Can someone explain to me our birth chart compati?

We honestly feel this major intrigue between us. There are some times when I feel great around her and others I feel I can't stand her. It honestly feels deep and shallow at the same time. I really can't explain it.

Been talking with someone for a month and it's totally strange between us. So many signs of potential highs and lows.

Hers
Sun 10°36' Leo
Moon 21°53' Capricorn
Mercury 20°09' Leo
Venus 16°24' Cancer
Mars 29°52' Libra
Jupiter 02°20' Scorpio
Saturn 17°12' Libra
Uranus 00°35' Sagittarius
Neptune 24°33' Sagittarius
Pluto 24°17' Libra

Mine
Sun 20°57' Aquarius
Moon 24°50' Taurus
Mercury 02°07' Aquarius
Venus 19°18' Capricorn
Mars 14°27' Scorpio
Jupiter 04°26' Capricorn
Saturn 16°12' Scorpio
Uranus 12°57' Sagittarius
Neptune 00°41' Capricorn
Pluto 02°01' Scorpio

Oh god. Both of your sun/moon combos and the same as me and my SO's. The rest of your charts are different though.

This is how it went for us, but every relationship is different.

Serious chemistry, lots of drama. There's a magnetic pull, but also a bit of ambivalence. But security is important to both of you, so if you get involved in a relationship you both may stay when it's time to go. That magnetic attraction also won't let you stay away if you do manage to break free.

Lots of drama? I can believe it. So many ways we act like we're different sides of the same coin. One is ready to dive head first in (but has over thought about it) and the other is wanting to take it slow and really see what happens. Did you two feel that you stuck it out when it was time to go? There was a week apart to deal with some stuff but we're back like nothing happened.

How long until you all started dating?

Lol, I don't even really know how to answer that. We met through a mutual friend, I was into him very quickly, and he had no clue.

We slept together after hanging out (in a group) for 3 months. I caught feelings really quickly, like within a couple of months. He wasn't sure for quite a while (I've never asked him when he realized I was "it"). I know he fought commitment for long time. We split up a lot during the first 5 years, and I went out with a lot of guys. No one compared.

He played push/pull games with me for 10 years before I finally decided it wasn't worth it. We broke up and 3months later I guess he had his "come to Jesus moment" and decided he didn't want to lose me so he manned up.

It's been 15 years since then. So in his mind we've been together for 15 years. In mine, it's been since we first started hooking up, 25 years ago.

Wow that's a very long story. Not a long boring but long lovely story.im glad you two are working out now. I'm glad you shared it. Thank you so much!

That was the short version, lol.

Best of luck to both of you. If you can each handle the other's temper storms, you'll be OK.

What about the mind games? We play so many games with each other and see right thru them. In some ways it's entertaining but is exhausting.

Yeah, that too. Except when I did it to him, he would shut me down in a heartbeat. He would just tell me (angrily) that he'd walk away from me because he had no time for bullshit games and he knew I was playing them. When he did it to me, I would just rage at him. Not entertaining, definitely draining.

Although maybe he got a sick satisfaction from doing that. We've never talked about it. I was a jealous, possessive, hot mess.

He has Aries mars, mine is in Leo. So different dynamics than you two.