Any hope on this Leo man coming back?

We met in a class.
Recently things started to heat up.
He told me he was going away for the summer, and I took that as "don't get too attached."

He wined me, dined me, spent all his free time with me. He told me he felt comfortable around me, and I an aquarius, stroked his ego to it's heart's content.

I know he's been very successful in his life, he's always in charge of something. leading something, in pictures or on public display. He's never really had a chance to make mistakes, or just do what he wants without being judged for his actions. I started to realize that him going away was definitely best, and wouldn't want missing me to become a distraction.

Then things started getting sexual. Not all the way... but you know. Sparks were flying. We were both very happy. He loves to cuddle.

The last night we spent together, he told me that he liked spending time with me and made a comment about how the thought of me with other men made him upset. My roommate and her bf were in a fight over infidelity, and that's what sparked that comment... I tried to admit that he was the only I was seeing, but I didn't want to get to deep into it, because that sounds like committed exclusivity... and he's about to go away.

Well we cuddled, morning cuddled, and he kissed me goodbye with a huge smile on his face... All communication ceased. I tried talking to him about a class related matter, and he didn't seem open to conversation. He ignored me in the class. And at this point he had basically ignored me for a week so I decided that he actually was an a $ $ wipe and decided not to ask him what happened.

He wound up texting me that night, that he was sorry for being rude to me during the class, and that he was starting to have feelings for me, but he didn't want them when he went away. He told me that I'm a wonderful girl and I deserved an explanation rather than being ignored.

He goes away in 2 weeks for 6 weeks, and he pulled the whole plug about a week ago. We never had any fights or disagreements, and I feel like if he just wanted sex and favors.. he would have manipulated up until he left, or at least tried to establish a friends with benefits agreement and try to put me on hold.. like any douche who has a chick who cooks them bacon after blowing them in the morning just because she likes to see them smile.

My question is... leos aren't know to come back are they? Since we weren't friends before, nor do we have similar social groups... do you thin

do you think he'll contact me when he returns? I would like to have some sort of friendship that maybe leads to more with him... I really liked having him in my life even though it was very short.

@greyrobe Thank you! I think you might be right.

I know he needs this time for himself, just as he knows it as well. I'm sure he'll fool around with other girls while he's traveling, and I'm sure that's easily part of the reason... but for some reason I think while he's effing all those other girls... he's going to be wishing he was effing me.

I had just heard that leos typically don't come back because it hurts their pride... like "I was wrong."

But I think that I came across positively enough about the decision that maybe he felt supported.

Thank you so much for your input. I'm a leo rising, so I kind of understand... but not completely haha.

Leo men are very loyal just shower them with affection and attention and adoration and love nod you've got you one fixed loyal happy funny LEO sun sign

He should come back - although leo men are known to be flirtatious, we will only go ahead with a girl who ticks most of the boxes in our ideal GF checklist, meaning - u already make a good fit with him.

Thats the exact reason, he was worried about u dating other men and he was looking to have a committment from your side as well. But u put him in a toss by not agreeing to committ into this relationship so early on. Your Leo is now just playing it safe and thinking if its worth the risk declaring u as his GF to the world, as he is unsure about u.

You should focus on showing him that he is special and the only one in your life. Clarify to him, that you would love to spend more time with him and convince him that you wont cheat on him. He will definitely be on your side then.

Cheers,
Leo

We've unfortunately seen each other for the last time in natural crossing before he leaves. I haven't heard from him since that text message, and I don't intend to contact him because that would be disrespectful to his wishes.

From what I know of him, he must not date girls in seriousness often. He's slept with about 10 people he told me, but he only had feelings for 2. He also knows I've never had a relationship before. We didn't go all the way per se, but I know I left an impression with what I am able to give outside of a relationship... which is truly what I do want. He told me I was by far the wildest girl he's ever been with and I never even let him go inside me haha.

I have such a deep respect for him and he needs his time away to figure some things out. I honestly believe that being in contact with me while he's there would not do him good.He's always had a million eyes on him and he needs the privacy and time for self discovery he can get there... He also does not need to be distracted. I know he'll probably get friendly with a few ladies... but he'll wake up in the morning and wish it had been me.

It wouldn't be wise for him to go away for so long when a relationship would be so young and we haven't known each other long. I think we both got carried away in the moment and forgot about that until he made that comment. He's used to having his pick of the night, and I've never had a relationship so it would be unwise to put a flame so close to such gunpowder.

He doesn't doubt my faithfulness or ability to stay faithful, I assure you of that.

I'm sure he'll come back.

I'm just the kind of girl he wants. He just isn't quite ready to have me, and quite honestly... I need to get a few things in my life together without his influence as well. I'm sure he'll find a way to finagle his way into my life... just how he tricked me into going to dinner with him the first time haha.

Update: We've since spoken. We are friendly, but not friends. He also has been looking for excuses to text me.

We can't be friends because you can't be friends with someone you still think about naked.

We will end on a good note, and I fully expect to hear from him when he gets back🙂

Update: Wednesday this guy accepts the snapchat request I sent him after our second date well over 10 weeks ago... WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?! Any insight?
His move or mine?