I'm back... Confused by this Gemini Male again

So I met both of his twins... Sure one thinks I am his soul mate and the other well hate me and is trying to work through forgiving me for walking away 4 years ago. He calls everyday and find ways to see me. Although I prefer to be more sexual he prefer his imagination (nude photo and video exchange) until he decides whether our relationship is "safe" to pursue. He ask a million questions like my expectations, my ideal relationship etc. at the same time he tells me things to help me understand his emotional state (although he says he is not good with expressing emotions, he communicates them well after opening up to him about mine and requesting he does the same). He is pretty distant and swears he is working towards us being together and to be "patient" and that it is more than worth it. He just need time to process it all. Of course, I am like come on already time is ticking and you are thinking like a slug.

Here are our placements:

Me:

Sun Aquarius

Moon Aquarius

Venus Aries

Mercury Aquarius

Him:

Sun Gemini

Moon Aquarius

Venus Taurus

Mercury Taurus

I think it's safe for me to trust that he is really interested and love me like he says but his distance and lack of eagerness has me skeptical. If I take my distance he goes insane and pops up. If I challenge his lack of effort he swears I am seeing this all wrong. So someone help me understand because it's days I am exhausted by his stubbornness to not just come over have sex and let our emotions flow. He swear he is not that into sex and it should happen naturally... Wteva... But he swears long term he just want to ensure our partnership will not hurt him. I believe he is genuine but there is a part of me that feel like it's a load of shit... When I weight out his actions it is surely 50/50 in my eyes respecting that he is actually trying to protect his heart and vulnerability to love (which he say he fears). Advise please.

Btw he says I'm spoiled and want everything my way... I feel he is the same way but damn I bend but he is still stubborn... I am assuming we having some sort of power struggle too... Like last night he wanted me to come by him to hug and kiss I said no come over here and lay with me. He refused and so did I. But I have been at his call this entire time. So I am not budging until he gives in and his stubborness is strong... Like he enjoys the game... It's frustrating because I directly told him he give me what I want I will be back to being available to him again. He adores strong women he says so I guess he is "testing" my strength in his own way saying I have to be strong to deal with him... Ha I am a secondary asshole by nature sit this is nothing to me but why play the game though instead of just going with the flow? That's what I don't get,

Secondary Asshole & my distance is real to me*

A Gemini who is not into sex, are you serious? You already have the answer, stay busy and let him come to you. Keep your options open and never wait for a man. I have seen sun signs who are compatible marry. But in my limited experience as a psychic reader - it seems men fall madly in love with the sign most compatible with their Venus - Mars placements. I have seen a double Gemini with Venus Cancer marry a Scorpio, and or have long-term relationships with Pisces. I suggest you keep your options open and not wait for him to "decide". I have little patience for bullshit... which is what this is sounding like.. I have seen men dumped plenty of times but scurry after the chance of getting back together with the love of their lives. I think he is stringing you along pissing on your leg and telling you it's raining.

Thanks gals. That's the conclusion I have drawn. Bull butter.

I don't like that he's asking you to wait, that the wait "will be worth it." Instead of telling you that it's worth it, he should be showing you it's worth it. :/

To clarify the sex... He always want nudes and things as if we are in distant reationship... He has been hurt before (by me because he felt I was his soulmate who walk away 4 years ago). He told me he hates me for it but he is working through it but he doesn't want me with someone again chancing me walking away again because he feels he hasn't "matured"'enough. He don't want to run me away by him being "weird". I try to chalk it up as genuine fear because we do spend time and talk ALOT. He try to understand me because he say it is difficult to understand me. He also talks about his love for me but he don't want to get hurt again. However, I told him not having faith in me being there causes me to feel insecure myself. He is more concerned about providing me with all my needs and I expressed his fiancials are workable. He calls me to come give hugs in the middle of the day, talk about any random subject, and is full of compliments. He said his holidays hasn't been the same since I walked away and guess what? It's holiday and didn't stay last time and he mentioned having chills this time of the year. He is afraid to love me again but he also feels as me being back is his second chance. So I am confused.