hello my gem's! Well I have an issue with words and how they are said and how they are used and misused,mistreated,ect.... lol... I just hate to hear people use ghastly sentences or sayings even though I know many people don't even have a clue to how their words affect my ears and my brain lol. I just get soooo pissed off when I hear words and phrases that I can't help myself,even though the people who say them don't realize what they are doing to me or that what they do is wrong and perhaps it's not even wrong but I hate it. When someone says I have to go take a **** or I left some dirty **** on the toilet last night after puking my gutts out from all that alcohol ect... or even less offensive but still bad sentences like,boiled eggs give me gass out the azz,ect... get my drift? I just cringe!!! I'm such a wordy and can't help it! I get really pissed when people talk openly about their mating rituals and sexual acts,lol... I'm not a saint myself but come on! I don't want to know how many bj's you have or who bent your azz over the kitchen stove! I hate when people say,OMG I think this guy is soooo hot I **** in my panty! Freakin gross!!! I love sex but don't kiss & tell the world and some things should be kept private,hello! anyway,I was wondering if this is common among us Gemini sun people or could it be my Aries rising? Don't get me wrong,I am very blunt and sometimes painfully honest if need arises but I hate words put together that sound filthy or too much sexual info from people that I thought were classy at one time or another! I have no idea why I get sooo pissed just that I do lol anyone else feel this way?
now when I'm out with my man and we are together I don't care if he talks dirty to me and sexy and all that great stuff! ( I am single right now however but you know what I mean right? )anyway it's terrible language skills combined with too much familiarity & too much casualty about sexual behavior in others that really get me sick! I don't need to know how many times you have sex or that so in so does it with 10 guys, or that you got oral sex on your lunch break! Geez,show some class!
I'm going to say that getting upset over the mangling of the language is your Gemini and the gross-out factor over words is your Aries rising. Improper English drives me wild (I'm a Gem), but even though I have a bit of a gross reaction to some words, it's nothing like the reaction of my Aries mom. I can't even tell her I'm going to the bathroom to "pee" or she gets the willies.
GemFox, I absolutely understand where you're coming from. I'm no prude either, but verbal vulgarity and obscenity is offensive to me as well. I'm Gem sun, Leo rising, so maybe this *is* a Gem sun peculiarity.
Words are pictures to me, so I'm ok with banter and innuendo - I love playing with words, creating imagery and impressions with them, etc. - but I hate it when someone bludgeons my mind's eye or inner ear with too many details of their sexual peccadilloes. I love the back-and-forth game of hinting around, subtle suggestion, etc. because it leaves something for the imagination to play with, a little mystery to figure out, so to speak. Take that away, and my interest evaporates into thin air!
I am so glad others can identify with me and that this sick misuse of the english & other languages hasn't been totally accepted by everyone.It's insane isn't it? I totally agree with the both of you and what you are describing and that how it is in my world exactly so I know how your feeling.I am so happy I'm not alone and you understand just how I feel lol..
mystery is always good,and something to guess at or think about lol Words are very much like pix and you get alot from words and if they are well chosen but of course not too calculated lol,they sound alot better than if they are all globbed together and thoughtless
once someone crosses over to the line of obscene or vulger I am at first shocked then I look at my watch,even if I haven't got one on,I look at my wrist where it would be and say hmmm...well I gotta go! Have a good one lol
My favorite word-play is the double entendre' - you know, the ones that make you laugh, then think, and then wonder *what* exactly was meant! LOL I am the only female in a shop full of males, and the banter and word-play flying around all day long makes for a very fun day, every day. No, we are not PC in the things we joke about, but we all have enough class not to cross the line into vulgarity or obscenity. We're just a bunch of specialized grease-monkeys, but we have enough respect for each other to not "go there".
And yes, GemFox, you are absolutely, equivocally right about it all not being too calculated. The hilarity that ensues when you just shoot from the hip with it is what keeps us Gems hopping! :-)~
Nethgilne that sounds like the perfect game for me too lol... exactly! It's amazing how you can so acurately describe how I feel about things even better than I can lol... It's like your my twin lol... You are absolutely right!!! I love that sort of thing too. The respect,the temptation,the play,the teasing,the building up,the terrific humor and the great experience from it all.I love word play and the more fun it is when everyone understands not to go too far but instead have fun with it.
how they are used and misused,mistreated,ect.... lol...
I just hate to hear people use ghastly sentences or sayings even though I
know many people don't even have a clue to how their words affect my ears
and my brain lol. I just get soooo pissed off when I hear words and phrases
that I can't help myself,even though the people who say them don't realize
what they are doing to me or that what they do is wrong and perhaps it's
not even wrong but I hate it. When someone says I have to go take a ****
or I left some dirty **** on the toilet last night after puking my gutts out
from all that alcohol ect... or even less offensive but still bad sentences
like,boiled eggs give me gass out the azz,ect... get my drift?
I just cringe!!! I'm such a wordy and can't help it!
I get really pissed when people talk openly about their mating rituals and
sexual acts,lol... I'm not a saint myself but come on! I don't want to know
how many bj's you have or who bent your azz over the kitchen stove!
I hate when people say,OMG I think this guy is soooo hot I **** in my panty!
Freakin gross!!! I love sex but don't kiss & tell the world and some things
should be kept private,hello! anyway,I was wondering if this is common among
us Gemini sun people or could it be my Aries rising? Don't get me wrong,I am
very blunt and sometimes painfully honest if need arises but I hate words
put together that sound filthy or too much sexual info from people that I
thought were classy at one time or another!
I have no idea why I get sooo pissed just that I do lol
anyone else feel this way?