scorpios

I''m gemini& I have few friends who r scorpios even though they say we''re not suppose to get on.But the fact is that I found scorpio doods very emotional and sensitive if u mean a lot to them like a friend.I am extremely attached or even to devoted to one my scorpio friend&I have been for a long time, I cant stop not being devoted.I dont know.Sometimes I feel its my friends power to make me come to her&see her.The only problem I feel at times, and I am sure all the geminis will agree with me if they have dealt with scorpios is when they shut down in their own shell&dont talk to u. I start to feel so bad about that.I want to help them,but all can I do is just wait for another day to pass or leave them 4sometime.And then I get a call from them or they need something from me.Does this mean they appreciate me? Anyone whos been with scorp.please give some advice about them, what should u avoid?Thanks

Hi!fellow gemini I too have been with a scorpio everything that you said is so true girlfriend,I think a scorpio is just born that way.I'm not trying to be funny and I know you love this man,but I feel you need to move on so you can be that fun lovin gemini that you are.

Hey Gina, thanks 4 reply.I actually decided to live my friend for a while because I was really fed up with this scorpio attitudes and behaviour of hers and I think she has realzed that I am became slightly different to her and stopped coming to see how she is.She actually was looking for me, I was very suprised.As u said u were with scorpio too? R u still together or did u break up,if u did who made the decision first?did u also have a problem with scorpio moods when were seeing or seeing now this person? Please reply my fellow gemini!!!!!

they do get on cos i had a boyfriend that sign and we got on fine!

Are u still together or did he or you broke up with each other?Just interested how long did the relationship last for?Did u find him too jealous or difficult?I am so devoted to my scorpio friend more then any friend I ever had in my entire life,thats quite strange because they say scorp&gemini supposed be really bad together.What do u think?

Rita, Scorpio is NOT your dream prince!

Howdy people, just thought i'd share my story.. i'm a gemini guy who's been with a scorpio girl for 6 months now.. and i'm going to stick my neck out hear and say that i strongly recommend it... of course if you want a boring and predictable relationship with someone who understands you then try a libran.. but if you want an intensely emotional relationship with mind blowing sex, then go for the scorpio.

Being a gemini, I have scoured the internet and read just about every 'love match' on the net.. with all the usual garbage such as scorpio is too jealous, gemini is too flirtatious, not a match made in heaven yadda yadda yadda yadda.. but i have always wanted a partner who gives me a run for my money, and scorpio does this very well.. i will also add that i am aware of the grounding influence that a water sign has had on my life... she has expanded my consciousness and changed my perspective on my life... i take life more seriously now that i am with a scorpio, my finances are in better shape, my career and my health have never been better..

Lack of conversation? It bothered me that i couldn't have the type of abstract conversation that i usually have with my other air-sign friends.. but after a while i came to understand why scorpio is so silent... understand this.. that they are continually observing what is going on around them in an acute way, and because of this they are in control of their world. Do not mistake lack of conversation for lack of depth, there are penetrating insights to be found that 2 hours of political/theological ramblings with another gemini would miss completely.

Moodiness? My scorpio girl is also extremely sensitive, and it takes a while to understand that her at-times volatile emotional expression is nothing personal, but rather her way of experiencing emotion. There is no point in trying to 'lighten her up' when she is in one of her moods, this will only make matters worse, better to give her the space to process the emotion..

Kindness? Yes. I think that in my experience a scorpio makes an extremely devoted, sweet and caring partner, i suspect that their extreme sensitivity is what causes them to lash out at times, but if they are treated with sensitivity they are grateful and devoted.

To sum up my gemini-scorpio relationships, we are total opposites that are intensely attracted to each other and perfectly complement each other... i think this is a complex and interesting relationship that has redefined my understanding of relationships altogether.. attraction and mutual admiration has little to do with having common ground, but everything to do with the interaction and evolution of two entities. Air and water in the right combination is perfection. Yes it requires hard work to communicate at times and to stop arguments getting hurtful, and i can fully understand why these relationships often don't work out, but a gemini of all people should appreciate a non-orthodox partnership such as this one... don't take anybody else's word for it.. try it for yourself, even if it doesn't last a lifetime it is well worth the experience, if you are open to the lessons this dynamic can teach you, then it will have a powerful effect on your life.

Gemini dragon I totally agree with you. Im a gemini girl with a a scorpio male for almost 2 years now and everything you said is true. Of course it depends on the individual but..he definetly grounds me in a positive way, challenges me so Im never bored and yes at times he is more quiet then I like but as long as you know how to get his attention playfully he'll talk. We have a great relationship and the only thing Id change is the jealousy factor scorpios have but that "mind-blowing sex" is definetly worth some one on one serious conversation about their well-known problem with getting too jealous. He listens and understands and really tries to work on it and I also take it into consideration. Honesty is our tool for every obstacle weve run into.