This female gem and I started off in a bad place but we ended up cool I guess. At this current state its confusing though and I would like some clarification on what to do. She admitted that she hated me in the pass but I guess now she tolerates me. I would likely start every conversation to check on her and her kids and the answers are always short. She would only message me if she needs me to reach someone for her. We were social media friends at one point and every time I posted up a picture or comment about something new I would purchase or a trip that I attended she would comment in a slick way. (I know it would be for me as she would update her status right after I would post up something also her and I have done this before so I would know). I extended the offer out to her to attend a trip with me and I was willing to give her some spending money. I also purchased a book for her from her favorite author as she likes to read and I sent her to the spa for her birthday that just recently pass. At the spa she started to bad mouth me as I found out when I went back to the spa from some friends. She told them that we weren't friends and she also spoke about the past and how she hated me. Once I found that out I cut-off all ties with her. Then yesterday a mutual friend of ours stated how she was upset and started posting things on social media again about how people always leave her and how real friends would be there no matter what. I'm confused cause if we aren't friends why is it affecting her? I'm also trying to figure out if she still secretly hates me or is jealous me of me still? I'm just trying to understand Geminis.
