capgirlinlustwithleo

i am disappointed.
and i feel cheated.
i want to know
😢

i see,but it made me think something else.
do not repeat this again.

btw if he is caring enough to sit and wait for your reply.
it is so damn obvious,but still he is thinking something.not moving forward.
must be thatfear that you may not see him in the same light again.

(Snoops around)

i see your problem.been there.
it is always a risky situation. but fist tell me>>how has it been since you had a stable relationship?

edit-how long has it been?

i see

and how long have you know this leo?

btw if you still feel raw,take your time,if a new one begins with hurt inside,then it is not going to be easy to move to another struggle>>relationships are a struggle IMO
you constantly put in efforts to make it safe,and make sure you don't do anything to brake.all the more in the begining.

hmm
5 years is a long time.i am sure you have kept a watch on him.and youmust have made a mental note about too.
what is your observation?

according to me,sometimes time might not be enough to judge,but it certainly gives you experience with the person without being with him/her.

mars in scorpio is a tricky placement if you ask me.
we are almost vey sure about other things in life.but its hick ups in the love arena.
i think we are way too much concerned with protecting ourselves,than to take a risk here.
sometimes this tendency results in loss of a potential relationship.
i almost lost my princess because of this only.i was being pessimistic,and did not want to venture out for the fear of rejection.i thought she would most certanly turn me down,for she had broken up with another guy(my best friend) onlu a few months ago.

he has changed a lot over the time I've known him. He was in a stormy relationship for a couple of years at the start. He was devastated when that ended. He now seems to have gotten over it and has tried to sort his head out.





so what do you feel?
is he over her yet? IMO,i think he has moved on,by his behaviour towards you.but still knowing him personally,you will have a better idea,i can only speak by your viewpoint here.

So how did you manage to get together despite the setbacks? I think I read somewhere you had an immediate attraction but you were both not sure of each other.





long story.
ibelieve pluto has written about it here.agonizing tale it was at the begining.
i felt atracted to her,but was in a state of denial at that time,like i said,refraining from approaching.because i had also suffered a broken relationship with a leo recently.
she was available at that time,but i did not move an inch.just kept a watch at her from a distance.now i feel,had i approached her that time only,it would have meant lesser pain for all of us.

but i did not ask her out.instead,my friend(a scorpio) did.
and i just kept watching,as they got together.it was the first time for her that anyone asked her out,her first dating thing.although she now tells me that she told him no first,but he kept insisting,so finally she went on.giving it a try.
because by this time i was very distant frm her,just knew her through another person,and i did not try to get closer.my rigidity got the beter of me.

cutting the long story short(bear with me.haahaa)
he broke up with her.she was always committed to him.but he was in another state of shambles.
he was still hung up on his ex,who had gone out of the country,and ended the relationship abruptly.leaving him hurt and sort of shocked.so to forget her altogether he was intentionally *looking* for a nice girl,who would make him forget her.

btw he also has mars in scorpio.
**waits for capgirl's reaction**

all this while,when she was in this deranged relationship,i was around her,being the friend of the scorpio.
that is how we got closer as friends.i somehow knew that this relationship was going to snap at some time,but did not want to be the reason for it,so i kept a low profile,but made sure i was always around her.
we went to the salsa classes together,as the scorpio did not want to come(that was another sign of trouble)
it was a slow process but i made sure that she and i get to know each other.it was always going to be good to start as friends.🙂

So pluto naturally fell into your manly arms and cried on your shoulder?



well not exactly.haahaa
she closed herself after the breakup.for days i did not hear from her.she is one of thosepeople who keep the hurt hidden and deal with it alone.
so when she came to civilization,i went back to being the good friend i was.
butthere was a problem,a huge one.
she could not deal with the embarrasment of seeing the scorpio again,getting back together with his ex,who had returned>>the main cause of the breakup.

the equation>>
i am scorpio's friend>>he pluto's ex>>pluto is my friend also now>>i am in soupe again
haahaa

Hmm salsa classes. Were you her partner?



yes i was🙂
since the scorpio was being a grump,i thought i might aswell take the opportunity now😛

so after months of to-and-fro i thought,this is it man,she is not over him yet.i even went nasty on her on few occasions,when she asked for my help,thinking she wanted to use me as a way back to the scorpio.
so now i went into a hybernation of sorts,trying to sort myself out,and trying to find out what pluto had in mind,when talked to me.
i was actually geting a bit frustrated.

ooh that;s intimate lol. reminds me of that film the sound of music where he asks her to dance and she gets all frisky because they haven't touched before.



haahaa
you have picturedit well.she was clumsy and awkward in the begining,but it certainly helped in keeping the contact,as she came back to the classes after the break up,and we continued our dance🙂

i think it was that dance class only,which kept the thing going,otherwise she would have gotten all cold on me again.
i timely said sorry(not very easy) to her between the class only,to get back as friends,after i had snapped at her.

so finally,we did start to get warm with each other by the time the classes ended.🙂

then i took this time,and finally,when it was too obvious that she liked me,i went ahead and told her my feelings(again not very easy).funny thing was,she was recovering from a flu infection at thattime,very weak,and i was at her place(as a friend offcourse😛) taking care of her.
i just thought,this is it,or else keep going on like this till she finds yet another guy.
back to square one in that case.haahaa

lol this sounds like a mating ritual


haahaa
jits,it was the best salsa i ever had,with the girl tripping every two steps,trying to keep the balance,but failing miserably🙂

yes,knowing fully well that,she had the power to say no,and i had no other option but to leave her alone.
silly asses we were,she at the same time kept thinking that i might think she is using me as a rebound guy,and also that she did not want to ruin the friendship i had with scorpio,as if she wascomming between it.jeez i almost pulled my hair,wen did i say that!
and the scorpio was in turn kind of goofed off on her,he did notknow how to address her,even when he wanted to,he knew i liked her,when he got together with his ex again.

i am sure you are thinking mashed potatoes here.haahaa

ooh dirty dancing meets sound of music. Sizzling!




😛
evil as i was,i actually sometimes made her go off-balance,so she can hang onto me.haahaa
and i can hold her longer.
sometimes she would turn beat red.being a virgin and and all.novice😛

Peeks in.

Hiya and bya!

I am thinking true love conquers all



nut wait,there was moreto conquer than salsa classes,notorious scorpio friend,and my own mars.haahaa
her parents!
jeez,she is indian,i am saffie,her parents(both leos),did not take this very nicely.
go figure!🙂

**stands tall as if just conquered mt.everest**

but lets not get there.haahaa
that is another story from the deviltales.

your guy,is in a similar sort of situation.he is in dilemma,but still wants to be around you.so that he can keep a watch on you.
he is giving you time,todecide,but at the same time,saving himself from the anticipated hurt.

Yeah I don't know what to do so I stay out of his way but now he has manoevered his work towards me lol.



yes,the exact strategy,to be in your face all the time,yet not be in your face.
this way,he gets to show you how he is,that he might be interested,through subtle things,but he will certainly have it planned.just enough to make sure you can still be friends.

haahaa
it only means he is having the desired effect on you.stay strong,after sometime,he will start showing the withdrawl symtoms.😛
that is when he is getting frustrated that you are not catching the bait.exact same situation as with me and pluto,when i snapped at her.
happy days.haahaa

i think you need to tell him that you also are a little scared,and although you like him a lot,you are still apprehensive about going for it.but you don't have tell this directly.there are indirect ways to convey the messege.>>read turn his technique towards him only.
and then wait.🙂

haahaa
i was about to say that too.
its late now,and yes,pluto must be calling me anytime for phone sex.haahaa
goodnight with your sleepstud😛