pisces female, gemini male ... help!

okay, so, essentially, i'm attracted to this gemini guy - which is obviously the case, otherwise, i wouldn't of titled this board as such - and i did some research and it says that it isn't that great of a match. one website said it was pretty ... worth it:

"When Pisces and Gemini unite, they can be a very mutually satisfying couple. There are a few things this couple should know in order to be successful in a lasting relationship. The two signs are at right angles in the Zodiac, which means that this can be a challenging match. These challenges can be overcome with patience, and understanding, but you will both need to be committed in order for it to work between you."

but that was pisces.com ... and i have a distinct feeling that a website by pisceans would only be filled with good will and butterflies. so i want your opinions, please! i have natal charts made up if you want those for comparison too, but his ascendant isn't there - though, could i assume that someone's ascendant is usually their opposing sign? but ... blah. yeah.

help? :3

my natal chart: http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal?member=&recalc=&name=Alaina&sex=f&d1day=6&d1month=3&d1year=1993&d1hour=17&d1min=10&citylist=Philadelphia,+PA+% 2842% 29,+United+States&lang=en
his natal chart: http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal?member=&recalc=&name=Eddy&sex=t&d1day=16&d1month=6&d1year=1993&d1hour=17&d1min=10&nohouses=true&citylist=Bronx% 2C+NY+% 2836% 29% 2C+United+States&lang=en

because i'm sure i'm much too abrasive for pisces males. (: plus i've never found one. i don't go looking for things, they have a tendency to find me!

my first love was a gemini... It was all one huge mess. but in the end of everything we loved each other. wish I would have known how we could have ended up. but a tragic circumstance got in the way.

I say just go for it, and if it doesn't work out then it doesn't because you'll always be wondering "what if" and if it doesn't work out I'm sure you will learn something from it.

I say this every time a Gemini/Pisces thread comes up.

unless there's strong compatibility elsewhere, you'll probably end up wishing you hadn't.

Posted by michaelfish
I say this every time a Gemini/Pisces thread comes up.

unless there's strong compatibility elsewhere, you'll probably end up wishing you hadn't.

word.

This is a horrible match .... much pain

Posted by michaelfish
I say this every time a Gemini/Pisces thread comes up.

unless there's strong compatibility elsewhere, you'll probably end up wishing you hadn't.

Ditto

air signs and pisces don't mix, in my experience. I've dated all three. 😐

Since you've hidden your post I don't know what the situation's like, other than that you're a pisces and he's a gem!
So much doom and gloom around, though...why are you so quick to say "it's not a great match"??
If you're not even dating yet and you go for it with this mentality, it sure as hell isn't! 🙂