How come there isn't a topic just for love?

Or place where people can talk/ask advice about sex? (ahem) Not that I need it or anything.

*looks around*

Maybe it's assumed it would be under Miscellaneous.

Any questions? Not that I know anything or did anything(ahem).

*looks forward*

The blind leading the blind. I can't look.

I figured it out.. I just post my problems with zodiac signs.

Actually, if you leave the signs out, there's plenty to talk about concerning love.

I have a question.....why does it seem necessary to play the game? Why do some people have to play hard to get, or are only attracted to people who play hard to get? Is is really necessary to have to make someone want you? Do some people, (once they get burned, or because they had a questionable upbringing), not fall in love or love someone without having to have the BS come with it?

I don't understand this, with all the desire to have that kind of love....why do some people fight it so?

Belinda

A question about sex......would you believe that there are still men out there that think the vaginal orgasm is the only one worth having? The stone age has not died out yet.

Hi Belinda

Well let me start off with the love thing.. and by the way, I'm not expert-- just my little opinion.

why does it seem necessary to play the game?
- Because the average person is bored with straight forward interaction.

(Why do some people have to play hard to get, or are only attracted to people who play hard to get? Is it really necessary to have to make someone want you?)
- Some people actually like the act of falling of love-- over being in love entirely. Not to mention it's just damn fun to chase some people. Similar to answer #1, I think people just get bored very quickly, and if you toss them too much information at once, they either lose interest or become intimidated. It's not a matter of "making" someone like you, it's just a matter of finding the right bait to capture their interest. So people offer a little of themselves at a time, allowing a chase-- some fun-- and time for other person to decide how "deep" they want to get into a relationship with them. I mean, you cannot UN-KNOW a person, so it's always good to take your time while you're getting to know them.

I agree with you, some people take this chasing stuff too far. Sometimes, when you are sure you LIKE a person-- you just want to GET ON with it already.


{Do some people, (once they get burned, or because they had a questionable upbringing), not fall in love or love someone without having to have the BS come with it?}
I'd like to think that everyone (who isn't psychotic) falls in love or has fallen in love at least once. People who shut themselves off from love probably have a hard time understanding the simple saying, "live and learn". If you drive and you have an accident-- does that mean you should stop driving? Unless you're physically incapable, the answer is definitely, "no". Same idea applies to love. The problem is, some people can't grasp the ideas that (1) not everyone is alike and (2) the pain of broken heart will heal with time. So you get people bringing all kinds of crap into their relationships-- and sometimes ruining a good thing.

Of course, I'm OVER-simplifying the whys and the why-nots of dating, but it's a good base. Keeps me in the game.

-sTD.

AS for SEX !!

Yah, I know some men think that women only have vaginal orgasms. But in all fairness, some women think that as well. Probably because some women don't want to/ doesn't feel comfortable with/ or just don't care about masturbation. Which is too bad because the ladies who don't *ahem* "know" themselves, can't give a guy any direction. Also, the guys who date these women, they don't learn from the experience either.

-sTD

I say, everyone should LOVE themselves (physically and emotionally).

-sTD

I guess thats seize the vibarator.

Or whatever is handy. -sTD

Ok, explain this one.

On oral sex;

My boyfriend's dad told him that any man that would do that with a woman is not a man.

I laughed when I heard that one.

I don't get that either. That's plain stupid. -sTD