Just a little question about geminis and sex.

How do geminis usually approach sex or sexual things?

I'm just curious to know. The gem boy I've been talking to for almost a couple of months has never really mentioned sex before except when he told me that he was celibate, and had been since the new year. So for the most part, we've been having light conversation, getting to know each other, and focusing on school. Lately (being the last week or so), we have been a bit more flirtatious, and he has been a bit more suggestive. Compared to the other guys I was seeing who jumped to sex rather early, I found it a little surprising. Especially since it came out of nowhere (not that I'm not enjoying it). Mind you he has his venus in taurus and his mars in aries, so that could do something too.

Posted by Lauren89
Two months is a bit strange for a man not to ask for any sex. Is it his religion that requires that he stays celibate until marriage?

If not then he either not be that into you or he might have a sexual problem. Like an erection problem... or he might not fancy girls that much.

Us geminis we love sex especially with someone we like.

Well he went celibate because he told me all he cared about was sex and getting girls to have sex with him and he had hung out with a bad crowd. So I figure the celibacy was a way to just get his life straight and for him to be able to focus on other things. He told me he had been doing pretty well with it, but I don't think that diminished his attraction to girls at all. I wasn't really bothered for how long it took because I wasn't ready to jump into anything sexual that quickly and he seemed to be okay with that. So for the first month or so, we just talked to each other and got to know each other, and the other half of the time we were both busy with classes and work. When we did go out though, he would look at me as if he had never seen a girl before and was very touchy, lol. But as of now, I made one playful little comment and it's like he let that guard down and he's been very playful and hinting quite a bit that he wants to do something.

So I was just curious to know how other gems viewed sex and what not.

That is true, lol. And thank you Lauren, 🙂. I do have my guard up because it's a slightly new development, but all the same, I've always felt he was a genuine guy. And I won't deny that I've been pretty against gems for a long time (it seems most virgos are lol), but he's been slowly opening me up to them and I can say... I'm beginning to like you guys, lol.

Actually cdarling, your post kind of hit spot on. I believe my gem did stop having sex so he could focus more on school and getting his life together; he studies more than I do. But I did notice that he started being more flirty as his semester was beginning to wind down and he had to focus less on exams and class. As you said, I think he's beginning to "cave" since he has less to worry about and we are getting closer lol.

Im a gem female..so that might b different but I don't like se much. Id rather talk& cuddle...don't even like kissing much...there are times when I do...but most id do it quickly...or do something else while having sex...like do a sudoku or something..no joke

Hahaha I find that cute for some reason. I think I heard somewhere that for a lot of gems, sex is very light and almost flirty, and they enjoy things like oral sex and cuddling more than actually having sex.

Im not a massive fan of sex and im a gemini.

I prefer to talk and cuddle also lol and i LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE kissing i could kiss for hours and i've NEVER ever had a bad complaint always been told im a very good kisser 😉 haha.

But yes, if I dont already have the "mental connection" established with you, and you cant manage to give my brain an orgasm before my body, then im not going to be up for sex much at all.

Turn on my mind, then you've got me 24/7. I can be SUPER SUPER SUPER h**ny all the time if i have that mental connection with my partner. Just one though of them, or me doing something to them any type of "physical" thought about my partner gets me going.

If i sleep with someone I dont really like (just for the sake of it which rarely happens though), im not very satisfied at the end. Im not the type to get just rubbed and touched and im ready to go, nuh uh, tease my MIND, f*ck my MIND, and you've got me for HOURS and believe me, when im IN THE MOOD, i do not dissapoint!! haha

I think I'm in love with nats