LostintheSauce
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The Dark gemini Girl—
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i can sum up all those questions with a few simple phrases that are quite a simple explanation.... our world doesn't end with you, we still have others in our life and that's ok! 🙂 then you have the lack of maturity... also, if she wants to be shoved up your rear, she'll shove herself up there. 😄
No one want to change anything about the others in a gems life. Just try to understand it. In the sense of family loyalty, I understand Aquas are like that also regrdless of the situation. I'm just wondering if this would change after marriage? Can a guy become as important as a family member?? It's terrible to have to ask because a husband & wife are supposed to become one flesh, meaning sharing one soul. Are gems too divided & giving of themselves to ever simply be one with another person?? I love personal freedoms. It never bothered me being with a girl who spent most of the day gone. When she would arrive home, I'd massage her feet, have dinner ready, & listen to her daily adventures (I was with an Aqua girl). I'd like to do that with my Gem, but she's never down on earth with me. It's like she's Wonder Woman spinning the world in circles for mankind & she never stops.
1 How could a gemini girl expect a good man to take them seriously only when they desire to be serious about being committed, when their actions lack commitment to any type of personal relationship excluding family and long term friends?
a)When she is fixated on you THAT is when she wants to be committed to you for sure, inside she is taking it seriously but she wont want to be suffocated, she is a butterfly and she is selecting you just as much as you are selecting her, she just isnt letting on, she is ticking off the boxes.
#2 Why is it that when a gemini girl feels needed by someone they care about nothing else in the world matters?? Seriously, you girls would leave a really great guy you like a lot in the cold waiting outside the Majestic Theatre with no explanation for a long term friend & expect the guy to understand.
a) because she`s compassionate, EVERYTHING in the world matters to her, her man needs to be the kind of man who runs beside her, he needs to keep up to the same pace with his life and not mind not always having her full attention, you will have it in her mind.. if he is understanding and enables her freedom she will be loyal and return, within her relationship she keeps the friendship alive, it doesnt turn into JUST a relationship, she doesnt feel the need to explain, to be with her you should be already getting her, ever demand an explanation be prepared to shove the response right up ya jacksey 🙂.. she wont demand from you either and will give you the same freedom without question.
a)When she is fixated on you THAT is when she wants to be committed to you for sure, inside she is taking it seriously but she wont want to be suffocated, she is a butterfly and she is selecting you just as much as you are selecting her, she just isnt letting on, she is ticking off the boxes.
#2 Why is it that when a gemini girl feels needed by someone they care about nothing else in the world matters?? Seriously, you girls would leave a really great guy you like a lot in the cold waiting outside the Majestic Theatre with no explanation for a long term friend & expect the guy to understand.
a) because she`s compassionate, EVERYTHING in the world matters to her, her man needs to be the kind of man who runs beside her, he needs to keep up to the same pace with his life and not mind not always having her full attention, you will have it in her mind.. if he is understanding and enables her freedom she will be loyal and return, within her relationship she keeps the friendship alive, it doesnt turn into JUST a relationship, she doesnt feel the need to explain, to be with her you should be already getting her, ever demand an explanation be prepared to shove the response right up ya jacksey 🙂.. she wont demand from you either and will give you the same freedom without question.
#3 How can you expect a guy you're interested in to be there for you only when you feel like it? Its almost as if he shouldn't need you at all for companionship or just a little tenderness, and still be expected to wait around until you're ready for him. As if he's a favorite book on a shelf or something. We're human beings DAGGNABBIT!!!
a)Thats not true, if we love you or beginning to feel something for you we want you there for us always, although it appears cool we love with everything we got, sometimes its over whelming, we need you but are not needy of you, we want independence, we love companionship, we are looking for our soul mate, if you were waiting around thats boring for us, we like novelty, tempt us with something exciting, stimulate our minds hit on the adventerous side, make us wonder what you are up to and what we are missing out on.
And last but not least #4 Love is an action verb Gem girls. It requires time & effort. How can anyone believe you are in love with them or have any feelings for them when 97% of your actions and attentions are elsewhere?? When most people say that they love someone, they are around to show it. You girls turn handsome virile men into desperate, frustrated, bitter bastardsssssss in longing.
a) generally i would say our love is expressed in many different ways not always through mushy affection, we arent overly emotional, when we are we puke up our soul, although we are affectionate, as cold as it sounds the fact that we are there in the first place we do NOT stick with just anyone, he is special if we are there.. our loving is EVERYTHING we do for you, LOL even making you a drink or it could be the most imaginative ways of loving you, it could be the way we kiss you that day, it could be the fact we showed up, making you laugh, teasing you, we flirt with you even after years of relationship, if we love you we are WITH you, just not living in your pocket, but then another day we cant get enough of you and need you around giving the most tender love.. we are actually loyal if you have won our heart, our love for you is expressed through our loyalty also, we like our space some days because the whole world is going on in our heads, thats the reason why we are late to mostly everything, thats just part of the package, we dont mind you having space neither.. it feels like we leave you longing because i guess it feels like you havent got us fully, everyone wants what they feel they cant reach right? 🙂
Posted by misslissa
i can sum up all those questions with a few simple phrases that are quite a simple explanation.... our world doesn't end with you, we still have others in our life and that's ok! 🙂 then you have the lack of maturity... also, if she wants to be shoved up your rear, she'll shove herself up there. 😄
Lol. I agree. Ya still need to maintain a life of your own.
So... If I'm understanding correctly, the goal is to just trust in the love. Know that she loves me & trust her fully. She expects full love from the moment she says that she loves. We each have our own lives to live & our own priorities, but what we share is the bond of love that keeps us together on the inside hidden from the world. Its beautiful. Its how I actually think also, but I never actually met a woman that thinks that way. Us Virgos enjoy personal time. What usually happens is women demand more attention from us. Its as if I've actually met a person who thinks about relationships the way I do. I've never been so consumed with any woman. I never acutally cared enough to do all this for the sake of a woman. I just always felt like whatever. Maybe its the first time I''m actually in love with someone. I know it & I can't help but feel like I want to shower her with the world!!!! And she makes me feel like all she's interested in is me. Irony..lol
Well for me I might be a little more elusive due to the fact that I have Gemini Sun/Libra Rising/Libra Moon/Gemini Mercury, but as Misslissa said we will be all up in your business if we are interested. However I like my own time. Right now I have a Taurus with lots of earth placements (Virgo especially) really in my space. He's unbelievably attractive and his personality is amazing but the grip he wants to hold on me is making me want to seriously run as fast as possible.
I would like to add how Gucci said a few things on how our love is expressed it is NOT in the normal ways that most people understand. Unfortunately this is why water signs have the hardest time with us. We do NOT dote, push, writhe all over you, shower you with gifts. For me it makes me feel suffocated. I prefer people poking fun at me and vice versa, being a total jerk (yes I said that, I like it when guys have some witty retort on the verge of being called a douchebag) but of course that is all in jest (some people hate that, esp water signs take it way too seriously), flirting, etc. She is totally right though on this the fact that we are there should suffice to us. Because we might have a roving eye but if we decide you are the one we would like to talk to and date that is saying a lot. Normally I just flit on to other people if I am not interested or avoid you like the plague.
I would like to add how Gucci said a few things on how our love is expressed it is NOT in the normal ways that most people understand. Unfortunately this is why water signs have the hardest time with us. We do NOT dote, push, writhe all over you, shower you with gifts. For me it makes me feel suffocated. I prefer people poking fun at me and vice versa, being a total jerk (yes I said that, I like it when guys have some witty retort on the verge of being called a douchebag) but of course that is all in jest (some people hate that, esp water signs take it way too seriously), flirting, etc. She is totally right though on this the fact that we are there should suffice to us. Because we might have a roving eye but if we decide you are the one we would like to talk to and date that is saying a lot. Normally I just flit on to other people if I am not interested or avoid you like the plague.
Oh yeah, we like that flirty jerky sparring, its mental stimulation, to us its foreplay, we like the challenge, its a dance for us, for a guy to actually give us a run for our money when it comes to wit, now thats exciting!.. we get bad press over having a roving eye, like libra we see beauty, we notice things about people, it doesnt mean we are going to cheat.. yes I would on quickly if im not interested, im learning to be different in regards to avoiding people like the plague because I have found if you leave someone in limbo with some they get quite obsessive and dont move on, i see thats unfair now so i will now make the effort to be straight up and just say.
You know @guccigemini55 its funny you should say that because in the beginning I wasn't trying to give her the time of day. She knew it too. I wanted nothing to do with her & she just wore me down like a hound chasing a rabbit. Maybe that's why she told me she loved me in the first place because otherwise I would have never succombed to her Manizer seductions.
Posted by Xin
Well for me I might be a little more elusive due to the fact that I have Gemini Sun/Libra Rising/Libra Moon/Gemini Mercury, but as Misslissa said we will be all up in your business if we are interested. However I like my own time. Right now I have a Taurus with lots of earth placements (Virgo especially) really in my space. He's unbelievably attractive and his personality is amazing but the grip he wants to hold on me is making me want to seriously run as fast as possible.
I would like to add how Gucci said a few things on how our love is expressed it is NOT in the normal ways that most people understand. Unfortunately this is why water signs have the hardest time with us. We do NOT dote, push, writhe all over you, shower you with gifts. For me it makes me feel suffocated. I prefer people poking fun at me and vice versa, being a total jerk (yes I said that, I like it when guys have some witty retort on the verge of being called a douchebag) but of course that is all in jest (some people hate that, esp water signs take it way too seriously), flirting, etc. She is totally right though on this the fact that we are there should suffice to us. Because we might have a roving eye but if we decide you are the one we would like to talk to and date that is saying a lot. Normally I just flit on to other people if I am not interested or avoid you like the plague.
^^^^^^ YES! All of this ^^^^^^ Thank you for that answer XIN, it's basically the exact one that I would have given.
+1 .. I concur 🙂
Speaking of which in unison with the point all you lovely Gem babies are trying to bring home, my gemini girl just sent me after speaking to me only a couple sentences in a week a gift on a chat site saying "I haven't forgotten about u baby. I love you. Mwah!!" The Audacity!!!! I sent her a text telling her when she is available she can only contact me on Tuesdays!!! My busiest day of the week. Let her run the gauntlet like the rest of the women chasing me. Afterall, the King stays King!!!! I may not be Zeus, but I'm sure as hell an Odysseus.
^^^She may chase for awhile because it will amuse her. After awhile she will become bored with it or realize she's such a "gem" (no pun intended) that she shouldn't/doesn't need to chase you. So go ahead and "let" her run the gauntlet like the rest of your admirers; she'll be gone faster than you can say...—? If that's what you want you'll get your wish.
Find a Gemini with more earth or water in her chart, that's all I can say.
Or wait for her to get a little older if she's only in her teens or about 20.
My sister is more like what you describe than me, and I think she has less intense signs weighing her down (my moon is very srs cat and my ascendant is so intense) ...but like, yeah, when I was younger I had problems with being tied down by anything, and basically she has to choose you, not the other way around, and sometimes guys aren't used to that, they're expecting a woman to graciously wait and accept his advances, not to decide for herself that you're the one she will settle down with (this makes some people think of men, my mom says me and my Gem sister are the most "independent" of her daughters and neither of us have kids yet, and may not have them at all, while my other two sisters are always in a relationship and had children at a young age).
I'm very loyal in relationships, though, and can spend a lot of time with a guy I really like. I just have to have space, too. Sometimes I just want to be alone, even if that means taking a walk to get a salad and a bagel.
Or wait for her to get a little older if she's only in her teens or about 20.
My sister is more like what you describe than me, and I think she has less intense signs weighing her down (my moon is very srs cat and my ascendant is so intense) ...but like, yeah, when I was younger I had problems with being tied down by anything, and basically she has to choose you, not the other way around, and sometimes guys aren't used to that, they're expecting a woman to graciously wait and accept his advances, not to decide for herself that you're the one she will settle down with (this makes some people think of men, my mom says me and my Gem sister are the most "independent" of her daughters and neither of us have kids yet, and may not have them at all, while my other two sisters are always in a relationship and had children at a young age).
I'm very loyal in relationships, though, and can spend a lot of time with a guy I really like. I just have to have space, too. Sometimes I just want to be alone, even if that means taking a walk to get a salad and a bagel.
Posted by misslissa
if she wants to be shoved up your rear, she'll shove herself up there. 😄
No truer words have ever been spoken, lol.
Posted by guccigemini55
Oh yeah, we like that flirty jerky sparring, its mental stimulation, to us its foreplay, we like the challenge, its a dance for us, for a guy to actually give us a run for our money when it comes to wit, now thats exciting!
Agree very strongly with this one as well.
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#1 How could a gemini girl expect a good man to take them seriously only when they desire to be serious about being committed, when their actions lack commitment to any type of personal relationship excluding family and long term friends?
#2 Why is it that when a gemini girl feels needed by someone they care about nothing else in the world matters?? Seriously, you girls would leave a really great guy you like a lot in the cold waiting outside the Majestic Theatre with no explanation for a long term friend & expect the guy to understand.
#3 How can you expect a guy you're interested in to be there for you only when you feel like it? Its almost as if he shouldn't need you at all for companionship or just a little tenderness, and still be expected to wait around until you're ready for him. As if he's a favorite book on a shelf or something. We're human beings DAGGNABBIT!!!
And last but not least #4 Love is an action verb Gem girls. It requires time & effort. How can anyone believe you are in love with them or have any feelings for them when 97% of your actions and attentions are elsewhere?? When most people say that they love someone, they are around to show it. You girls turn handsome virile men into desperate, frustrated, bitter bastardsssssss in longing.
Well.... I guess I'm done for now, but I think this may not be the first time someone asked you girls this. As a guy dating a Gemini girl whom I never see or hear from, I'm taking it out on the rest of you. What the hell man!!!!!! Not really...lol