Seeking advise

I''m very uncertain about being friends with scorpio.We have known each other for a long time&went through a lot of staff together,but still I find our friendship suspicious.I feel that I have so much love for my friend&maybe she does for me,but sometimes I dont feel harmony with her.The relationship changes from wanting to be together and then suddenly cool off completely and I feel completely puzzled and disapointed with her behaviour.Its hard to explain,but if someone understands could u advise me how to behave with scorpio,because I dont really know.
Thanks.

Yeah - the same things happening with me - I've only known this scorpio for about 5 months and it is very weerd - sometimes warm and fun discussions; sometimes I am treated like I did something wrong. I too don't know where I REALLY stand and how I should act - it is very strange. But I am intrigued enough to still be interested...any advice?

Sounds like you already know what to do!
Time to say "See Ya"!

Well, Gemini& Scorpio's really don't mix to be honest, because they are very secrective people and they expect the worst in everyone, only because they don't trust themselves. They are always assuming your are lying about certain things. Jealously is a BIG one for them as for Gemini we hate to be asked 100 and one questions. Scorpio's always want to figure everyone out. Personally speaking I don't think anyone can figure out us Gemini's because we are always changing our minds about everything. Scorpio's prey on the weak for control that's want makes them secure in their realtionships and they will challenge the strength all the way. They will never say much about themselves until they know they've gained your trust. Gemini's don't take things seriously unlike Scorpio's. They attend to take everything too serious in your actions. Also they hate to be taking advantage of in love. Gemini is too firtatious for Scorpio who is always assuming the worst. They expect all of your undivided attention to be towards them at all times. Gemini's are not the one's to be attracted only to one person at a time. We are a sociable creature with life and people. The only way to capture your Scorpio is to give them a challenge and bring out their soul to the surface once they open up believe me you are stuck with them for life. They will never leave you alone. So you Gemini's out there stay away from Scorpio's they are dangerous and vendictive people. I speak from experience and they are still after me... Overall, scorpio's are very passionate and that is a plus, but not enough to hold down a Gemini..So my advise is to move on if you come across one...once they fall, they fall for a lifetime.

Boy do you sound sad. I can't think of anything that this Gemini Girl would rather have then her Scorpio Man love her forever. Any man that you really want should always be the center of your attention. If he is not then maybe you should not be in that relationship. Good luck to you

Yes, I am a Female Gem. My experiences with Scorpio Males are Control, Control, Control, of course the nature of the male plays a part also in his personlity.

Scorpion men can be very attractive and passionet, but they command your attention undevided, i could not give into the controling manner, it broke my heart becuase i really wanted this man, but it was worth the chase whil it lasted! M-

I can't believe that I'm reading some of the things that are being said about Scorps in here. I am a Scorp fem married to a Scorp. We are both very sociable, people oriented. Neither of take advantage of people. Much to the opposite.

I have to say the same. I am a scorpio woman dating a gemini man. We get along great. Even me and my gemini friends get along fantastic. Not ALL scorps are terrible people. We are capable of loving and caring for people..we just do it on a deeper level than most. Alot of what we do is based on feelings that most times are not wrong. It's a lot of emotion...gems Can you handle it? Gems are moody and tempermetal also.