do leo men come back?

i will try to sum up my story. i am a cancer girl and have been dating a leo for a month and then got together. weve been together for 5months and then split up. he was annoyed with his work and i became too clingy and attached, also was too nurturing and moaning (that he shows me too less interest, is flirticious to other women, never buys me gifts or takes out etc). his friends didnt accept me from the beginning. maybe because we all work in the same place and he has told them that i annoy him with writiting to him too much and im rather reserved-they saw me as crazy ad unfriendly, also i didnt like to participate in the events they organized as i didnt want to mix work and private life (i regret that now).

after the breakup (he kept saying hes unhappy, no emotional connection - that was a bs imo as we could talk for hrs, he is never satisfied with what he has etc) we still have been meeting, spending time, having sex. he didnt mention atb to anyone we broke up, i even after the breakup met his family, he met mine. he kept saying hes not ready for anything serious or that i should give him a few months to have fun and then if he wants he will come back. also said im diff to his previous gfs but while getting angry kept insulting me.

unfortunately as a typical clingy cancer i have been chasing after him and it was all on me - asking him out to spend time together. i know hes been flirticious with another girl from work now-it makes me look and feel awful. i can think they spend time together (and did before "as friends", she has got a bf in different town), but he swore they didnt sleep together. Also despite my best efforts (baking cakes for bday etc) his mum doesnt like me, his dad does. he has been ignroing all my msgs and calls for 5days..last time weve met he could change within 5minutes, we were talking, having fun and then he got annoyed told me to leave him alone, that it was a mistake he wants me to leave him alone..im absolutely confused and lost in tears and hurt.
can anyone tell me what to do? i really like this guy. i know i annoyed him with msging too much. he has changed since a few months, i know he hates his work and wants to leave, is stressed. but hes been more relaxed and fun before after the breakup became rude, mean and cruel to me, had good moments and then could change to a monster - insulting me, making fun of me, comparing me to other weomen..
i wonder if he will forgive me, come back, or at least if we will ever be friends.. can any leo man advise. thanks

Not usually. I am not a man, but a woman, however I only went back ONCE and it was for a Leo man. But I was immature and I thought I 'loved' him, but it was really just my ego not liking that he had moved on. Sadly I realized that too late and broke it off with him again. Learned that lesson though...Leos are FIXED, they wouldn't leave you if they really loved you. Our egos let go slowly though so they might double back for all the wrong reasons..

leow31, I know cancer-leo match that are working, same as taurus-aries..I think it depends on many other factors as well..
I just found out he has split up with me shortly after the new girl has joined our company..after all i did for him, its really disgraceful and sad

GreyWiz, I assume you are a leo?

I only wonder if he has really dumped me because of that girl? I did everything for him, was always there for him and the chemistry was great. We also understoon each other pretty well. After our breakup we still met, had sex, Ive met his parents, etc. I know since hes got annoyed because of my too many msgs hes been flirting wither her even more. Does he do it to humilate me and hurt me more or are leos really able to jump from one relationship into another?

many thanks for long explanation. the problem is, he is 25, has had 10gfs already. hes told me he was never in love with any of them. he said once to me that he loves me but then took it back, said it was just the heat etc hes told me im different to all other women he had, and that it all feels different with me and more serious. but maybe i was just being naive? because he is a very good looking and popular guy, he said he has never adored any women, so getting a present of him was rare. hes told me if i want someone to buy me flowers and presents its not him but thought maybe it will change. he bought me a few hings but i definitely invested more in this relationship. im absolutely surprised by his reactions, i thought he was happy with me, when we met we laughed a lot and were relaxed in each others company. its just recently that hes changed, had good moments and then later became frustrated and angry. im really sad now. hes told me a few months before i should give him a few months to have fun what i didnt do and then he would come back to me for sth serious - were these empty words as well? i really thought i meant something to him 😢
that part with confusion - im sure about it, it applied all the time

btw he actually kept saying he seacrching for the same thing like me - a relationship, that hes jel of his friends who have long-term partners..

GreyWiz, can you pls also reply to my question - if leos jump from one relationship to another? when ive told him 2 weeks ago ive met with someone for a dinner he was quite of angry and surprised, said im moving on so quickly, i then admited it was my friends bday.
he him self mentioned he needs at least 2months to move on. how does it apply then if he been flirting with this woman already, sleeping with me and now chatting with her and ignoring me..i dont get that guy

thanks guys. i hoped he would change but i start to doubt it 😢

well he is still young and behaves immature i.e. getting influenced by his friends etc. we had bad moments but also very good ones - despite it being a turbulent relationship, I was more happy with these few crazy moments than during my 6years long relationship that was stable and..boring. i wasnt really in love, this time i was and thought that is the guy. i know i did a lot of mistakes, i became too clingy and was pushing and pursuing too much..
i hope theres still a chance to start things fresh or at least that we can be friends one day

Posted by kalah
i will try to sum up my story. i am a cancer girl and have been dating a leo for a month and then got together. weve been together for 5months and then split up. he was annoyed with his work and i became too clingy and attached, also was too nurturing and moaning (that he shows me too less interest, is flirticious to other women, never buys me gifts or takes out etc). his friends didnt accept me from the beginning. maybe because we all work in the same place and he has told them that i annoy him with writiting to him too much and im rather reserved-they saw me as crazy ad unfriendly, also i didnt like to participate in the events they organized as i didnt want to mix work and private life (i regret that now).

after the breakup (he kept saying hes unhappy, no emotional connection - that was a bs imo as we could talk for hrs, he is never satisfied with what he has etc) we still have been meeting, spending time, having sex. he didnt mention atb to anyone we broke up, i even after the breakup met his family, he met mine. he kept saying hes not ready for anything serious or that i should give him a few months to have fun and then if he wants he will come back. also said im diff to his previous gfs but while getting angry kept insulting me.

became rude, mean and cruel to me, had good moments and then could change to a monster - insulting me, making fun of me, comparing me to other weomen..
i wonder if he will forgive me, come back, or at least if we will ever be friends.. can any leo man advise. thanks

Wait, wait, wait. Is there something I'm missing?? Why the fuck would you want this guy back— Insulting you, making fun of you, comparing you to other women— This guy is a DOUCHE. Forgive you— For what, being a decent human being? Dude, you deserve much more than that. You don't need forgiven. Oh, hell no. This shit is unreal, I can't believe there are so many douchers roaming the streets. Trust me, you don't want to be with that kind of a $ $ hole. Best of luck.