigator & for the most part see no good in most of them. She hasn't been out with anyone except her best friend in years. I think that she had her mind set to the idea of never taking guys serious again. Don't know what I did to change her mind, but I can't deny that I wanted to.

hmmmm.... Bad experiences scar a Gem just as deeply as it does a Virgo, I promise you.

I react to these pains the exact same way your lady does... I become cold as ice.

I agree with the above. some one said to me the other day, they described how they saw me " youre imune to guys making a play for you but you select the one who you want, when you do its everything from your heart and you fall hard" one lil bit of betrayal it wounds deep, but i would never show just how much, I appear as cold as ice but its not how im feeling by a long shot, I get on with life, keep moving, keep busy.

So she hasnt given you any inclination what she would like between the both of you?

Um, my ex used to call me stray kitty because I like freedom and I have to do my own thing, but Il'm always exceedingly loyal and actually tend to hang on a little too long sometimes.

I will say that Gemini women may stay interested in someone who is more mentally stimulating, and in unhealthy scenarios, that can mean creating jealousy or competition will make her think you're more valuable.

I wouldn't bank on it, though. My sister is a Gemini and my mother has literally said that she changes men like she changes her underwear. She isn't a ho or anything, she doesn't sleep around, but she seems able to leave relationships, and wants to go out all night, or hang out in bars and if I was her boyfriend, I probably wouldn't like her very much, and I've told her that point blank.

My moon is in Capricorn, though, and my rising sign is Scorpio, so I have an intensity and a loyalty maybe that some Geminis don't have.

If she's air across the board, she may just be like "whatever" and keep moving on.

Posted by guccigemini55
I agree with the above. some one said to me the other day, they described how they saw me " youre imune to guys making a play for you but you select the one who you want, when you do its everything from your heart and you fall hard" one lil bit of betrayal it wounds deep, but i would never show just how much, I appear as cold as ice but its not how im feeling by a long shot, I get on with life, keep moving, keep busy.

I relate to this a lot.

No. She's told me she was still very busy & she's sorry. I'm used to that part. I just don't know what to think anymore. Is she really busy like that?? I fuess I'm somewhere last on the priority list. LIMBO... lol

Sorry. Meant "guess"

Lostinthesauce,

Leave her alone at this point, it's your only chance now to see if she'd have a change of heart. You should never EVER try to sway a Gem's decision in any way (even if you are being sweet or kind or whatever. Reason I say that is because if it's not a decision she came to on her own, she will always question it and will never truly give herself to you.

Gems know what they want. Trust me when I tell you nothing stops a Gem if she wanted to be with you.

The above is very true, Im thinking now she is letting you down gently, its true, nothing would get in the way, she would find a way.. its not fair to leave you in limbo about it, live your life dont put it on hold.

I wouldn't dare disturb her. She text me this morning at 1:00am, "Good night baby. Talk to you tomorrow." Has it been a long time?? Two days??

Uhh shes an odd one to work out to be honest, looking very push and pull.. no 2 days isnt a long time, i can go ages.. Just be completely you, DO NOT be afraid to say it how you want and be how you want with her for fear of losing her, at the end of the day who wants to be anything different from who they really are, anyone who truely cares and loves you WILL stay, Nothing is worse than being in limbo, Lay it on the table how you want to say it, not how you feel you should say it, if she doesnt want you then she should put you out of your misery properly.

@guccigemini55 That sounds like the voice of experience.... lol Blew a few cannons at mosquitos have we—

She text me this afternoon & told me she's still helping her sister. She called me the pet name she gave me. If all you Gem Ladies are confused, how on earth am I supposed to know what's going on?? lol I'm at the point where regardless of the answer its better just to hear it (on the inside). On the outside, in order to keep up with her coolness I'm acting like I never even said it. Not pushing or pulling. Just waiting.. I guess I should see it as anything worth having requires sacrifice, patience, time, & effort.

haha not wrong there 😄 .. Ive been on both sides, Im pretty straight up, I learnt my own lesson what its like to be in limbo and had to just go for it whatever the otcome because the feeling of where you are at was just horrible, really really horrible, I also felt the person wasnt just stripping his mask i could see through that but i like people to do just that because i respect them more and trust them more, it shows me that they are confident and not bothered about being theirselves and being vunerable, it tells me they trust me. From being in limbo myself i kinda learned what i must have put other people through and how emotional unavailable i was to good people, they didnt necessarily fit with me but i see now deserved to be put out of their misery through me communicating honestly so they can move on.

Now! Im wondering whats going on with a guy who i get on really well with but done the aqua disapearing act thing lol, im going over and laying it on the table on tuesday coz Im NOT going through that ole limbo game, ya want me ya want me, ya dont then ya dont over and done with lol

Posted by LostintheSauce
She text me this afternoon & told me she's still helping her sister. She called me the pet name she gave me. If all you Gem Ladies are confused, how on earth am I supposed to know what's going on?? lol I'm at the point where regardless of the answer its better just to hear it (on the inside). On the outside, in order to keep up with her coolness I'm acting like I never even said it. Not pushing or pulling. Just waiting.. I guess I should see it as anything worth having requires sacrifice, patience, time, & effort.

What if its all for nothing though, what im saying is you could be sacrificing just to be thrown a few crumbs once in a while and holding in, compromising your own feelings and worth in the hope that she will eventually come around, this is why I saay take the bull by the horns, lay it on the table, be you dont play it to her level for fear of losing her, if she cares you wont lose her, see this is the lesson i learnt the outcome wasnt what i wanted but had to deal with it so it didnt continue in the way it did, jeez the feelng of freeing yourself from all this is much better trust me, your situation could be different, lol mine was a virgo guy so was the other way around.

@guccigemini55 Honestly then it was all for nothing. You learn from it grow & try not to make the same mistakes. What welse could I do— My love isn't her problem.

🙂 true.. All that lovin is all about you.. BUT! how selfless can you be— Can you do it— lol and if so Im guessing youve gone through a learning curve since your first thread O_o lol lol ... just teasing 😄

Ouch.... She is going to Karioke tonight. I just said the hell with it. I've learned a priceless lesson & I don't care how many nicknames & pleads I get, I've been a fool for too long for her.

Did you not get an invite? if not this is what im talking about, a man who would climb mountains for her assuming shes knowing all of that big love in there, first opportunity away from the stressy life, calls you up cutey pet names, where is she?.. its time you got out socialising i think mr 🙂

@guccigemini55 That's the easy part. what's going to bother me is tomorrow or in a day why is going to try & treat me like I'm made of solid gold— Confusing....

Play the vanishing act you Virgos are so good at, it'll reward you in gold with a Gem.

I've dated a Gem guy before and he chased me down like a pit bull. When I gave him a chance he ran away like I was the black plague... I picked up on his skittishness and completely ignored him after, he just absolutely went nuts because I wasn't hysterical about him leaving. Too bad I just wasn't that interested to play the cat and mouse game with him so I still ignore him to this day.

This goes back to the point I tried to make earlier, if she's not sure about you, she'll continue to do this push and pull thing. You need to set your foot down and be completely fine without her and she'll see that and wonder why you are not head-over-heels and pining after her, and this behavior will be so curious to her that she'll hone her attention on you.

They're bizarre like that.

Posted by Nebulous_Cloud9
Play the vanishing act you Virgos are so good at, it'll reward you in gold with a Gem.

I've dated a Gem guy before and he chased me down like a pit bull. When I gave him a chance he ran away like I was the black plague... I picked up on his skittishness and completely ignored him after, he just absolutely went nuts because I wasn't hysterical about him leaving. Too bad I just wasn't that interested to play the cat and mouse game with him so I still ignore him to this day.

This goes back to the point I tried to make earlier, if she's not sure about you, she'll continue to do this push and pull thing. You need to set your foot down and be completely fine without her and she'll see that and wonder why you are not head-over-heels and pining after her, and this behavior will be so curious to her that she'll hone her attention on you.

They're bizarre like that.

Hahaha this made me smile, Im not one for cat and mouse games so I dont usually treat people like this because I think its cruel, i either like them in that way or I dont but theres a big fat ugly BUT! There is someone I like at the moment and its driving me MAD!! because Im a bit in limbo wondering where he is at, he told me he thinks we would make the perfect couple but since then Im hearing NOTHING! Im curious, im wondering why the disapearing act, cant stop thinking about him, tred to get his attention, I want to solve it! I AM FRUSTRATED! .. so hey, what have you got to lose lol lol 😄

@ Nebulous_Cloud9 I'm way ahead of you. I wished her a good time last night & I don't plan on talking to her again until she groans like Agamemnon for Achilles!!!!

@guccigemini55 Thank you for admitting that. It truly helps me feel confident in my course of actions. My nature makes it really hard to ignore someone I care about, but the audacity of this Gem girl makes me re-evaluate my beliefs on how to treat women in general. If you don't give them something to worry about you're boring them to death... My goodness..lol

@DeeGee No she didn't. I confronted her on the phone before she was about to leave & I could here in her voice she felt like she was under pressure. So I backed off & changed the subject. Along with changing the subject I made up my mind to run like hell!!! I'm npot giving her another opportunity to answer. I know like the back of my hand exactly what's she's going to do too. She's going to play it cool for exactly 3 days & then try to give me some attention. I won't be around for that. Shes going to get the run around like she's in line the first time at the DMV!!! 😉

I made sure I told her that I hope she has a great time. It's ok not to be ready for a relationship or not to want one with me, but she keeps leading me on SERIOUSLY!!!! She promised to answer me in a couple of days & didn't. She always makes sure I'm not talking to another girl making her spontaneous Check Ins with me. She always tells me she hasn't forgotten about me & that she loves me out of the blue just enough for me to believe in her. I just can't understand why?? Well.... there's only one remedy to this. Bury whatever it is I feel so deep that she can't touch it anymore.