LolaBelle
@LolaBelle
13 Years
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Posted by LolaBelle
@pssymonstaa- He thinks when we are in an argument and aren't speaking what he does with other women is not cheating. It seems to him a disagreement means he can seek out validation and "love" through another woman. This is when I feel annoyed by him ignoring me for days, I want to spend time with him more (from once or twice a month to at least once a week, we live in the same town by the way) or I try to address an issue we've had in the past so that it doesn't build and cause trouble later. It seems he wants to brush all problems under the rug and if I disagree he can move on because I am being unreasonable. Then he can come back when he is ready. ONLY when HE is ready.
@misslissa- Thank you and I am sorry about your Father. Honestly from what I have read and experienced Gemini Sun/Pisces Moon have way too much going on in their self centered mind and float or swim away whenever they feel to ever be a good parent or spouse.
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He is ultra sensitive when he is called out for his evasive, contradictory, and odd behavior. Depending on his mood of course he may address my questions if he feels like dealing with someone else's hurt feelings or whether or not he thinks they have a reason to be hurt. When it comes to him hurting you he expects you to just understand and move forward. He will disappear for days at times and then return without an explanation as to why he was so difficult to contact in the first place. No contact at all until HE is ready. Then I better be responsive or I may make him feel rejected and hurt since he is ready to talk to me even though he has ignored my messages and calls for days. It's been 1 year and 4 months now and he is exactly the same confusing guy I fell for. At times he is so loving and close to me telling me how much he cares for me and needs me. How deeply he loves me. Then he disappears and gets annoyed if I try to talk through why he is in a distant mood. He can talk to other people when he is in these moods and post on his Facebook but I am still ignored. He also had his own idea of what cheating is because if I make him annoyed because I ask him questions or feel hurt he finds that as a reason to talk to and see other women. Other women who aren't asking him why he hurts them or why he is distant. Obviously they just know him on the surface. Then he comes back to me like nothing happened. I have read so many forums on Pisces Moon men and how they are ultra sensitive, evasive, distant, expect you to understand them without them having to tell you what their problem is, hate confrontation, unreliable, inconsistent, and emotional. I have also read from Pisces moons that they feel extremely misunderstood by most people because they hide everything inside and what they show is not how they feel. Please as Pisces Sun/Moons help me understand Pisces on the inside. Do you feel misunderstood? Why do you hide your feelings?