Taurus guy likes me, but too its too late for him..

My Aquarius aunt has a small business in the city. Started working there a year ago. I met him there. Chatted here and there, nothing deep. We hung out once, I thought our connection was powerful went from a waving hello to long hello hugs. Rumor had it he had a gf. So I backed off a bit.

Two months go by and I saw him with an Asian chick. He passed by me, looked into my eyes and ignored me. I will never forget that. If someone shows me lack of respect, I will reciprocate. So the next time he went to my aunts business place he tried talking to me, I just smiled politely. I could give two shits who he dates, but he lost my respect as a friend.

A few weeks ago he comes again and tries to conversate
Him - "Hey how are you? How's everything?"
Me - "hello." Then I went back to my business
I've been kind of ignoring his questions lately and smile because I work there

My aunt told me he came in two days ago asking for me. She told me he comes by a lot to see if I'm there. I work 4 days a week. So might be true. My aunts bf told me he asks him for me as well.
Two days ago as she she stated...

He walks in looks for me doesn't see me but sees my work station. Sits next to my aunt.
Aunt - "You really like her don't you?"
Him- "sniff-sniff" yes he cried
I didn't know he felt that deep for me, but it's too late now
There is no inch of hope left for me to believe a relationship let alone a personal friendship can grow.
Yes I know people fuck up, people make mistakes, but I never received an apology.

He deserves it, the way I felt that day is the way he feels now
Karma is a bitch isn't it?

Unless the chick he was with was super controlling and he knew even looking at a girl was gonna bring down the Wrath of Khan on his head...
So you know, he respected the boundaries of the relationship he was in - to give it a chance....
Which is kind of cool, cos that'd be a sweet guy to date in some ways...?

He could of been with his sister, mom, or Michelle Obama and still say hello. Douchey move if you ask me. Want to act like I dont exist for 10 seconds, then I won't exist for you at all.

Things that turned me out of tune:
-he cried to my aunt about him wanting me(he's almost 30)
-at our work place(wtf)
-wants me to be with him, but pursued 2 woman since I met him(are you fucking kidding me? I saw him with some Asian chick)
-ignored my very existence no apology

I might be criticizing a bit(virgo moon), but I value respect above everything.
No respect=No Love

As unreasonable and immature as you are, in that you have irrational expectations on a friend ..... I say he dodged a bullet.

Good for him, even though he hasn't realized it yet.

Nobody needs a cocky bitch, who has no clue about boundaries, and then runs to forums to complain to try and convince people that she isn't a douchebag.


My hope is that he's happy, which of course he will be since you won't be there to ruin his life for him.

rant away gem. you see the ish in the other forums. this place wouldn't survive without it.....maturity lol.

Posted by P-Angel

As unreasonable and immature as you are, in that you have irrational expectations on a friend ..... I say he dodged a bullet.

Good for him, even though he hasn't realized it yet.

Nobody needs a cocky bitch, who has no clue about boundaries, and then runs to forums to complain to try and convince people that she isn't a douchebag.


My hope is that he's happy, which of course he will be since you won't be there to ruin his life for him.

Shut up.

Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by P-Angel

As unreasonable and immature as you are, in that you have irrational expectations on a friend ..... I say he dodged a bullet.

Good for him, even though he hasn't realized it yet.

Nobody needs a cocky bitch, who has no clue about boundaries, and then runs to forums to complain to try and convince people that she isn't a douchebag.


My hope is that he's happy, which of course he will be since you won't be there to ruin his life for him.

Shut up.

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that's their schtick...wacking people with a stick....just another attention whore.