Why oh why Leo!!!

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Aqu@Libra on Friday, July 31, 2015 and has 29 replies.

Why Do Leos React This Way in Relationships

Leos often seek validation and loyalty from their partners. External influences or manipulative comments can cause them to withdraw or distance themselves. Understanding Leo's need for trust can help clarify their reactions and guide healthier interactions.

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@Aqu@Libra
11 Years

So, I was into this Leo guy and he was into me. Then this bitch decided to warn him off me in that manipulative Gemini way. He let's me know out of the blue we should just stay friends and I said cool, can't beg him to be with me. Then he began avoiding me...Now I'm into someone else he's sniffing around me. He even admitted being warned off and backed out because he was concerned about what he heard about me. Ummm, that's my business now because?

I don't even want to be friends anymore with this dude...

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@Montgomery
13 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Aqu@Libra

Posted by Montgomery
I'm confused.

If it's no big deal, why make a thread about it... ?

Something's missing from ze story.

Always is.

The Thread's not about a big deal
Why do this is Though?

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It isn't personal, I'm sure... it's just like a dog who marks territory.

He doesn't want it anymore, but he doesn't want anyone else

to have it either.

I sure wouldn't lose sleep over it.

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@Aqu@Libra
11 Years

Posted by Ssupes
If the Leo wants her then hes sniffing for info. Once he figures out the deal he will come out swinging.

If he dont want her he will go about his merry way. He will only pursue now if he thinks the other dude is a challenge to him. (good looking).

Like a fuck you to him. Ya know?

Good looking, kind hearted and easy to get along with. I don't even need to stroke his ego a thousand times!!!

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@metalaquamonkey
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Ssupes
Typical double standards.

I personally hate double standards but I'll admit I have seen this among some Aquas (granted all signs could be equally guilty) but with a hint of self righteousness attached, which I also hate. That's probably why for me it's hit or miss with fellow Aquas.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by metalaquamonkey

Posted by Ssupes
Typical double standards.

I personally hate double standards but I'll admit I have seen this among some Aquas (granted all signs could be equally guilty) but with a hint of self righteousness attached, which I also hate. That's probably why for me it's hit or miss with fellow Aquas.

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i'm used to it.

meh. if you cant handle it, then you can't...

not for everyone.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

aquailbra chick reminds me of that other aqua chick who was all into the leo man and then wanted a cancer dude....

lol

does aqualibra chick have stellium cap in the 5th house too? and a leo rising? 😆

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@metalaquamonkey
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Ssupes
Don't think a libra can handle that type of person. They want lovey dovey and the Aqua isn't that way. She might like the Leo attention if she strokes that ego a little. Libras like lots of attention and aquas are distant as hell. We shall see

Not all Aquas are distant especially if they're into you. I guess other placements come into play regarding that though. I guess time will tell.

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@metalaquamonkey
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by metalaquamonkey

Posted by Ssupes
Typical double standards.

I personally hate double standards but I'll admit I have seen this among some Aquas (granted all signs could be equally guilty) but with a hint of self righteousness attached, which I also hate. That's probably why for me it's hit or miss with fellow Aquas.

i'm used to it.

meh. if you cant handle it, then you can't...

not for everyone.

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I can handle it but I just rather not put up with it. Just like you said, not for everyone.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by metalaquamonkey

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by metalaquamonkey

Posted by Ssupes
Typical double standards.

I personally hate double standards but I'll admit I have seen this among some Aquas (granted all signs could be equally guilty) but with a hint of self righteousness attached, which I also hate. That's probably why for me it's hit or miss with fellow Aquas.

i'm used to it.

meh. if you cant handle it, then you can't...

not for everyone.

I can handle it but I just rather not put up with it. Just like you said, not for everyone.

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it's not like they "see" they're doing it.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by metalaquamonkey

Posted by Ssupes
Don't think a libra can handle that type of person. They want lovey dovey and the Aqua isn't that way. She might like the Leo attention if she strokes that ego a little. Libras like lots of attention and aquas are distant as hell. We shall see

Not all Aquas are distant especially if they're into you. I guess other placements come into play regarding that though. I guess time will tell.

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some leos are distant too.

tit for tat.

*smh*

gimme a break.

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@metalaquamonkey
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by metalaquamonkey

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by metalaquamonkey

Posted by Ssupes
Typical double standards.

I personally hate double standards but I'll admit I have seen this among some Aquas (granted all signs could be equally guilty) but with a hint of self righteousness attached, which I also hate. That's probably why for me it's hit or miss with fellow Aquas.

i'm used to it.

meh. if you cant handle it, then you can't...

not for everyone.

I can handle it but I just rather not put up with it. Just like you said, not for everyone.

it's not like they "see" they're doing it.

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You got a point. Damn it Lisa now I'm probably going to reevaluate my outlook! Lol 😛

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@Montgomery
13 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by metalaquamonkey

Posted by Ssupes
Don't think a libra can handle that type of person. They want lovey dovey and the Aqua isn't that way. She might like the Leo attention if she strokes that ego a little. Libras like lots of attention and aquas are distant as hell. We shall see

Not all Aquas are distant especially if they're into you...

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Especially if they have a lovely and charming LEO Moon.

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@metalaquamonkey
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by metalaquamonkey

Posted by Ssupes
Don't think a libra can handle that type of person. They want lovey dovey and the Aqua isn't that way. She might like the Leo attention if she strokes that ego a little. Libras like lots of attention and aquas are distant as hell. We shall see

Not all Aquas are distant especially if they're into you...

Especially if they have a lovely and charming LEO Moon.

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Hee hee
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@Aqu@Libra
11 Years

Posted by metalaquamonkey

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by metalaquamonkey

Posted by Ssupes
Don't think a libra can handle that type of person. They want lovey dovey and the Aqua isn't that way. She might like the Leo attention if she strokes that ego a little. Libras like lots of attention and aquas are distant as hell. We shall see

Not all Aquas are distant especially if they're into you...

Especially if they have a lovely and charming LEO Moon.

Hee hee
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I got to find out my aqua has a Libra moon...that may explain why I haven't seen the detachment side of him. I'm a social bunny so am not demanding of his time and attention. So when I'm alone with him it is the definition of quality time!!!

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@Aqu@Libra
11 Years

Posted by Aqu@Libra

Posted by metalaquamonkey

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by metalaquamonkey

Posted by Ssupes
Don't think a libra can handle that type of person. They want lovey dovey and the Aqua isn't that way. She might like the Leo attention if she strokes that ego a little. Libras like lots of attention and aquas are distant as hell. We shall see

Not all Aquas are distant especially if they're into you...

Especially if they have a lovely and charming LEO Moon.

Hee hee
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I got to find out my aqua has a Libra moon...that may explain why I haven't seen the detachment side of him. I'm a social bunny so am not demanding of his time and attention. So when I'm alone with him it is the definition of quality time!!!

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Could the fact that he is a friend first have anything to do with why he's not distant/detached?

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@Aqu@Libra
11 Years

Posted by Ssupes
Keep us updated about the Aqua. I'm curious if you can handle the detachment issues, scatterbrains and double standards.

No detachment as yet. Scatterbrains sorted. I kinda keep him on track. Double standards, I thought that was ALL men? :-P

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@Aqu@Libra
11 Years

Posted by Ssupes
Keep us updated about the Aqua. I'm curious if you can handle the detachment issues, scatterbrains and double standards.

No detachment as yet. Scatterbrains sorted. I kinda keep him on track. Double standards, I thought that was ALL men? :-P

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@metalaquamonkey
12 Years1,000+ Posts

@ Aqu@Libra that could be why he's not detached. You guys already have a friendship so that's a good foundation (for any relationship really) and he's comfortable with you.

Just go with the flow and see what developed.