is it just me?

ok friends, i got two a bit stu questions

1. Do you gems always slip from reality? like half of what your are doing you find your self daydreaming? then you realize it and get back to work. i know it sounds funny, but i ma just wondering if its true to you also.

2. Do you feel all weak and nervous when in love? im just wondering if i am falling for this guy? or i have some health probs...everytime i hear about him or thing i get this feeling? but i've been denying the feelings to myself but i don't know...dont even know what love is......

1. my friend..i have to admit it.. i do that sometimes. even when something important needs to be fixed... or even when something important is on my mind.. my mind drifts away onto something else.. but when i realize it.. i laugh in my head and be like... "silly girl you need to start thinking about what you were thinking before you thought of that silly thing."... for example.. i'm crying and complaining in my head about my guy and why he's so this and that... then all of a sudden.. i'm thinking about how it'll be cool to have long hair with this cute design cut, etc.. then i snap out of it when i realize i'm suppose to find out why he's this and that...

2. i do have health problems but i don't think it relates to being in love.. maybe stress n all. lol. but i think we gems are pretty strong about everything but when in love, that's our weakness... so when you feel weak, you're falling for him. but you have to learn that you can't have any guy take advantage of you. put your feet down and be honest with your feelings... but try not to nag too much either if you ever get to that point. lol. good luck and stay sweet.

I don't have mental flights and daydreaming episodes; and about the nervous in love thing I used to feel that way when I encountered my first crush, that can happen, it happens very suddenly, its a gorgeous feeling, its a beautiful natural rush, its something that you will get over as you cannot keep on having those crushy feelings its something that you would normally wean yourself off naturally, those feelings would become mostly sublimated after one or two maybe three incidences.

ahhaah... yeah, when they come, they come all at once don't they. i give three strikes and they're out. the only person i've tolerated and being so patient with is my current man.. only bc i love him.

hahaha thanks ya'll. 🙂 much appreciated..

i'm just a bit childish i guess. But the nervous thingy...i am not sure iam into him, he doesn't get into my heart, he's just in my mind..and i am aware of his flaws..which makes me stay at the door, im not sure if I should enter the room but i like the way i feel when i am talking to him... i guess i will just see..


about the dreamy thing...i'm drifting right now...ahhhh lol 🙂

you don't want to play games or do that at all. what goes around comes around and you'll end up hurting yourself bc it seems u do have a big heart.

being playful and feeling young does not mean you have to be immature... but i'm not calling you that i'm just saying okay.

i hate to say this but if you love someone, give them a simple test that's not too noticeable to make sure that if that's the person who can care for you... other than that... enjoy single life to the fullest lol

i don't want to play games..but sometimes I honestly don't know what I want

I want him, and I don't want him..

that's just the truth

..maybe i should leave

and come back only if i know what i want..

but how will i ever know if I go?

love is pain. you have to make that risk. to protect yourself from getting hurt, step one is to know that YOU WILL BE HURT.

Thoughts on "mind-wandering" by Gem Paul McCartney

"I'm fixin' a hole where the rain gets in
To stop my mind from wanderin'
Where it will go, where it will go....

"And it really doesn't matter if I'm wrong, Im right
Where I belong I'm right, where I belong"

(Sounds more like Paul than John (Libra)

GemGirlNVirgGuy, you are so right on that. Thanks

Tanya...where do i buy the chemicals? and is there a particular formula? 😉